AromanticAardvark

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I found another quiz! I haven't actually done it yet, but it seems fun (I think it's just asking what time of day you like best... aromantic) https://www.quotev.com/quiz/14186952/Are-you-a-Dawn-Noon-Dusk-or-Midnight-Aromantic

Aziraphale and Crowley from Good Omens, definitely!

Not that much anymore, but I did have a phase a little while back where I wanted to learn everything about romance and the feelings, hormones, and cultural stuff that goes into it

You can call me Lily. I use she/her pronouns, and while I tend to go back and forth on labels, I'm currently identifying as aromantic bisexual. It's nice to meet you Logan!

Like Hemogoblin said, a qpr is a qpr because you've decided that that's what you want it to be. I -- or anyone else on this server -- can't tell you what is or isn't one. However, I can tell you that if you do want it to be one, you should bring it up with your friend, and see what he thinks. Communicate what you want, and your worries and fears about him getting tired of it, and even that you're not sure how to begin. He might not know either, but he'll at least be able to help, most likely

A few times a week, but I also think the poll is going to be inherently unequal, since people who are on the server more often are going to see the poll first and most often

I wouldn't say it's intruding in their relationship, but it really depends on your personal definition of a QPP. For me, I wouldn't do it because my personal definition of a QPR is an exclusive relationship, but that might be totally different from you. If you do decide to ask, I would see how both she AND her girlfriend feel about it, as some alloros might think of it as cheating if you're doing it behind their backs. And definitely make sure you have a definition of QPRs in general handy, and YOUR definition of a QPR extra-extra defined and clear, and explain exactly what it would mean. And I would follow @hemogoblin's advice to feel it out first before even bringing it up in the first place

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Gahhhh I have a test tomorrow (that I'm currently Not studying for), a demo (like a test but worth less) on Monday, another test on Tuesday, and a final test on Wednesday. After weeks of not having a test. Oh, and then my two-page paper that I've barely started is due on the 27th, and the book report I haven't even started reading the book for is due on the 24th. I hate school Edit: I forgot, I also have a presentation in Drama on the 23rd

Oh I do!

Tiktok. I know it's awful, and it steals + sells your info, but it's just so entertaining

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Hey does anyone here fluently speak Portuegese/French/Italian/Hungarian/Romanian/Finnish/Czech and is willing to translate a Wikipedia page to English?

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:O that's awesome! Oh I didn't know that, maybe we can start the plan up again! Edit after looking at the Portuguese aromantic Wikipedia page (which is really good, from what I can see): maybe if there are any aros who speak Portuguese here they can help translate the page into English? There is also a French aro page, an Italian aro page, a Hungarian aro page, a Romanian aro page, a Simple English aro page (not sure how to translate that to normal Wikipedia English though), a Finnish aro page (although it seems a bit light on sources and mostly uses AVEN as a resource), and a Czech aro page, if anyone speaks any of those languages.

If I found a QPR or friend who wanted to, 100% absolutely. It would be convenient, have legal advantages, and tie us together in a way that would be really great for me (since I have a bit of a fear of abandonment). Only if we'd talked it through first though, and I wouldn't want a wedding (too romantic-coded). Ideally we would exchange rings, sign the paperwork, and live together, and that would be that

That's awesome, thanks for posting this! Def going to check it out

I'm offended that you're dictating what people can be offended by

I made one, but it's very aro allo-focused, so I'm not sure it would fit https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3sS6n0bSnxeCTB81tcsKrT