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Yeahh after that stopped talking (in that example), I didn't explicitally talk about personal space previously so I guess he wanted to push anything he could I don't even understand why ppl think this is acceptable in the first place but yea. The only problem is that he is friends with some other ppl I know :/ not that ive seen in ages. I've had other ppl who are a little more honest but not straight away.

I don't know I'd like to know the answer xD And some ppl don't seem to even take hints, it's hard to even turn down someone to begin with if they don't make it clear its a date or could be a pre date that's the problem. I could say i'm not interested and they be like oh only want to be friends. When that isn't true intention. Too many ppl are like this and I know ppl who have overstepped my personal space and made me very uncomfortable even after I literally said i'm not interested in you. They claim to have forgotten xD I know being unfriendly can work but I wanna be nice and open to ppl not cold lol unless yeah I know they are interested in a way then id back off but u know some ppl pursue hmm it feels like a cold war. Many ppl seem to take advantage or not take no for no. And the only way is to block them out from saying anything to u at all.

There are modern spaces where you only share certain communal areas the rest is yours I think rather than standard sharing. I wouldn't want to house share again haha because of the things involved in that unless maybe just with one other person or ppl that I knew very well. More likely probably I would get my own place.

I dunno I mostly see things as either platonic or sexual. As for romance I dunno I don't see it a lot of the time (apart from in crappy movies) lol well I do see if someone has some strange intentions and I back away xD i think it is about intentions really but if someone is doing something u don't want like ofc u will be uncomfortable.

Make up with what I see in western world popular atm where u absolutely cover ur face completely seems so crazy tbh. Like you can't even see what the person looks like and often the make up i'm sorry to say makes them look worse than b4. I think it is to appeal to men romantically or something but then ppl mostly women or feminine ppl often say its for themselves so i'm not too sure. Seems like a waste of money anyways, unless u have a condition u need to cover or cope with but if it is a skin condition you would end up making it worse more than likely. I can understand make up as an art form however, or for cameras etc. But it is unfair that it is more expected on Women than Men, when plenty of cultures do not use it at all or didnt at least until western culture brought it in (not to say other cultures didnt have their own form of it just in more recent times). It should not be expected as a thing at all, workplaces should never pressure ppl nor should special occasions. Nor should women be pressured to dress a certain way. also nothing wrong with a bit of hair on women, even a little beard on women haha Industry marketed it this way in advertising, just seems like another way to sell things on to ppl and make them feel anxious that their bodies r not good enough or to make other ppl judge on ur behalf. Media has warped ppls perceptions a lot. I can understand shaving for hygiene purposes tho that is important. And for certain sports apparently. But it is double standard that women are expected too (at least if visible) and men not as much in the same places (tho there are beards).

I noticed this but I didn't think about it in these words. Yeah I do imagine the villian to be a guy with a sexy temptress type girl xP But even in hero movies the love interest often seems to be a prize and almost treated not really human in own right, but yea less sexualised more innocent.

Nah a psychopath can "love" others but for the purpose of manipulation and fufiling themselves, a lot of them r out dating lol. A psychopath has antisocial behaviour and such. If your not someone with issues like that you ain't a psychopath it's pretty simple xD It's unfortunate that media uses such tropes too often, in reality someone with a love interest in not necessarily good.

I think dating is meeting with someone and that with the purpose of assessing someones suitability for a "relationship" most likely romantic. It has a specific end goal regardless of whether the date is formal or informal, and most likely you are evaluating someone to see if they r good or not. I don't really like this concept of a date tbh I feel like you should just enjoy the time with ppl. Though ofc if u r meeting someone for the first or first few times I guess there is compatibility and that and if u will get a long. As for romance wikipedia says... (Yea that is my source lol) Romance or romantic love is a feeling of love for, or a strong attraction towards another person, and the courtship behaviors undertaken by an individual to express those overall feelings and resultant emotions. So yeah

I haven't read it but I think the rest we take has value or is needed. Or maybe if we don't want to do something a lot its a sign of an issue or the need to slow down. I feel like often ppl frame things as lazy because there is this conception in at least some western cultures u need to be always or almost always busy. You cant just be like I did nothing, i had a rest, which is more acceptable in some cultures. Sometimes taking shortcuts can be a good thing too haha

I think you can be close to someone without romance and without commitment, I dunno how often it happens because most ppl live this normative structure at least to some extent and even those who don't get swept under those narratives or not heard. I think though maybe the important thing is just getting doing things u enjoy and if u find ppl friends or what not thats good and if not its okay too. I think like its important just to be open minded about things really but ofc not in the sense of overstepping your boundaries and doing what u don't want.

Hmm Yeah I guess you just gotta take that time and see how things go, it sucks but hopefully you can figure out what sort of closeness works overtime I guess not to rush it.

Yeah this, as long as it is like that I'm good, some ppl not so much so it depends.

I don't even bother using the word single it doesn't make sense to me haha I feel like it just feeds into that whole idea to begin with. Just live life really, but I do find it useful to read into things and understand. As for social media I don't use it so I don't see this stuff and if I do I mostly just ignore it, though maybe ppl of a certain age can't. What I wouldn't mind is more friends but ay.

Yeah I used to read into these things a lot I know what u mean I used to get it a bit. One person here already recommended mindfulness exercises, I add that observing your thoughts and ur surroundings, taking a walk and going in nature and stuff and bringing urself to reality is important. but yeah having connection to urself and surroundings to a certain extent is healthy. Maybe finding an activity you like and getting immersed in it helps?

Humans are harder to draw because as people we notice something is odd more often and we take into account more types of human faces with animals and monsters and stuff we don't tend to look into the details as much though they are important ofc to the species how u do them. But I also enjoy drawing those things more often and it's good for the imagination more fun, but I have started enjoying to draw people sometimes. I hear a lot of ppl autism or related get that they don't get faces that well or don't relate. Ofc it can also be a preference some people go for other aspects more and other physical I suppose, and even then the face is only one part. I do personally like faces tho but it isn't the only thing.