Nowhere.girl Posted May 31, 2016 Share Posted May 31, 2016 Hi! I'm María, I'm 17 and I am from Spain (so I apologize if my English is bad, it's not my first lenguage ?). I realized I was definitely not romantic about...4 days ago...haha... And I have spent those 4 days binge reading AVEN and watching youtube videos to learn the different romantic orientations in the aro spectrum to see with which one I identify. At first I thought I was lithromantic, because I've had crushes before, but I am definitely not comfortable in a romantic relationship. But then I realized that maybe those "crushes" were not really "crushes". I mean I convinced myself that I was heterosexual until 2 years ago, and I turned out to be homosexual, so maybe the same happened with my romantic orientation and it was not romantic attraction but aesthetic attraction mixed with the happiness of the idea of being in a relationship, which everyone seems to think is so fantastic and "the goal". So now I think that I'm aromantic, but that's why I decided to join arocalypse! ? I know it's gonna take a while until I discover and process who I am, but it's good to know that I'm not the only one who feels this way and I'm not a weirdo ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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