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Yes, the entire idea of articles that worry about personal relationships just make me think “don’t they have more important crap going on?” Exactly! Like the whole “relationship” tbh inf just sounds like a label you slap on with no noticeable changes. Generally I wonder like at what point that becomes a “relationship”, is that when they consider it one, or when they hold hands and crap? One the second one I couldn’t agree more, that just sounds like a jerk move. And honestly who cares what your partner thinks of your looks? Id keep what’s comfortable and say “screw you” to anyone that disagrees.

For her standards yes, perhaps solar? Maybe even wind! :D

Nuclear is a far safer alternative and the waste caused by it has already been a solved problem for decades, we just needed to bury it deeper than usual.

My guys, gals, and enby pals, we’ve found the perfect host country. XD

I think it’s just low libido, it’s not necessarily a requirement to not have libido but generally attraction to the act but no specific person is more aegosexual.

Seriously though I’d love to gain close friends online first, because one tends to be more understanding and open to talking, while also being more safe. Then as time goes on they can be sure of each others legitimacy and make a nice platonic friend group that could extend past there! :D

Not to mention there’s probably a few bakeries somewhere in that place. It’s remote, meaning there’ll be less amatanormative Allos, and even less chance of being invaded.

Oh my gosh I wanna do that but my drawing skills are 💩 Oh my gosh a climate warrior! I want Artemis to be an aroace climate warrior who spends her time with a squad of fellow aroace’s, consigned to protect the earth from environmental destruction. She spends half of her time murdering oil company leaders, and promoting nuclear energy.

An online aro friend group, more specifically United with career or friend purposes, that gets so close that they decide to move to one area nearby one another so they can talk irl as well. This is probably the rarest and most specific but that sounds awesome tbh.

Yes just a bunch of aro’s falling from the sky with giant arrow spears that we stab people with like those soldiers in Wakanda. I plan to invade Denmark with my people when I can. 🤭

Even if I wasn’t aroace I’d still have a hard time maintaining friendships because I just generally don’t know how to create a close and long lasting friendship, and maintain it.

Both kinds of aro’s, the physical version and the person.

I’d say it’s just sorta reclusive in a way, everyone else is dating and talking about sex/relationships and we’re just sitting the corner. Plus my life’s not hard and I’m not scared for my own safety, unlike gay or trans people so I’m sorta just sitting on the sidelines anxiously wanting to help, console, and talk.

Oh yeah, I generally felt bad for Amy, but I’d just prefer it if they were friends as a sort of middle ground. Besides that’d be better for sonic and Amy. Though yeah I always viewed her as a whiny little child for only seeming to care about wooing sonic.

Hello! :D

I generally just find girls more aesthetically attractive and not much else, in fact I feel a strong sense of discomfort when I worry one is flirting with me in some way. I literally don’t care what gender person I’m talking to, and overall the past “crushes” I had all had one thing in common: they all could hold a conversation and were generally nerds like me. I mistook platonic friendships for love. XD

Oh same, I never knew there was an obligation, generally I just thought that’d change at some point. So then when I started being more vocal about not wanting kids (I’d never really wanted kids, and when I talked about them it was always hypothetical), and then my parents made me realize: “Holy crap, it’s considered a responsibility!” I didn’t realize to what extent until I told my parents more expressly that I don’t want to marry, and now knowing that I might actually not need marriage, dating, or romance as a whole just gives me the smug satisfaction of being right, and knowing I won’t have to deal with that stuff. Like in movies where the villain refers to marriage and dating as a waste of career potential I’m just like “well she ain’t wrong, and I’d prefer a happy career over a wife any day!”

Welcome to the chat! Always glad to have a new friend! :D

I doubt I’ll cry or anything, yes I’d probably feel sad but I don’t seem to take emotional hits that much. I will definitely see what could possibly convince them.

They’re not trying to be mean about this but I have very little doubt they’re biased in that regard, I will try to see what qualifications they’d want to actually believe that I have no intention of marrying. Yes, I will try to not listen to that I just generally respect the input parents have, but no they definitely don’t dictate if I experience romantic/sexual attraction or not.

One more reason to marry platonically I guess? There whole plan is just stupid but that’s like the only way I’d see to get through that.

Doubt tends to disagree, I really do try, but I can’t argue with a valid point. It feels irrational to say that it’s not gonna happen but I really don’t see my feelings changing, especially considering the waves of emotion and stuff that teenagers are supposed to feel have very obviously already come, and been devoted to my interests and political views instead. I mean the mere lack of interest in dating or romance says a lot, I asked them how many crushes they’d had before and they said like 4-5, I said 0. I’ve gained a lot of proof but I can’t share that without coming out and I can’t do that yet. I’ll try to ignore or respond by asking them to stop but it just annoys me.

That could easily come off as provocative or mean, I’ll try to word that best but whenever someone snaps back, it gets easy for them to respond angrily.

That’s just… very sexist, and generally just isn’t really true. Guys definitely do dumb stuff but I can’t say that girls are quiet.

That’ll definitely send a message, I might try that. Thought tbh my big mouth probably won’t stop dropping hints but I’ll do my best.