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Nowhere.girl

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  • Name
    Maria
  • Orientation
    Aromantic
  • Gender
    Female (questioning demigirl)
  • Pronouns
    She/her
  • Location
    Spain
  • Occupation
    Student

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  1. Hey everyone, I just wanted to say thank you to all the people who have helped me by sharing their personal story or giving me their opinion, or just supporting me. I appreciate it very much, really Even if our experiences with this particular situation haven't gone like we would have wanted, what counts is that we are now better than how we would be if we hadn't done what we did, and we deserve to be happy Okay I'll go now before I get too soppy
  2. Don't worry, I'm even later with this reply I know how you feel when you say you're sad because you still like her as a person, and I'm sorry Anyway, what happened with this girl is that I talked to her and explained her everything all at once: that I wanted to break up with her and that I'm aromantic and... let's just say she didn't take it very well, she wasn't angry, which would have preferred, but she got extremely sad and though I thought I shouldn't feel bad because it was the best for the both of us and I can't change who I am, I still felt really bad for her. We haven't talked since, because her therapist told me that it was the best idea so she wouldn't randomly remember me and feel sad again, but we have a very close friend in common and sometimes she tells me how she's doing, which is good because I still worry about her, she was a great person... Anyway, thanks you for the response, you're so nice!! That sounds really similar to what happened to me. I'm sorry you lost your friend though , that must have sucked. But thank you for sharing your story
  3. I found this comic and I actually cried while reading it... I don't know why because it isn't necessarily sad, but I'm suspicious those were the tears that other people (allo people) waste on Titanic Anyway this is so beautiful http://chekhovandowl.tumblr.com/becomingloveless Oops I think I just posted the same comic sorry
  4. Thank you! :3 And yes, spanish is a very complicated lenguage to learn and if the lenguage education is not good the subjet can become hell.. By the way I think you story about the spidery beach is hilarious πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I swear I read the words in my mind in an english accent
  5. My first lenguage is Spanish. I'm trying to learn English but the education system in Spain is pretty crappy in that area, I mean people from Germany and the Nordics are practically bilingual while here I've seen people not knowing how to use the past simple at 18... So yeah basically I've learned English from being all day on the internet xD. I also took French classes for 3 years but that was 2 years ago, so j'ai ouvliè beaucoup de mots (je ne sais pas where the accent marks go but I can make this sentence a three lenguage one I'm so sorry if this is making anyone querer sacarse los ojos de la cara. Your Spanish is very good!!!
  6. Yeah, I would totally stay friends with her, but if she needs space after the breakup I stay away and ask friends how is she doing I suppose.. After all she's got the worst part. Thank you :') Yes it looks like some kind of turtle neck 60's style I suppose...fashion looks weird 50 years later
  7. I think that one of the worst aspects of being aro is when you get asked out or someone flirts with you. If you just say "no" as your excuse, they keep trying because that "no" is obviously a "yes" somehow in their head. If you are comfortable coming out to them (even if you don't know them that well) and say that you are aro, they are not going to take you seriously. Maybe it's also because they ignore you and keep trying for whatever reason, but sometimes it's because people are not aware that aromanticism is a thing just because they are romantics and don't believe that there are people who are not. I think this is one of the rudest things you can do, not taking seriously someone's identity just because it's not the same as yours and therefore that person is confused or lying or crazy. I don't know this is a random thought and it's so obvious but I wanted to share it anyway.
  8. Aro people actually find this more entertaining and satisfying than a romantic relationship... 125
  9. I remember there was a scene in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows where Ron and Hermione were kissing in the middle of the Battle of Howgarts while their friends were probably dying and there were monsters and death eaters everywhere.
  10. Definitely frogs. We would have evolutioned to some kind of semiaquatic mermaids with disturbing eyes, I'd like to see that. WYR eat just pickles for the rest of your life or only be able to walk backwards?
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