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  1. Welcome

    1. Welcome And Forum Rules

      Introduce yourself here, where do you put yourself on the romanticism spectrum? What do you like to do? How did you find out you were different than others in regards to romanticism? Also, forum rules pinned to the top of this forum.

  2. Aromanticism

    1. Aromantic Discussion

      Want to learn more about what romanticism is? Not sure where you fall in the grey-romantic spectrum? Come here and discuss with other members.

    2. Aromantic Relationships

      How does aromanticism or greyromanticism affect the types of relationships you have in your life?

    3. Visibility, Articles, and Meetups

      Need help with Aro research, spreading awareness, or found a cool article to share on the subject of aromanticism or greyromanticism? Or are you looking to organize a meetup with like minded people? Here's your place!

    4. Romantic Allies and Partners

      A place for our romantic allies and partners of aromantics to discuss romanticism and how it relates to aromanticism.

    5. Aromantic Pride and Culture

      Would you like to see your orientation represented in the media? Have you found an aro themed video, fan fiction, have new a head-cannon or would you like some aro friendly book, movie, web comic, or music recommendations? Want to talk about flags and other ways to show your pride? Would you like to get creative?

    6. Anonymous Q&A

      You may wish to ask questions anonymously that you would be too embarrassed about asking openly. In this forum, you may post anonymously. Be forewarned that the rules of the ToS still apply.

  3. Miscellaneous

    1. Off Topic

      Anything topic is fine here!

    2. Arcade

      A place for silly games that require lots of posts... Have fun!

    3. Site Comments

      This is for suggestions on improving these forums or the main web site.

    4. Sexuality and Gender

      Topics here are about various sexual orientations or aromantic and greyromantic people, and the LGBT community in general.

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    • Jot-Aro Kujo

      Our friendship is strong but is it strong enough to withstand differing opinions on how to pronounce "Arceus"
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    • Jot-Aro Kujo

      "Meh meh fanfiction isn't real writing!" Mm yeah, hold up, I'll get back to you on that when I'm not 5 hours deep into extremely specific research about the details of living in one particular neighborhood in Cairo, Arabic naming conventions, Japanese sign language, the psychological effects of prolonged isolation, and vampire folklore in non-European cultures
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    • Magni

      I have great friends who I adore, but they're all alloromantic and most people simply don't value friendships the same way they do romantic relationships.  So sometimes I feel this aching loneliness because I fear that inevitably they're all going to get married and stuff and I'm just going to end up alone.
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    • arokaladin

      wish I could... talk about aro issues in real life without feeling like an attention seeking embarrassment...
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    • Jot-Aro Kujo

      I struggled a long time with not being able to find a label for myself, and feeling lesser or alone because of it, but now I almost wish I could go back to that time. Ever since becoming aware of my aro-ness, I've honestly felt worse than I have in a long time- not because I think being aro is bad, but because of amatonormativity, arophobia, the fear of spending my life alone, etc. I know nothing should really have changed, since I've always been aro, by all means I should feel better now that I know what I am... But I guess ignorance is bliss, or whatever
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