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This is more a question for members from smaller countries. Do you have something you do in your country that other countries does different but you find your way better. Make your case.

Clearly the question is wrong. You should eat yogurt or sour milk with cereal, not regular milk, it's too thin.

Or is there not a clear difference?

Good luck! Let us know how it went

I often like cuddly things in theory more than reality. Does that mean I'm wrong about one or the other, I'm not sure.

It might just be cultural differences. In Sweden "mind your own business" is basically the national moto.

I read a book where the plot was that aliens had agreement they were allowed to enslave any civilization that wasn't sustainable, so they came to earth to sabotage humans effort to stabilize climate change.

Aliens are not supernatural beings though. I would love for us to find aliens. I'm reading a book with alien first contact now and it's great.

Interesting. Do you know the concept of squishes?

For me it rare I'm asked. Do you bring it up or does it come up naturally?

This sounds like such an awesome set up! I'm a bit jealous. Cohabitation is one of the main things I want as a relationship. So when your parents don't understand at least you know there are other aros absolutely getting it.

Hej! Thanks for the reference to my home land. Hope you'll like it here in the forums.

Yeah but I've told him I'm aromantic and asexual and he seem to get it. Maybe I can ask more generally about how he feels about it. Like if it feels different for him to cuddle outside a sexual or romantic relationship context.

Thanks for the tip. If I would have known a few years ago when I was close by there, in Konstanz. However southern Germany about 24 hour train ride from me so it's feasible for me to go again. I can do a train cruise.

Probably the squish. I already have money past the happiness diminishing return limit. Money or the fastest computer in the world.

I don't really feel like traveling far due to the climate crisis. Because of I suppose my dreams are more about the journey itself than the destination. I'd like to sail on the tres hombres, or a ship like it. And I'd like to ride in a zeppelin. 😄

I used to think I had high standards but then I met someone that checked all those boxes and I still wasn't attracted to them.

Amatonormativity Although I do think if someone moved far away it would be considered reasonable for close family to be upset. For example one of my friends sister contemplated moving to Australia, which is pretty much the furthest you can get from my country. And my friend was upset that if she stayed there they might only see each other a few times again.

Being aro doesn't mean you don't feel anything. It's just about romantic attraction.

I think it's fine to use. Every person is going to give different imitation of what aroace is. If the label fits you currently use it. Aromanticism and asexuality is a spectrum. Sometimes it's hard to say if you're on one side or the other. Use what fits you best.

I think all brass instruments qualify.

I don't know... it still looks a lot like a violin. I would argue contrabass is more aro.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. What makes you unsure if you're aromantic?

Did it help you figure out if you feel sexual attraction but not romantic?

Yeah it might cause expectations that they have not agreed to.