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Nagito

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  1. I remember they were looking for volunteers and I don't have more informations.
  2. If I remember it well, the surveys take place once each two years.
  3. It can be simply mentioned that a character is alloaro. It's not needed for them to have sex on screen. I'll give you a different example. It was revealed that Orochimaru is nonbinary, we didn't see them having struggles about trying to get who are they. It was just a random situation when their son asked: "where should I write your name? As a mother or a father?"
  4. I made both main characters of my fanfic being alloaro. And I'm going to add one more.

    1. whatistheromance
    2. Nagito

      Nagito

      @whatistheromance, in the beginning just only one of them was to be alloaro xD But I changed my mind. The second character just realized it was sexual attraction all the time.

  5. I was obviously born aromantic, just I didn't have possibility to discover my orientation earlier. When I was 13, nobody was talking even about it, it was unknown. Or you were hetero, or bi, or homo. There weren't other options considered.
  6. In my case it depens a lot of relationships. When I was in a qpr with someone and this person did something behind my back, I turned romance repulsed for several months. If not longer. And I keep being somewhere in between indifferent and repulsed at this moment.
  7. "Romance positive/neutral/negative" is about your attitude towards romance in general. The term you're looking for is "romance favorable". My favorite fandom activity is shipping. I'm an active fanfic writer. I'm romance ambivalent and it's a weird thing to experience. Very, very weird. For the most time I'm indifferent, but if something happens, I can turn romo favorable or romo repulsed – it's my case.
  8. I have an "imaginary" relationship with several fictional characters. The "imaginary" relationships don't make anyone "less" aromantic + there are still aros who want to be in a relationship (for example, the ones who are cupioromantic). Being aro is just about attraction and not what you imagine or do.
  9. • I'm neurodivergent. • I was dating in the past. • I don't care about my sexual attraction. • My favorite fandom activity is shipping and I like writing romances or drawing my ships. • I'm into self shipping (I'm shipping me with fictional characters), lol. That's all for now. Maybe I'll add something more in the future.
  10. Update of my headcanon for Kawaki from "Boruto": I found it more interesting to headcanon him as alloaro than just aro + alloros tend to assume that aro = ace.

  11. I'm using only "aro" label, because I'm simply confused about my sexual attraction, and I don't think it's necessary for me to identify as alloaro or aroace. Alloallos generally don't use split attraction model, so why should I? It makes no sense. If they can ignore, I can ignore it, too. It's fine to say "just aro" about yourself, regardless of being allosexual, asexual or just confused about it (like me), and you don't have to explain to people why you're using only it.
  12. You shouldn't gatekeep yourself, nor listen to gatekeepers and queerphobes. If you think your experience fit into the definition of aromanticity, then use the label and nobody can complain about it. Age has nothing to it.
  13. After thinking a bit about Kawaki, there's something that makes me headcanon him as romance repulsed aromantic. He didn't like the idea of living in the same place with someone who is in love with him, called that person "stupid" for "wanting an ordinary romance" and said he "would much rather throw himself at Code".

    But knowing Kishimoto, he will destroy my hc soon.

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  14. I'm aromantic (romance ambivalent) and nonbinary (gender neutral, but closer to the masculine part of spectrum). Talking about fiction: I prefer m/m content and I'm avoiding het. I'm okay with f/f content, but it's not really my cup of tea. It's possible to be aroace lesbian/gay/etc because of tertiary orientation. But using it to say about what you like in fiction… I wouldn't be sure about it.
  15. The majority of the society is perioriented, so it's not a surprise that aromantic spaces are dominated by aroaces. However, it's possible that the reason is more simple than it, because the topic of aro orientation started in asexual spaces and how it was pointed out before, aces are overtalking us. The only thing we can do to raise the visibility of alloaros and non-SAM aros (who are facing the inivisibility problem too) is talking and educating people.
  16. I'm "obsessed" with Isshiki and Momoshiki ._.
  17. I'm unsure if I want to watch the second season of "Komi Can't Communicate". I really like Komi and the way her struggles are portrayed (and I can relate to part of them), but I just… I simply don't like the fact that there probably will be unnecessary het romance. I'm currently watching 6th episode and… eh. I'll probably stop after watching the first part.

    .....::::::::::.....

    Yep, I'm not going to continue watching it. Better for me.

  18. Nothing, Halloween isn't something very celebrated in the place where I live + I don't have friends.
  19. I was diagnosed with avoidant and paranoid pd.
  20. (About 2 years later) I don't agree with it. Simply don't agree. I keep my opinion about the test being bad constructed.
  21. Orochimaru (Naruto/Boruto) was confirmed as nonbinary, but the current role of the character is none.
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