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    1. Welcome And Forum Rules

      Introduce yourself here, where do you put yourself on the romanticism spectrum? What do you like to do? How did you find out you were different than others in regards to romanticism? Also, forum rules pinned to the top of this forum.

  2. Aromanticism

    1. Aromantic Discussion

      Want to learn more about what romanticism is? Not sure where you fall in the grey-romantic spectrum? Come here and discuss with other members.

    2. Aromantic Relationships

      How does aromanticism or greyromanticism affect the types of relationships you have in your life?

    3. Visibility, Articles, and Meetups

      Need help with Aro research, spreading awareness, or found a cool article to share on the subject of aromanticism or greyromanticism? Or are you looking to organize a meetup with like minded people? Here's your place!

    4. Romantic Allies and Partners

      A place for our romantic allies and partners of aromantics to discuss romanticism and how it relates to aromanticism.

    5. Aromantic Pride and Culture

      Would you like to see your orientation represented in the media? Have you found an aro themed video, fan fiction, have new a head-cannon or would you like some aro friendly book, movie, web comic, or music recommendations? Want to talk about flags and other ways to show your pride? Would you like to get creative?

    6. Anonymous Q&A

      You may wish to ask questions anonymously that you would be too embarrassed about asking openly. In this forum, you may post anonymously. Be forewarned that the rules of the ToS still apply.

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    1. Off Topic

      Anything topic is fine here!

    2. Arcade

      A place for silly games that require lots of posts... Have fun!

    3. Site Comments

      This is for suggestions on improving these forums or the main web site.

    4. Sexuality and Gender

      Topics here are about various sexual orientations or aromantic and greyromantic people, and the LGBT community in general.

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  • Recent Status Updates

    • Lex Barringer  »  Untamed Heart

      I've noticed you stated your hetero greysexual. I was curious if it's more like hetero-demisexuality? Whereas you only have sexual attraction when you're great friends with a man and you have great chemistry. You obtain a squish, like a romance crush but only on a friendship level.
      Having sexual attraction is just the mental / emotional side of the orientation but sexual arousal is the physical sensation and the reception of such, not necessarily will you act on the physical / biological urge. 
      Or do you have specific tweaks to the grey / demisexuality where you're a sapio, a person turned on by someone's intelligence and the way they present themselves in an intellectual manner with others, including yourself?
      I mean, there is so many areas to look into and research, let alone articulate about ones own self and how you view people. 
      · 4 replies
    • Untamed Heart

      Does anyone else find it utterly hilarious that some people complain about the odd comment on a (debate) forum being 'too long', when they've probably read books that are 100 times longer and possibly more in depth? (If they even do read). I get a bit pissed off at people complaining when they're just being lazy and most of the time the offending comment isn't even directed at them.
      Sometimes you do need more than a couple of paragraphs to really get your point across.
      (This is on another forum and didn't actually happen to me, but I did call the lazy idiot out on it).
      · 4 replies
    • Arocalypse

      When I'm not processing the server, I write. If anyone's interested i have two fantasy books out so far.
      · 1 reply
    • Arocalypse

      4 more members until lucky number 666. Who will it be?
      · 3 replies
    • Arocalypse

      661 members. We're getting closer to lucky number 666
      · 0 replies