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  1. Women always talk about how men's hoodies have deep pockets and are so big and warm and comfortable... do they realize they can just go out and BUY men's hoodies? They don't have to steal them?
  2. I guess maybe I could get used to it if I lived there... but as is, it's just too close to kissing for me. I'm still glad I don't live there.
  3. Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope... and did I mention nope. I am SO glad I don't live in a country (or even region, since it seems to be a thing in some regions of the US) where people greet each other with kisses. I realize it's not my place to judge their culture, but I wish people would ask before doing that. People in general should get consent before physical contact, unless they know the person and have already established that they like that type of physical contact. Also, it should be considered okay to decline physical contact, and not some social taboo.
  4. Years ago, someone was talking about a couple in the group. He said something like "I mean, I'm not jealous. I'm happy for them." That's when I realized that other people understood how they felt. Before that, I hadn't realized that EITHER of those reactions would be natural reactions to someone being in a relationship. I thought everyone was as confused about it as I was!
  5. It seems like something that could be used for an abusor to not let their partner have very close friends, though. I guess I don't really understand it because I don't have romantic feelings for people (and I don't have QPRs either). Where is the line? How do I, as someone not in a relationship, know if someone is emotionally cheating on their partner with me (other than if I know they're not telling their partner)? Or would that not be my responsibility?
  6. This video: I don't understand it. It seems to me like the "emotional cheaters" are just friends. And the comments are about how close they are, but they still seem like they could just be friends to me. How are we aros supposed to have close friends who are in their own romantic relationships if this is "emotional cheating"?
  7. I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts...
  8. rubydelvai is creating an army of papos that will eventually kill everyone who thinks aros don't exist.
  9. I got what should be enough sleep last night, but I'm somehow still tired.
  10. Spud is actually a tomato in disguise.
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