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Is aromanticism part of the LGBTQ+ community?
Collie replied to MulticulturalFarmer's topic in Intersectionality
Can of worms in some communities (on AVEN there's a somewhat prominent amount of asexuals who say that Asexuality isn't LGBTQ), but most would say yes I think. We face oppression in society, just look at the public mocking by types like M*tt W*lsh (Daily Wire host) -
I Kissed A Girl by Katy Perry, but make it aroace!
Collie replied to I am a schwa's topic in Aromantic Pride and Culture
I think "I Kissed Dating Goodbye and I Liked It" would be a funny play on the title, but that's the former fundie kid talking 😂 (There was a Christian fundie book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" that denounced the practice of dating in favor of "courting".) Add: Listened to the actual cover, it's great! -
am i demi/grayromantic? is this romantic attraction???
Collie replied to Tinkere's topic in Aromantic Discussion
It's ok if you decide you're not aromantic or that you're somewhere else on the aromantic spectrum. Completely ok! It takes time to sort these things out and that's ok! -
I have a large aromantic flag that I don't remember where I ordered from - one of those websites offering it for free if you pay shipping. I have a pack of 50 little ace flags that I got off Amazon!
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How do I explain a queer platonic relationship to people who don’t know
Collie replied to MaxIsCosmic's question in Anonymous Q&A
I think the way it makes the most sense is that "it's a committed relationship that is not romantic and yet too similar to a romantic relationship to be considered conventionally platonic". -
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I take non-stimulant meds for ADHD and am grey-aro grey-ace
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Sex positive aro aces, who do you have sex with?
Collie replied to Holmbo's topic in Sexuality and Gender
I consider myself sex favorable in a sense as a lithsexual ace, but I don't actually wish to have the sex. I do have sexual dreams occasionally, have one right now that's a recurring one where I keep having lesbian sex. -
I'm basically "please don't touch me ever"
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ADDICT from Hazbin Hotel Not gonna link the video as it contains graphic language and depicts potentially triggering topics
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What is your other 'love' in life instead of romance?
Collie replied to Littleface's topic in Aromantic Discussion
I love Collies -
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What is your other 'love' in life instead of romance?
Collie replied to Littleface's topic in Aromantic Discussion
One of my friends is extra special to me in a mostly non-romantic fashion, if that counts. -
aro thoughts on other people’s relationships
Collie replied to EternallyTBD's topic in Aromantic Relationships
Mostly I'm just like "why tho?" While also wanting to be happy for them. In a rare case, I'm just a tad bit jealous of the attention my friend is giving their s/o. -
newbie here, already looking for African aro friends like me!!
Collie replied to Laies's topic in Welcome And Forum Rules
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Introverted, and avoidant. But def not secretive, I blast my life at full volume despite not ultimately wanting to get close to anyone.
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Gender non conforming is basically just not living according to gender stereotypes, challenging said stereotypes. Anyone can be GNC, cis, nb, or trans. Someone who is trans identifies as a gender that is different than their birth sex and is typically working to transition to that gender visually. Anyways, I'm back to identify as a cis woman.
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I'm surprised how many people don't like being aro
Collie replied to ProbablyHuman's topic in Aromantic Discussion
Same. I never felt badly about being aro or ace. -
Just once more, just once more "I will roll again today I know for sure" Oh that girl said, what she said Playing every word and playing to pretend "Just once more?" "No, no, more." Take my hand and come with me It will be okay Please, just let me hold your breath FOR NOW...
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I'm pretty sure I'm aro but there is something bothering me
Collie replied to a question in Anonymous Q&A
I have had a couple crushes in the past, which is why I identify as grey-aromantic/probably demiromantic. I also used to think about having a romantic partner, but I never had a longing for it. I did at one point find the idea of a marriage and family and children appealing, but it was not a strong desire. That said, aro's come in all shapes and sizes! Some like the idea of a romantic relationship despite lacking those feelings, some hate the whole shebang. If you haven't had romantic attraction since that one crush, I think you can call yourself aromantic or, if you like, grey-aromantic. -
Do you consider some of your aromantic feelings to be evil?
Collie replied to Ted guy's topic in Aromantic Discussion
There are times I feel like a bit of a scrooge when it comes to romance. -
Worst (coming out as bi, which I identified with at the time, on a Christian forum) involved someone telling me they had my personal information and were debating on whether to out me to my church leaders. They said it was because I had stated that I work in children's ministry, and that I cannot be allowed to "indoctrinate" the kids. Best was this past summer on FB, I came out publicly as a lesbian. I got lots of love and someone from my church offered me a hug next time she saw me. I didn't get any backlash from it at all. I had been so very scared, but it worked out. Last year I had come out to just one church elder, and talked to her about coming out.