Jot-Aro Kujo

I consider myself eclectic, but these days my practice is largely evolving to be part Kemetic, part (Puerto Rican style) brujería, with some inherited bits of stregheria for flavor hehe

Bestie this is a forum for aromantics

Yep, it's been around for a while. Moses Sumney himself doesn't identify as aro but the album slaps nonetheless

If this forum does anything even remotely related to crypto I will leave.

I mean, there's less than two weeks to go. Considering people need time to plan, prepare, and buy things if they intend on doing something in particular, I think that's a totally reasonable frame of time.

I heard about that a while ago, I'm definitely planning on streaming it when it comes out!

How can I remember what I've never experienced? Lol

Oh it absolutely is. Being a teenager is TERRIBLE because every bad experience is literally the worst thing you've ever experienced just by virtue of you haven't had many experiences yet. Plus hormones make everything feel like the end of the world. When you're a teenager everything is terrible, and then when you're an adult you look back and think, oh wow, those things weren't really that big a deal. (Also I'm 24. 24 isn't old. If you tell yourself that 20s are "old" then you set yourself up for a lot of self-loathing and distress when you inevitably haven't hit the high point of your life less than 1/4 of the way through it.)

Oh my god I didn't realize there were middle schoolers on here (14 is middle school right? I forget)... You guys are just baby wtf... Man I didn't even know aromanticism was a thing when I was 14. The times they are a-changin. I should probably stop assuming everyone online is like my age lol

Yeah, if that person didn't give you permission to tell others, then don't. They're trusting you with a very personal secret that could potentially put them in danger if leaked. It's not your place to tell others unless they said it's ok.

Oh? You're approaching me?

That is NOT just how parents are. Some parents may use that excuse, but there is no excuse for that kind of behavior. My own parents have been nothing but supportive to my brother in his transition. I promise you this is not the way it has to be, you deserve better for this and you should have better than this. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this, but it's no one's fault but your dad, and if he were really trying to help he'd get over himself and whatever shitty beliefs he's learned and open his eyes. I would recommend maybe trying to talk to other adults you know who might be supportive. If they can maybe get through to your dad, that'd be great, if not, at least they can be a supportive adult figure for you to go to instead. I hope you stay safe, and that your dad seriously comes to his senses. You deserve better than this.

So this is a website for people who DON'T (or at least, rarely) experience romantic attraction. This really isn't a "fix my relationship problems" site. That being said: Babe why you gotta know your wife's whereabouts all the time? Fuckin what, she needs your holy permission to go to the fuckin mall? Yeah, maybe she shouldn't have lied, but YOU need to think about why she felt the need to hide something as simple as going to the mall from you. If you can't handle your wife doing things on her own sometimes, y'all oughta get a divorce.

None. I had always been told that aromanticism was a type of asexuality. My sexual attraction meant I clearly wasn't ace, but my lack of crushes also meant I clearly wasn't straight, gay, bi, or pan. So I assumed I was nothing, and that there was something wrong with me, up until I was about 18 or so.

Merry Christmas and feliz Navidad!!

I mean in general not Wikipedia lol. Non-sexual kink is very much a thing. I wouldn't trust Wikipedia to write an even halfway accurate article on anything related to kink or sexuality lmao

What?? Non-sexual kink exists...

I mean, I'm bisexual, so yes.

A whomst? Bestie the only ring I wear is Claire's friendship bracelets

...Yes? The question was about an aro ring. I'm aro. This is an aro website

Congrats on the super high school level dancing, but I'm not sure what that has to do with aromanticism..? I think you might have joined the wrong site by mistake. This is a forum for people who are aromantic, meaning they experience little to no romantic attraction.

You've only been dating this dude for a year? Yeah, I would not do that. Unless there's something seriously messed up about your home life and you need to get out, I wouldn't do something like that. A year isn't a long time to get to know someone at all.

I'd say yes. If the desire is targeted towards specific people and not just like, the concept of being in a relationship, that would generally be considered attraction.

Will the app be inclusive of allosexual aromantics who may be looking for sexual relationships with other aros?

Goth, punk, a little bit of metal, and of course lolita. Though really they're all less "aesthetics" and more subcultures tbh. I'm not into any of them just for the looks, I participate in the philosophy as well.