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    boba
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    aromantic bisexual
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    female
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  1. "bestie, you don't need romance. You need therapy and probably medication." I wish this was sold on pins and stickers because I would give them out like candy, ESPECIALLY to my allo friends who "always find themselves in toxic situationships." also, aside from that. hi, b, I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. I know it sucks right now, and I wish I could give you a big hug wherever you are. I don't really have any advice that can soothe you right now or make you feel magically better. But I will say, being aro is a journey. Personally, the label "aro" was something that I resented at first but grew to find comfortable over time (read: 5 years.) In the way that you said some days are good and some days are not, I found it helpful to take things one day at a time. Wishing you lots of love, wherever you are!
  2. 10 extract a day Scheduled: Dec 18, 2022 at 10:00 PM to 11:00 PM, CST
  3. Talk Me Down - Troye Sivan
  4. boba

    Midnights

    Ok, gave the album some time and relistened. I now love Lavender Haze, Great War, and Mastermind the most! <3
  5. me, sitting w cat ears and fishnets in a cafe I frequent every Monday afternoon lol, "I suppose?" but in all seriousness, I may not go to my invited kickback bc I have so many chores to do and I haven't had me-time in like two weeks.
  6. boba

    Midnights

    You thought this was a safe space away from the Taylor Swift Midnights escapade??? aBsoLUTelY NoT!!!! I am here to discuss how absolutely gay Question...? is, but also to say I love Glitch and Karma. But also, I'm soft for BeJeweled! (I CAN STILL MAKE THE WHOLE PLACE SHIMMERRRRRRRRRRRR βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒβœ¨βœ¨βœ¨πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒβœ¨πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ)
  7. when it comes to guys, a very specific build. For girls, literally anything goes. But Jennie Kim will always be my #1
  8. Man, I was considering whether or not to say anything
  9. Persistent romantic acts, that are clearly unwanted, are acts of harassment. Mine unfolded out to straight up stalking.
  10. I was 15 when I started questioning if I was aro, 16 whenever it started to keep me up at night. 18 when I started to feel comfortable with the label. So, you're not too young, but the journey (questioning/identifying/what-not) definitely can take time. It's a cop-out answer, but truly no one is able to discern whether or not your aro/ace/etc. except for yourself. And even those labels can be fluid, and exist on a spectrum. It sounds like you could be ace. But. You definitely do not need to have all the answers right now, they'll come in time.
  11. I know people who use numbers, but they (and their audience) completely understands that "attractiveness" is subjective. And it's not ever used seriously, still a lil weird though. Leagues are definitely weird. Because like, what are the factors in that? How many factors are you using? Are these specific factors standardised (no, bc no one knows what "league" actually means, and even if u did have factors i.e attractiveness/personality/etc. it's still all subjective) ?
  12. sometimes, I worry that they think I said, "I am a romantic." vs. the legit, "I'm aromantic."
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