Thoughts on kissing?

[eunuch unit]

It’s pretty sick. I enjoy it. I don’t however, enjoy it in a romantic setting. It’s more of a sensual thing.

[frutiger aro]

i think i'd be fine with pecks but the thought of deeper, more romantic kisses (like with tongue) kinda grosses me out, though i'm not sure if that's an aro thing, a germophobe thing, or both lol.

[Thespian Racoon]

Simple pecks on the cheek or forehead in a platonic context has always been fine with me, but anything going into a romantic/sexual context or on the lips is a hard no.

[S-Hawk]

cheek and forehead kisses are fine. i like them. 

[dordor]

i really don't know, i have never wanted to kiss someone and i keep thinking about how i feel about it and i just can't figure it out. but i guess i am disgusted even by the idea of closed mouth kissing. tho if i ever have a qpr or a close friend i will be ok with peck on the cheek(i am really trying here😂)

6 hours ago, illumi said:

cheek and forehead kisses are fine. i like them. 

forehead kissesss aree soo goodddd!!

[Funny Individual]

I've never kissed, however if I did kiss a partner I would make sure that it would be just lips, some kisses people will practically eat each others faces and that would feel the equivalent of having the dentist touch the saliva within your mouth and get it all over your cheeks when you can't do anything about it because they're working with your teeth...not a fun feeling

[me_kachu]

My lesbian friend (we are a very LGBTQ+group) kisses me in the forehead sometimes and thats ok, but once it was the lips and my brain told me to smack her and before I could stop it, (SSSSHHHHLLLLAAAP) It happend. Still feel so BAAAAADDDDD

[Red-eyed Vireo]

I enjoy short pecks but anything more than that I'm just not into(and even then, I'm more into pecks that are anywhere but the lips lol)

[TrueEvergreen]

I just don't like touch much in general, and kissing is just worse 

[Cavetowns_fkin_awesome]

I really don't like kissing that much and even my family I don't like but with a VERY specific circumstance (demiromantic) maybe I would do it and somewhat enjoy is but french kissing is... idk man a little bit much for me like I might do it if a significant other wanted to but I would NEVER make that move first.

[Xenvi]

for me it depends on the person. i never thought about kissing as something i wanted to do until i had my first kiss. i usually kiss my friends forehead, partners cheeks and hand not very often cos germs. if lip kissing, closed mouth! the thought of french kissing makes me a bit disgusted.

[Poppy]

Kissing feels inherently sexual to me and I feel like I'd be very uncomfortable with the idea of non-sexual kissing

That being said I haven't tried it so maybe that's wrong, I wouldn't know!

[.CORALINE.]

I've never felt the need to try it in my life, but I was curious and final)y it happened to me some months ago... my first thought was "kissing is overrated" 😂 it doesn't disgust me, I don't mind, it makes me feel nothing except when it lasts too long - I get bored 😅

[Gray_acie]

I....do not enjoy it too much. I like physicality, and I LOVE cuddling and holding hands n stuff, but kisisng...meh. I mean i'm fine with close mouthed kissing, but otherwise it just doesn't spark anything. Like when people write things or say things like it gave them butterflies or made their head spin? nada. I just feel kind of gross, plus lets be honest the sounds are obnoxious and feel gross too.

[batbath]

Never kissed anyone romantically, but even doing it in a platonic way (like with family) always felt weird and gross to me, ESPECIALLY when it's on the mouth. One side of my family likes to kiss on the mouth, and when I moved to doing it on the cheek only, there was some disappointment there. So yeah, not a big fan, though if the right moment comes, you never know

[Mult]

Coming from an Italian family, kisses are very normal especially on the cheeks, but I know you are referring to different kind of kisses which I am definitely not into.

 

I kiss my pets on the forehead all the time and that is the best thing ever. 

[0k0]

I like kissing but only if it feels sexual. Short, mouth closed kiss just kinda confuses me

[Armored frog]

i enjoy it if im drunk enough, but i really cant take it seriously.

But Im only okay with kissing friends, the thought of kissing someone who might be attracted to me is deeply disturbing 

[P4R4D0X]

On 1/21/2024 at 5:52 AM, Holmbo said:

Because I associate it with sex rather than romance but I'm curious if some find it romantic.

... Kissing is a very romantic thing until you learn 'how babies are made'.

[aro_elise]

On 7/1/2024 at 4:02 AM, 0k0 said:

I like kissing but only if it feels sexual. Short, mouth closed kiss just kinda confuses me

same!  

[Collie]

On 1/19/2024 at 7:10 PM, Collie said:

No, mouths are gross.

Still feel this way.

Much nope very nope many nope wow

[Lilac]

As an aegoromantic, I like the concept of kissing and having a romantic relationship. I would love to feel love because it sounds really nice but I just don’t feel it.
 

I just feel like if I actually tried to kiss someone it would feel very awkward, gross and uncomfortable.

[ravigirl]

I like kisses as a form of affection, but only closed mouth ones or a peck on the cheek. I experience a lot of alterous attraction, so I like showing affection towards people that are special to me. If I were to have a partner, I would want to kiss them, just no making out.

[tiger_hoods12]

You know, honestly, I’m not against kissing. To me, a kiss is just a kiss, and it would have no real meaning behind it for me. So really I wouldn’t matter to me. I think I’d be open to doing it, if I wanted to try it one day or if a partner wanted to. Although, there have been scenarios where family members would peck me on the lips or cheeks to show me affection. I remember being a kid and sometimes wiping away the kiss afterwards, not out of spite, but because it was just too wet. Not gross, just wet. I guess I would have to keep that in mind next time I try kissing. 

[Ray0May0]

I get thoughts of wanting to do it but to someone who knows 😭 I'm aro, I want to kiss someone on a deep-level connection yes. 

1 minute ago, Ray0May0 said:

I get thoughts of wanting to do it but to someone who knows 😭 I'm aro, I want to kiss someone on a deep-level connection yes. 

but I DO NOT want to eat someone's face off, no thank you. simple platonic gestures are enough for me alone.