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Philosophical and altruistic?

I do as well. :D I hope when the time comes that I’m confident enough to embrace who I might be. I’m scared that I’ll be alone but with this type of community (and possibly a few aroace friend matchup sites) I might be able to make friends or have a qpr at some point. :D

That’s what crushes are like? Ok then I definitely haven’t had a crush. XD

Tbh that sounds far nicer than the usual “oh I want to marry this person and have babies and spend 90% of my waking life oogling over their face.”

Thanks! I’ll do my best. Whenever I get back to school I’m gonna sorta scan for people and see if I like anyone. I mean I know that sounds robotic and twisted but I can’t be sure unless I do everything I can to meet more people. Though I’m not gonna go actively like “oh hey random stranger! You wanna go on a date with me just to see if I feel romantic attraction?” Nah it’s just I’m gonna be more open to people I haven’t met and then see what happens, and if it turns out I’m wrong and actually am aroace, at least I’ll have tons of friends. :D

I mean I don’t hate the idea of relationships I just don’t really want it that much, I’d find it easier to be in a qpr or have good friends.

I can relate, recently about 1-2 months ago some girl in my class was trying to get my phone number and I sorta just… broke down trying to comprehend why this random stranger was asking for my number. Once I realized I tried to tell her no over and over and it took a while before she stopped but I was such a nervous wreck that I just didn’t know how to react.

I might have adhd, I mean I still keep catching myself talking incessantly, fidgeting around, wading through a storm of thoughts, or being so incredibly inattentive that I don’t realize time pass by. I can’t get myself to do things I don’t want, either because I forget very shortly after or because I just can’t get myself to do it. Even now I’m procrastinating my math homework. XD

I never thought the teachers would, though now that I think about it that would kinda make sense, I’ll give it until maybe next year but thanks, I never even thought about the school club. :D

Yeah, there’s a lot of things that we all need to learn. If you ask me we’d have required classes on religion, the LGBTQ spectrum, and other cultures. We have a mild amounts of that in history class but nothing incredibly useful when meeting someone from that religion. Besides, it’s incredibly important if we want countries and cultures to learn to be ok with one another. If we want to unify as a species we need to learn what makes us different, celebrate both our similarities and our differences, and understand that at the end of the day we’re all human.

Bet. 1 million dollars but you have to eat your least favorite food 4 days a week.

Its utility is helpful but it’s run horribly and focuses more on grades and test scores than actually preparing kids for the future. Cats aren’t nearly as good as dogs.

I have no freaking clue, that’s a question I’ve asked a lot myself. My best guess is that it’s sorta like obsessing over an interest, you kinda wanna know everything about it and spend as much time as possible with it.

I may be totally wrong about my understanding but my school has a “pride club” and I think maybe another club to talk about gender and sexuality. I probably wouldn’t join because I’m more than content here and I have a hard time articulating my emotions when not in text. Though I’m not sure, maybe when I’m more confident in myself I would? That’d still be suspicious to my parents because I’m like 90% sure that’s after school and they’d have questions.

I think that perhaps you may need to tell her about your issues and just ask for her to take your pronouns and name more seriously? I don’t know I havent got much advice. 😅

What’s a GSA? Is it sort like an lgbtq club at school?

That’s completely your choice. Might I ask why? I just wanna know the story if you’re comfortable, I’m curious. XD

I’d take that anyday. A million dollars but a random person you know personally dies.

I mean I can see myself in a qpr far easier than a normal relationship. Every time I think of a “normal” relationship I’m sorta there in the third person and I see two faceless people together. When I imagine a qpr I imagine a house with a couch and a tv set where I’m there in the first person, just enjoying life, playing video games with a nonromantic and nonsexual relationship.

I haven’t learned too much about other religions so seeing the diversity is kinda a breath of fresh air. :D

Yeah I think so, making their interests and loves more diverse would represent pretty well. :D

Yeah it’s weird, it’s much easier to be sure of one’s sexuality but romance is a WHOLE different story. You’re always paranoid, wondering if it’s a crush or a squish, always doubting yourself, or wondering if it’ll last. At least that’s my experience so far but at this point I’m just biding my time.

I’d just eat one meal because the term “meal” is kinda flexible so I could just have a large amount of food groups in one meal.

That’s a pretty rare thing. I’ve never heard of someone getting dreams that have hidden morals in them. I’d say you got a heck of a nice subconscious. :D

Huh that’s pretty interesting. I sorta understand and I can agree, it’s kinda hard to sum up religious beliefs/practices in a single comment. It sounds interesting and I kinda understand. Basically what I caught onto was that it’s sorta combinations of different religions and beliefs? I’m sorry my 15 year old brain is having a hard time fully comprehending but it sounds interesting. Thanks for telling me! :D