What would your ideal QPR be like?

[Angrboda]

Just curious. For those of you who want a QPR, what would you want it to be like?

[SkyTuneRein]

The fact one can exist and be meaningful would be a great start, because as I have gotten older it's harder to make friends or anything. People naturally tend to drift apart over time too, but here're the top 3:

• Trust (is a must)
• Intimacy (to appropriate/agreed levels)
• Communication (understanding and needs and barriers)

I would list "enjoyment of company" or somebody who's well humoured, but that's a must for virtually all of my relationships.

Edited May 16 by SkyTuneRein

[Sili]

This is an interesting question, and one I have been pondering on and off for a little. The answer is I really don't know. Most of the things I would answer with are things I would answer for any close friend.

[AromanticAardvark]

For me, we'd be purely platonic, but there would be a lot of the more physical boundaries that mostly just romantic relationships have (having sex, casual touches, kisses on the lips, etc). We might go on one-on-one hangouts a bunch, although they would ideally be very unromantic-coded things. Definitely no flowers or long walks on the beach or anything, but maybe we could go to a roller coaster park or Pride parade or something?

Edit: I may have misread this. I wouldn't NEED ultimate trust, but it would be an important part, and I'd definitely want us to be able to talk to each other about anything. And I'd like us to at least care about each other a lot

Edited May 16 by AromanticAardvark