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I mean overall it sounds nice for others but for people the only relationship I could relate to was just the familial kind and I just carry that over to the romantic kind.

Yeah tbh I’d rather not share a bed with anyone much less the actual thing. I mean a high libido definitely messes with surety but almost all the time I’m generally on the NO side for that, nor have I felt that urge for any person irl.

I don’t even wear it because I’m agender, I just hate uncomfortable clothes and most stereotypical guy clothes are just uncomfortable.

Ooooh. That makes a lot more sense now. Yeah the saying is definitely foreign to me, I’ve never heard it. XD

I’m not entirely sure what that means…

And then it just turns out to be aesthetic and platonic attraction.

Seriously if I was ever in a relationship and my partner cheated I’d be like “…ok, new friends no biggy” .

Oh my gosh yes. They talk about how not liking people that way is childish and then I see them go into some sort of depressive state when their partner looks at someone of the opposite gender for .5 seconds more than they’d like. XD

I take it easier but if it’s irl it’s gonna be bad. I legit had a meltdown before but I think that I’d survive that. I mean I’d come off disrespectful possibly but I’d survive.

Or when they randomly kiss in the middle of a fight. Like that one scene in pirates of the Caribbean where they marry as they’re literally fighting two large groups at once. It’s stupid, they both know they’ll live.

It’s been insanely useful.

Oh my gosh yes. I think because I can be aesthetically attracted to people that it’ll inevitably get super attracted. It’s insane, everytime I see someone attractive I wonder if it a fraud. XD

It’ll change as you grow. That sounds lonely. You need to marry to go to heaven. So you just have no emotions? Its just a phase. You’ll inevitably feel lonely without a partner. How do you know for sure? Well you were ALL OVER this person a really long time ago. 😒(for all they know that was platonic and I was just 8 years old, I remember no emotional connection besides friendship to people) So you can’t get turned on? So you don’t find people pretty? (Of course I do, I just don’t feel some magnetic pull towards people, I just have some emotional response I can’t pin down. Though I know it’s not romantic. And finding people pretty isn’t a requirement) You’re just scared of love. You’re just a closeted gay. You’ll be depressed if you don’t date. YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY. (BULL SHIT) Someday you’ll meet someone. I can’t wait until you like girls, you’ll change and we’ll forgive you. (Challenge accepted turd snorters, I’ll bet you my whole college account if I have to) You want to live alone? (Just with friends, and really I’d live with a dog or two as well, that’ll definitely make me happy) You just feel bad about people not liking you. (I prefer it that way. XD) You just want to be LGBTQ+. (I hate this possible response with a burning passion. I’ve spent months wondering if I’m a fraud, if I actually experience anything at all, if I’m even remotely aromantic at all. Everything seems to align, I could not be more comfortable in this label, and anyone that tells me otherwise can go shove it.) I remember not feeling the need to, I grew out of that. (At what age?! I’m nearly 16 and had 0 crushes. That’s a hell of a sign.) You’re incapable of loving people. You’re just a late bloomer. (Ohohohoh, you don’t want to pull that card. I was one of the first people in my school to go through puberty, nothing changed emotionally, it’s been exactly the same, and I doubt that the emotional part is late at 15.) Your H E A R T L E S S. (You little child, I nearly cried after listening to the soundtrack of the owl house. I’m very emotional about topics that make me happy. People just exist, as friends they’re the best, as partners they aren’t that great in my opinion) You just want attention. (I want to know who I am, and be sure of my life. I want to live my own truth, and be able to actually, FINALLY focus on my interests and dreams. I don’t give a crap if people know I exist, I mean it’s always nice to talk to others but that’s not what I’m looking for.) It’s a trend. (If I wanted to follow trends I’d be wearing crocs and making every horrible joke in the book) You have a skill my friend. (This is one of the more okay responses but that still feels incredibly uncomfortable, as if it’s hard for me not to want to date) I’m worried about literally all of these being said at some point, especially by parents for some.

Oh my gosh I want both of those things so bad!!!!

You say that as if the grimace isn’t right above your message.

I mean seriously, animals don’t have to all have sex.

Sounds cool! :D

That’s the coolest possible way to get an aro ring. :D

How the actual frick does that get funding to be a show?

Yeah the closest friends I had were also the only real candidates for crushes.

And an owl house fan as well. Welcome aboard!

I’m addicted to YouTube, arocalypse, trevorspace, and random bull crap online.

Most of my childhood is loaded with me just being sick of those long romantic scenes. The shorter stuff I could live with but I couldn’t help but either not care or feel a twinge of disgust.

Sorta how they always call things “normal” or “abnormal”, nothing is “normal” it’s just common or uncommon. Nothing is even normal about humanity either. We’re a species of two legged, weak skinned, no clawed, and weak primates with no actual weapons besides ingenuity and dexterity. We’re not “normal” especially after being the species with the capability to, at any point, just completely obliterate the earth and almost every species on it.

Can you add a “same!” emoji to the reactions? I’m honestly amazed how often I’d use that, I’ve just said that like 40 times and I think itd be a cool emoji to add.