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  1. Welcome

    1. Welcome And Forum Rules

      Introduce yourself here, where do you put yourself on the romanticism spectrum? What do you like to do? How did you find out you were different than others in regards to romanticism? Also, forum rules pinned to the top of this forum.

  2. Aromanticism

    1. Aromantic Discussion

      Want to learn more about what romanticism is? Not sure where you fall in the grey-romantic spectrum? Come here and discuss with other members.

    2. Aromantic Relationships

      How does aromanticism or greyromanticism affect the types of relationships you have in your life?

    3. Visibility, Articles, and Meetups

      Need help with Aro research, spreading awareness, or found a cool article to share on the subject of aromanticism or greyromanticism? Or are you looking to organize a meetup with like minded people? Here's your place!

    4. Romantic Allies and Partners

      A place for our romantic allies and partners of aromantics to discuss romanticism and how it relates to aromanticism.

    5. Aromantic Pride and Culture

      Would you like to see your orientation represented in the media? Have you found an aro themed video, fan fiction, have new a head-cannon or would you like some aro friendly book, movie, web comic, or music recommendations? Want to talk about flags and other ways to show your pride? Would you like to get creative?

    6. Anonymous Q&A

      You may wish to ask questions anonymously that you would be too embarrassed about asking openly. In this forum, you may post anonymously. Be forewarned that the rules of the ToS still apply.

  3. Miscellaneous

    1. Off Topic

      Anything topic is fine here!

    2. Arcade

      A place for silly games that require lots of posts... Have fun!

    3. Site Comments

      This is for suggestions on improving these forums or the main web site.

    4. Sexuality and Gender

      Topics here are about various sexual orientations or aromantic and greyromantic people, and the LGBT community in general.

  • Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Naegleria fowleri

      Raised some awareness today! Here's the conversation I had at the kids summer camp where I work. The kids are aged 7-9 and one kid had a sticker of a boy's face on her phone.
      Kid 1: Why do you have a sticker of him on your phone with all those hearts around it? Do you have a crush on him?
      Kid 2: No. I like him but I don't have a crush on him. I just put the hearts as decoration.
      Me: Hey, did you guys know some people never get crushes in their whole lives?
      Kids: What?!!!
      · 0 replies
    • aro_elise

      just btw, i'll gladly answer pretty much any question you have for me, whether apropos of something i wrote or of nothing.  i may not be thrilled with everything allos ask me, but i know you guys are always motivated by genuine interest and open-mindedness and i love talking to you.
      · 7 replies
    • Eklinaar  »  Ice Queen

      Your posts are all very relatable to me and I appreciate how you share your experiences.  Thank you.
      · 1 reply
    • omitef

      Me, pretend I'm too cool for my squish because I know we're incompatible as friends? It's more likely than you think,,, 💀
      · 0 replies
    • running.tally

      That feeling when all your good friends begin to ignore you, and all of your attempts to make new friends are blocked by people having romantic partners or an already-established group of close friends...
      Heartbreaking. And boring. /Rant over
      · 3 replies