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  1. A User
    i personally feel like i fit in with both aro and ace places, kinda like a VIP pass to enter (tho ofc i'm not sayin that people should gatekeep, tryin to give examples here) i picture the "aces can feel love" and other variations of it as love in general. platonic love, alterous, etc. i do prefer if the communities were aroace in specific (slightly better relatability) but im ok with aro communities
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    you know what sucks?

    culture shock, mainly the romance kind

    i met up with a few old friends i havent seen irl since the pandemic (for reference they're mostly 1yr older than me, or the same age as me. one of them is 1yr younger than me tho)

    most times i'd overhear them going "i want a bf" or like "i just left a toxic relationship" or smth and im kinda like "ok" in my head but i cant rlly find common ground with them

    one of them (younger one) said "i want to get a bf in highschool"

    like girls i get ur point u can stop being allosexual now 

    at least one of the friends (i'll call A) didn't rlly participate bc she's a lesbian/bisexual so we kinda talked about AJR and animation and now that's what i can relate to a lil bit

    when all of them weren't talking about partners and potential dates n stuff, we were cool. talked about manga and learned that "adult" manga exists. it's basically nudity but someone had the balls to draw uncensored boobs and super sexualized situations.

    we watched a Studio Ghibli movie (howl's moving castle) bc A was particularly "offended" that i haven't watched it yet


    the animation is truly *chef's kiss* and i loved it (WHY DO THE SHEEP LOOK LIKE BALLS OF WHITE IT'S SO CUTE)

    but still, feeling all the fucking culture shock kinda just made me realize im prolly gonna be hanging around ppl who want bfs/gfs/partners more than they do an actual platonic friend i bet

    as certain cartoon caracters would say I guess this is my life now.

    tho im not too sure how to deal with the fact that im 15, have 0 interest in gaining a bf or gf (i want friends the most), and cannot relate to the "i want [romantic thing here]" sentiments

    1. Harvest-Unity

      Harvest-Unity

      I would definitely take a piece of animation or AJR song over romance any day 😅

    2. A User

      A User

      i just wish i didn't have to greeted with it when i hang out with my friends

      at least i've got one friend who doesn't talk about romance, and she's the best-est friend in the whole world

      i'd take hanging out with her over hearing convos about things i'll probably never understand any day

  4. A User
    i think i've always assumed crushes and love was for the movies and cheesy romcoms, and never really put much thought into it until somoene had a crush on me i mean, to be fair, i'll admit i treated him quite unfairly (but then again he did some things that looking back were also not right) but i was mostly just holding up so much anger and paranoia about shit and then i talked about it with an online counsolor and she told me about asexuality and eventually that led me to aromanticism
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    peach bubly is awesome but i rlly rlly like lemon iced tea or the juice from the red/purple freezy (yes ik weird) im a tea enjoyer tho, coffee smells atrocious and i dont wanna try it, my favorite teas are the fruit ones with lemony tastes to them, but i can settle for chamomile if seriously needed oh, almost forgot a special addition: starbucks refreshers (the sour ones with a sweet undertone, which for now can be described as that yellow one [i think it's pineapple and grapefruit or some shit idk but it's yellow])
  6. A User
    fair rule this is an aro forum not some random anon q&a section
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    idk when/if i answered this bc i forget stuff but im legally not allowed to most i've gotten was non-alcoholic stuff
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    i feel more ace for sure, because romance is something so similar to friendship in my eyes that it gives me doubt as to whether i truly experience romance or not sexuality im more sure about because never in my whole life have i felt an urge to f*ck ppl, romance is an iffy thing bc highschool makes everyone romance obsessed and the urge to fit in has never been higher, so there's a lot of self-doubt that goes there tbh i feel AVEN is more active as a community than here, im mostly only here on my pc where AVEN has been blocked on a level i can't figure out how to unblock there's aroace spaces on AVEN if you know where to look
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    to be fucking honest this tgamm bread song fucking slaps

    who tf needs romance songs when you have a whole song describing bread

     

  10. A User

    i found these word whammer vids and i love them

    this guy tries to put profanitty and it kinda works-ish

      

      

     

    1. Ikarus

      Ikarus

      H-O-E HOE great word! 
       

