Isa1116

Whoa... I feel like that ALL the time! Tho my opinions on sex change all the time. Sometimes I'm sex-positive, sometimes I'm repulsed, and most of the time idc about it. It made me really question if I was ace-soec or not because I thought it was just puberty (I still think it might be). Either way I think I can kinda relate to what you are saying.

I think it is the aroaceflux flag. :)

I have seen it before but I kind of just put it with the other ones ig? I probably should have said sorry 😅. Thx anyways tho! :)

I know about the circle with the line like 🚫or ⛔. And I think I heard about a clear ring on a necklace? But I don't think I can get one of those for now, are there any other subtle symbols I can use to say I'm agender? I wanna make little stickers of aroace agender and put it in my phonecase. :))))

I don't really know what you should do since I have no experience but maybe casually bring up qprs and say you saw it on the internet or smth and see what he thinks of them? Idrk but maybe a variation of that? Hope that helped. :)

I'm kinda surprised no one has really posted here. So hi

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At school the teacher asked us to answer some questions. One of the questions was what our pronouns were. I put down she/her but said any are fine, even tho I don't specifically use those pronouns. Now everyone will still call me that because I was to scared to take my damn chance.

I think this sounds a lot like cupioromantic but also lithromantic or orchidromantic? The cupioromantic from you saying you wanted a relationship and lithromantic or orchidromantic because you say you don't want a relationship anymore/fell out if love. Either way I think you are probably arospec but you use what labels you want! :)

I have no friends in my new class this year. I know it isn't a big deal but I am terrible with people. I can make friends, it can be hard or easy, but it is so hard to keep them for some reason? I have no idea what I am doing wrong but I know I am bad at feelings and stuff. I had a friend who told me about their problems and asked me to go to the counselors office with them the next day. I didn't go to school the next day (I think I was sick or smth) and I think that is when they started disliking me. I honestly don't know what to do? I don't understand what is wrong with me and I've thought about getting it checked out but my parents would find out and idk it I want to go to a counselor because I'm scared. My new class is pretty loud and it was making want to die even if school was only 2 hours. I wanted to cover my ears of leave the class but I don't want to be seen as 'the weird kid' or smth. I really don't want to go to school tomorrow because I feel like I won't be prepared even tho I am and I'm so scared I won't do good this year while my parents want me to get an award or smth.

Hiya! I'm Isa and I hope you have a great time here! I use they/it/any. :))))

Hii, I'm Isa, I use they/it/any and I hope you have a great time here! :)))

Hiya! I'm Isa and I use they/it/any and I hope you have an amazing time here! :)))

Oh wow thanks! That might actually be me.....damn....tysm....

Anyone know what flag this is?

Hiiiii, I'm Isa and I hope you have a good time here! :)))

Right? My brother said I should try a relationship at least once and I agreed but later said people who don't feel attraction are psychopaths... 🥲

Thx! U do too! :)))

Hii, I'm Isa, I use they/it but ny are fine and I hope you have fun here and discover who you are! :))

That's pretty messed up of them... I was talking to my brothers about me being aroace and idk exactly what he said but my brother said something along the lines of, "If you don't feel attraction you're a psychopath." Maybe you can tell your friends that you have literally never had a crush or just make friends who actually respect you and your identity.

Hii, I'm Isa I use they/it but idc much and I hope you have a really good time here! :))) Also, I think there is an art thread here somewhere 🤔 :)

Hiiiiiiya! I'm isa and I use they/it but I'm fine with any, I hope you have great time here! :)

I think I told people a bit too early in life. I told my siblings and cousin and they don't seem to get that it's a spectrum and say I'm not aroace. I think you should only tell people you know you can trust, which you did. :)

Aromanticism is a spectrum. And I think you are describing being lithromantic? What I mean is, you can be aro and have crushes. :)