nonmerci Posted April 10, 2018 Share Posted April 10, 2018 Hi everyone! My name is Nathalie and I'm French. I apologize if my English is not perfect. I'm 23, and (hopefully) a future teacher. I identify as greyro and ace. I consider myself greyaro because : 1. I had only one real crush I think, and even this one didn't seem as intense as it is for other people, and didn't last long. 2. The few other crushes that I had were not intense at all; most of the time it didn't last more than a few seconds. I might have some crushes at university, but it was before being aware that aromanticism exists. So I don't know if they were crushes (but I doubt they were), or if I just pretend they were : romance just seems something that I had to look for, so I must have pretended to have crushes because I wanted a boyfriend . Or, exactly, I wanted a fther for my children : I realized that I never looked at boys as potential boyfriends but as potential fathers. I'm not romance repulsed, I have no problem to watch it on TV. I just don't like it on me. It' nice to know that aromanticism exists. Now I know what to respond when people are surprised because I never dated anyone. And it's nice to meet other aros too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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