      Imagine being his neighbor though looking out the window to witness the word whammer getting absolutely shredded by a lawnmower.

       

  11. A User

    feeling other

    A User replied to espop's question in Anonymous Q&A

    I sometimes feel this way, and surprisingly watching aroace tiktoks or ace tiktoks makes me feel more validated and happier would totally recomend! tons of comps on yt!
  12. A User

    Guys i am very sad

    they made all these new merch items for hazbin hotel/helluva boss but they're all like 30$ and above for simple clothes and shit

    $60 CAD for a fricking tanktop I'm-

    I WANNA GET THESE BUT I CANTTTTT

    fr tho the playmats are overly suggestive for my aroace ass but it comes with the adult content of the shows lol

    i hate how all the prices are in USD and don't convert automatically or smth which makes me kinda annoyed too

    seriously tho

    THEY HAVE PUZZLES!!!!!! THEY. HAVE. PUZZLESSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    and also rlly cute pins n shit

    THE CLOTHING'S ALL UNISEX HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    BUT IT'S SO EXPENSIVEEEEEE

    :(((((((((((

  13. A User
    interestingly somber at the beginning also a somber song in general 10/10 nice music, which makes for an interesting effect interestingly enough one of the singers of this band also died of suicide which is most likely less than a coincidence (rip scott, even if i only found out about it today) - anywayyyyssssss https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q2tLynR73w
  14. A User
    sexual for sure mainly because I asked a buuunch of online strangers what sexual attraction means and apparently finding someone to be very very visually attractive isn't one of them romantic? unsure, because romance hard im probably just aroace in denial but the denial don't stop so the questioning don't stop :)
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    i prolly wont but i'd attend weddings for the free food and drinks, as i do with other parties
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    y o u s e e t h e b a g
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    this entire animatic is fucking funny "what's updog" "nothing much, how about you"
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    Hey! Welcome!
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    I'm aro-ace but I consider myself to be Achillean leaning bc men are awesome to look at and appreciate from a distance tbh I haven't figured most of it out yet but as a genderqueer/maverique/prefer not to label person, I only recently got into the angled aroace thing i feel like im more platonically into women then men irl, but maybe that's a result of being afab and a few... iffy experiences with men i know for a fact that for awhile i confused platonic and visual attraction with romantic attraction, so that doesn't help much i really don't want to be perceived as anything other than the clumped gender shit ive got going on, so i want to be seen as nb or at least not fully a man nor a woman. i feel like if i had a friendship/qpr with someone i'd 100% just call it a queer relationship bc it's easier
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    my humor has turned to dust

    this video made me laugh

     

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    original: changed: "Put"
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    the internet made me the kind of person to make a "ur mom" or a "tits or ass" joke every 5 seconds when the opportunity arises it gets worse when i start having no age filter and doing it in front of 10yr olds
  24. A User

    bro this assessment knows me too well

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    Artistic people are very creative, original, and individualistic. They like to be different and strive to stand out from the crowd. They like to express their personalities by creating new and different things with words; with music; with materials, through painting, carving, sculpturing, engraving, crafting, etc.; and with physical expression, as in acting and dancing. They want attention and praise for their artistic endeavours, but are very sensitive to criticism. They tend to be uninhibited and nonconforming in dress, speech, and action. They prefer to work without supervision. They are impulsive and idealistic in outlook. They place great value on beauty and aesthetic qualities and tend to be emotional in the expression of their feelings. They prefer abstract tasks and unstructured situations. They find it difficult to function effectively in highly ordered and systematic situations. They seek acceptance and approval from others, but often find the demands of close interpersonal relationships so stressful that they avoid them. They compensate for their resulting feelings of estrangement or alienation by relating to others primarily through the indirect medium of their art.

    the bold is what i relate to on a deep emotional level

  25. A User
    Whatever you draw eventually turn evil and start attacking you, and this process is inevitable. I can make art masterpieces with absolute ease.
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