God I just want people to talk to about some of my aro headcanons, but god knows aro headcanons aren't hip and trendy enough in fandoms to warrant actual discussion beyond two or three isolated aros going "I think this character should be aro"
this is such a big mood even if people agree with a headcanon or enjoy it they don't discuss it or make content for it at all like they do for other orientations. I wish I wasn't the only person who cared about my headcanons
There's a thread for aro headcanons somewhere on this site. I'd imagine it's difficult to get the non-aro part of a fandom (i.e. most of it) interested in that stuff though.