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Jot-Aro Kujo

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About Jot-Aro Kujo

  • Birthday 01/20/1998

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    Alex
  • Orientation
    Aromantic bisexual
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    Female
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    She/her
  • Location
    Hell
  • Occupation
    Stagehand

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  1. Are you looking for aro literature in general, or specifically aroace? Not all aros are ace, so I’m a little unsure which you’re asking about.
  2. I’m still trying to figure out what I’m gonna do this year. Ideally I’d like to stream something, but idk what…
  3. As someone who's been in a similar position before: Break up with him. Ditch your friends. Whatever it takes, but do NOT put your own wellbeing at risk just because of peer pressure. Also, the wishing for a premature death thing? It might not sound that serious at first glance, but the reality is, that is 100% suicidal ideation and it's NOT a normal or healthy thing to experience in any relationship. In most cases if you said to someone "Yeah, I really like this person, but sometimes he says things that make me feel suicidal and he won't stop and all my friends agree with the things he's saying," they'd be pretty horrified, yeah? Also, to be honest... Marriage? He's thinking about marriage at 17, after you've been dating for FOUR MONTHS?!?!? Romantic or not, that's an absolutely absurd commitment to even think about making at that stage. Even if you were just friends looking to be roommates I'd be cautious, but marriage as a teenager to someone you've only been with for not even so much as a year... Yeah, no. There's like a 99% chance of that ending badly in any circumstances. It's also REALLY REALLY REALLY fucked up for him to make jokes about killing you for "cheating" when you talk about your friends. That's a sign of controlling behavior and is NOT an ok joke for him to make. Ditch his ass and don't look back. Get friends who respect you and your life choices.
  4. It's pretty cool sometimes 👍
  5. Nice to meet you. Vintage fashion you say? Got a favorite era?
  6. …You do mean aspecs who aren’t also bi, right?
  7. Panic attacks? That's concerning. Do you have a therapist? Have you seen anyone about an anxiety diagnosis?
  8. Yeah this is 100% sexual harassment, homophobia, transphobia, and pedophilia. Bring it up right away to an adult you trust. Document these behaviors as much as possible, try to get recordings or to get writings from the offenders so you have hard evidence to back you up. This behavior is 100% NOT ok, I’m sorry they’re treating you this way and they need to face serious consequences for this.
  9. What if it’s lip kissing in a sexual but non-romantic way?
  10. None of us know anything about you nor the people around you, so I don't know how anyone is supposed to even hypothesize about it, let alone give a correct answer...
  11. Yo. Always nice to meet another bi aro.
  12. Most of the original posts on the subject should still be on my blog: https://arotaro.tumblr.com/ In short, voidpunk is an aesthetic. It's not a kin type, it's not a gender or sexuality or anything like that- Certainly, one can incorporate it into their identity or vice versa, but ultimately that is not what it was intended to be. It's a way for people who face dehumanization (on a social/cultural level, as in being dehumanized by others) to speak out about it while having fun. It's not about "I feel that I'm xyz thing rather than a human", it's about "Oh, you think I'm not human because xyz? Fine, maybe I'm not. What will you do now?". It's about punk rock with cat ears and demon horns, you get what I mean? I don't say any of this to disrespect therians or otherkin or anything else along those lines. Certainly, there's a lot of those in the voidpunk community, and I support them very much! It's just that... I mean, those are things that already exist. People keep trying to make voidpunk into essentially just otherkin with a lot of nebulous talking about "the void" (I don't even know what that means tbh! The 'void' in voidpunk was chosen because it sounds cool), when that's not what it's supposed to be. Of course the politics and the support for people who face dehumanization are a key part of voidpunk, but as an identity it's never been super serious and should not be treated as such. It's literally just about cheering yourself up by wearing cute ghost earrings, or whatever.
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