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HelloThere

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  1. I wanna live in a nice comfortable home that doesn’t move on two wheels, and I also want to stay there. My thought is a somewhat medium/larger house that just looks nice but is still actually useable rather than just some large museum. I basically wanna have something nice that could also easily withstand large parties or something. Not to mention that I just think that a mobile home would sorta mess up a lot of things that would need to stay still, so I just overall don’t think it’s the best. Not to mention that goods ones often cost more than a house and it’s a pain to get rid of them if you change your mind. Oh and also… prices on maintenance and gas are just insane.
  2. Same here, I’m ace-spec and I’d love nothing more than to remove any libido at all. It’s so incredibly pointless for me to have at this point, and there’s no goal to it at all.
  3. That’s by far the best way I could think up. Just show them that and they fly away.
  4. Her merch however doesn’t have any rings. Wristbands at best, though either way if I had enough money I’d buy loads of merch. :D
  5. There might be something, that’s just not a purchase my parents would let through. Or at least there’s not too much of a need yet. Though given the opportunity I’d do so.
  6. Jaiden fricking animations my friend. Jaiden is hands down the first pick. Perhaps she has something on her bird ari.
  7. Ooh, how does one wear a YouTube storytime animation ring? Maybe just “art” ring? I’m not sure but those are the things I want to learn to do so that’ll be fun to figure out on a ring.
  8. “You can share your thoughts, I won’t attack you.”
  9. I’ve got a jar of dirt, I’ve got a jar of dirt. next person gets two boxes of rocks.
  10. I haven’t either but YouTube is very beneficial. I just found her to be the perfect chaotic neutral, and overall a fun character. Not to mention that I sense a sort of aroace vibe from her. After all there’s no obsession with anyone particularly, and plenty of chasing friendship and just acceptance. She just seems like a walking queer allegory, but is incredibly well written.
  11. Or if I could just become certain fantasy characters, I envy Nimona with a burning passion. She gets to shapeshift while maintaining brain capacity, that’s just so fricking op. My favorite character was definitely Luz. She’s got such an admirable personality and overall (even if she’s literally the main character) I find her to be the best character there.
  12. Oh yeah, for over a mont that show was MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE thing on earth. I mean imagine getting to live there, everyone’s accepting of queer identities, most social issues aren’t a problem, there’s magic, and so many strange and wonderful things. Give me magical abilities and I’ve just described paradise.
  13. Yeah, you’re right it’s just that I may not be in their sphere of influence, but I’m definitely in their sphere of control. I get that they can’t control how things go, but all they’re doing is just make me doubt myself and fuel some part of me that wants to prove them wrong. It sucks, and even though there’s mountains of proof I still end up doubting stuff. The thing is that before this, I never questioned anything, I thought I had crushes before, and crushes more recently. All of them weren’t, yet I still doubt myself all the time.
  14. If I outright said “I think you’re in denial” with my parents, they’d most definitely wonder where that comes from. How would I sum up this thread though? I did already record my past thoughts in a notebook, and I think it should kinda be useable, but it also includes a confession about the whole thing, dating back to before I realized I was ace as well. Either way I see very little way where doing that would go well for me down the road. They’re good parents, but on this type of thing they can be dismissive as heck.
  15. I do too, sorta just the qpr or platonic relationship type.
  16. Oh man. I’m probably not supposed to keep making topics for this but… I’m just in a tough spot right now. My parents could see my history of being on here anytime. It’s impossible to delete all the history on my phone here so I’m just trying to absorb information. I swear no matter what I say, they always say that I was just “obsessed” with two friends of mine that happened to be girls. (I don’t remember any emotional feeling with either, I just enjoyed their presence, and I don’t really have an explanation for some of my past behavior). They always say that I once said “I want to marry that girl and have several kids” despite the fact that I had no actual emotional connection with them besides just being friends. I hate how I have to tell them that I’m not interested at all and they still keep pulling the “it’ll change” card. I’ve told them that it’s pretty abnormal for a teenager not to have feelings for girls at all, especially when I’m nearly 16. I highly doubt that it’ll change, and so much evidence is in my favor. But, if I presented that I’d essentially be coming out, they’d wonder where that came from and it’d all go downhill. I’ve said this before, but everytime they act like I’ll inevitably change, I go into panic mode, because I don’t want to date, I don’t think it’ll change, and I have little reason to believe so. If I’m nearly 16, and my peers have been in love since 1st grade, I can be in 9th and say with a straight face that I don’t like people that way. I remember looking back upon my last “crush” and having no romantic interest whatsoever. I remember viewing them as a good person, and a nice friend, but not someone I want to be in a relationship with. The thought of having a crush on that person didn’t even show up until my parents and family started to jokingly accuse me of having a crush. I spent a while worrying if I did, but most everything I talked about with them was just nerdy stuff and random fun things that we both liked, not a relationship. I may not have any explanation for the other “crush” but I remember no feelings, and just some of the stuff that “couples” do. They say I wanted to marry them, but before I was ignorant of everything, much more, relationships or romantic feelings. I want to tell them everything so bad, but I don’t have the confidence yet, because I’d have to explain where this all came from, and I can’t risk this. I can’t risk losing this place. I can’t risk them destroying all of the mental progress I’ve built simply because they think that it’s inevitable, that a teenager who’s already grown up a lot, simply MUST experience attraction to people. I’m not even sure what I’m looking for in this post, but seeing all of these people back a few years ago, questioning, I wonder how many of them were right. I wonder how many got to be sure and confirm their suspicions later on. I hope I’m one of them, because life sounds better when I don’t settle down in some nuclear family lifestyle, or better yet, at all. I guess what I’m asking for is: do y’all relate in some way? Do you just wonder if it’ll all change and then I’ll just magically want to stay with someone forever. That doesn’t sound all that fun. I don’t want that, but who here worries as well like this?
  17. You guys, I recently saw moments from the movie Nimona online, and Nimona just seems like a fricking aroace gender-fluid character. There’s no romantic interest in her entire character and she seems more interested in murder and random anarchistic behavior than anything out there. Not to mention a strong obsession with friends over relationships. I sense an aroace, and no one can tell me otherwise. I looked it up, there’s no recorded romantic interest of hers (that I know of).
  18. I’d hate to sacrifice human dexterity. Doesn’t sound worth it tbh. I’d prefer to just have superpowers and shapeshift and crap. That just sounds way too fun to mess around with, and do cool stuff.
  19. Between the two, the boiling isles sounds better, but I’d love both. The boiling isles has accessible magic, the inhabitants don’t all want to kill you, and generally the people are surprisingly nice for a name like “the demon realm”.
  20. Oh my gosh yes. Give me animus magic and let me live there. I actually know the route to not commit genocide, that place would be a breeze to live in, and it just sounds incredible.
  21. I just like the cool looks, and overall the aroace flag is pretty well done for a pride flag. Still excessive use of colors but it’s very well made overall. (Here I am ogling over a flag more than people).
  22. You know the flag I REALLY like though? The aroace flag. Not the green and purple, but that beautiful orange, yellow, white, and blue one.
  23. It’s was absolutely beautiful, though I have to admit that I had a much stronger longing for the owl house universe. It just looked so much better, I’d be the first one to want to live in the demon realm, to even try to be friends with Luz and the rest of the gang. I just want to be Liz’s friend so fricking bad, that sounds amazing.
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