AutistAro Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Not sure where to put this, or if it's even an aro thing. But...I've been called a 'good friend' by everyone in this group chat I'm in. Now, most of us knew each other roughly the same amount of time, but I know everyone got along differently behind the scenes, because four people coupled up. I care about them all, and I make sure to private message all of em every now and then, because I actually like talking to all of them individually! But...when they call me a "good friend" I feel...bummed out. Like...a "good friend" sounds so...fake. Like I don't mean anything. Like Im just there. I realize I don't really open up all the time like they all do, but they've said it's ok. But...why open up if they've got significant others? I feel like since they've got partners emotional stuff is only between them. I know it's BS, but I feel these boundaries. I'm just a "good friend". I should know my place. But I don't want to be a "good friend". This is so stupid but wow it really gets to me... 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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