I think I feel more aromantic than asexual. I spend more time thinking about being aro and it definitely has a larger impact on my life than being ace does. It also took me longer to accept myself for being aro, idk, maybe that plays a part in it.
My favorite manga are Attack on Titan, Fullmetal Alchemist, and A Silent Voice. For anime it's probably Attack on Titan, Puella Magi Madoka Magica, and Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood.
I'm sure for both now, but it took a lot longer for me to realize I was aromantic and accept myself for it. Although I knew I was asexual pretty much as soon as I learned about what being ace is.