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alto

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About alto

  • Birthday 09/29/1994

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  • Name
    Alex
  • Orientation
    aromantic demisensual asexual
  • Gender
    voidpunk/cat therian
  • Pronouns
    she/they
  • Location
    California
  • Occupation
    Student

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  1. My church sex ed was awesome. In the end we had a big hot dog party, and a friend asked, "What's the big idea with them serving us tubular food?"
  2. I've had "crushes" (more like plushes or squishes). I'm still aro.
  3. I will tell you that I warded off a relationship that probably would have ended badly with aroace memes 😊 Triumph.
  4. I suggest you read THE OTHER SIGNIFICANT OTHERS by Raina Cohen. She talks about the end of a qpp with a woman named M.
  5. Have you heard of the webcomic KIMCHI CUDDLES?
  6. If I told my ex about you, she would freak out.
  7. My best friend (at the time, he turned out to be a jerk) came out as ace when we were both sixteen or so. So I started looking into being ace. I was only looking into it for the purposes of being a good ally, at the time I was pretty sure I was a lesbian. However, when about a year passed, and I felt no sexual attraction to anyone, I realized I might be ace too. I started saying I was questioning at seventeen, and I came out as ace at eighteen (after some sexual experimentation with my at-the-time girlfriend). Figuring out that I'm lith/aro has been a lot harder. I really only figured it out right before I went off to college. I was basically sitting down in Spanish class one day, and thought, "everyone I've ever crushed on, I've only ever wanted to be friends with them". This was a revelation to me. I then realized I could fit in very nicely with either the lith or aro category. I pretty much considered the matter settled after that. I did meet someone online after my first semester of college, and fell in love with him, but I still didn't want a romantic relationship per say (I wanted a QPR) so I feel that doesn't invalidate my identity. I am out to my Mom. I am not sure if she believes me or not (I'm autistic, so sometimes it can be hard for me to parse these things). I am also out to my stepdad. I think his main worry is that I'm going to be lonely forever and never experience love. That is a legit concern (I haven't told him that), because I spend a lot of time alone, even in college. But I have a really, really good crop of online friends (including one who calls me "Mom"). So, I am not worried about that for now. Hope that helped. ---Alto
  8. I have aro socks that I wear sometimes. They aren't really conspicous. I should get an aro pride tattoo like @Dark Confidant has :)
  9. I once posted a lot of queerplatonic memes in a groupchat that both me and the dude of my alterous/queerplatonic desire were in. He quit the groupchat and blocked me xD So don't do that.
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