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lovelyleaf

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  1. Twilight Princess :) I'm on the lakebed temple right now I was just realizing that it seems like the water temple in every 3d zelda game I've played has a very similar concept layout
  2. What makes us human is our physical body and dna lol.. I also hate when people say this or that emotional quality is wHaT mAkEs Us HuMaN but I didn't really see that part in the video as anything that notable. She probably just wanted to make the point about how aro people are human and had to think of something that she thinks makes us human and empathy is the first thing she thought of. The "intimate" thing kinda bothered me too but I understood what she meant since "intimacy" can mean sexual activity and does mean that to a lot of people, and also youtube prolly would've messed with the video if she said "sexual", especially since her audience is very largely minors and kids under like 16 I'm glad that she came out even though she was in no way obligated to, and I think that it will help a lot of people. She has a big platform and she just sat down and explained some identities that are very misunderstood in greater society.
  3. Hi, I identify as cupioromantic :) first of all, it's always okay to identify how you feel For me, I identify as cupioromantic because I'm think I'm aro and I don't really get romance and don't think I feel romantic attraction but I still want a romantic relationship because it just seems really nice yknow? Hope this helps at least a little, sorry I couldn't provide more
  4. but exercising makes you so strong that you accidentally break your fingers when you snap and then you can't snap anymore. I can communicate telepathically
  5. I used to think that I was a girl because I like fashion and wearing dresses and being pretty and I thought that made me feminine and by extension a female until literally one day I woke up and was like "actually no" lmao I don't understand gender at all it's really stupid lol. I usually identify as non- binary and then I wonder if agender is a better descriptor for me but non- binary feels right and I don't see any point in changing it. I really like a lot of traditionally female things. I like looking like a girl because girls are pretty and being pretty is fun. But I'm not a girl myself.
  6. I'd say they're not actually similar, they're just both centered around ballerinas, are very artistic, and dark thematically, so I see why they get compared but in my opinion they aren't really comparable.
  7. definitely when I thought I was straight. Like I don't want a romantic relationship with a guy, but I thought I was straight so I just obsessed realllly hard over boys that I thought I like romantically when I actually just thought they were cool and wanted like a sibling type relationship with them because I've always wanted an older brother (and for the record the boys I thought I liked weren't that much older than me).
  8. I thought I was panromantic at first.
  9. well it started out with Among Us lol. I really love the songs and the words lovely and anathema, and I used them both as Among Us usernames, and then I ended up sticking with lovely because I can do the fancy slashed o that twenty one pilots uses that's in danish and some other languages and then I started using it for other usernames and I like people calling me it so much that I made it my name everywhere, which is perfect cuz I was having issues with my first name and my middle name both making me feel dysphoric. So now everyone just knows me and lovely and it's great! Love it.
  10. I feel like a fraud since I present like my agab 🙃
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  12. It's just innate really, that I feel connected to plants. I've always loved plants. I feel about plants the way that most people feel about dogs or cats. And I relate them to my gender because it just. Feels right.
  13. I don't think this makes you not aromantic. Even if you wanted a romantic relationship with her that still wouldn't make you not aro (just maybe cupioromantic like me; aro but still wanting a romantic relationship anyways).
  14. At this point I have made this thread in several different forums but I think it's important because I want for more people to know about it so that it can be taken more seriously in the future. Xenogender is an umbrella term for non-binary gender identities that cannot be fully described through their relation to concepts typically used to describe gender such as masculinity, femininity, androgyny, neutrality, agenrity, or outherinity. Instead, xenogenders can best be described through how they relate to things, beings, or concepts that most people don't think of as having to do with gender, such as animals, plants, things, or concepts. It is sometimes described as any gender that "cannot be contained by human understandings of gender". The gender quality associated with xenogenders is xeninity. The opposite of xenogender is anthrogender. https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Xenogender I identify as plantgender (a subsection of xenogender) Is anyone else on Arocalypse xenogender?
  15. What bothers me the most and has hurt me the most personally is the whole culture around being "modest". Just today I was at physical therapy and my therapist was telling me to spread my knees apart because otherwise my joints get all tweaked and I thought it's definitely because of being an obsessive rule follower and my mom constantly telling me to keep my knees together for the sake of modesty that I have such a hard time not keeping my knees glewed to each other like all that shit still haunts me day by day. I've vented about it more on aven but just like the amount of damage that is put on afab people by constantly telling them to be modest is fucking awful.
  16. emotionally and aesthetically I like women and genderqueer people who are feminine or androgynous. I think humans are just fascinating. I like being around people who are confident in themselves and vocal about their needs, and who aren't afraid to be themselves.
  17. yes That was a while ago and at the time I was feeling hesitant to put a bunch of micro labels onto myself because of people hating on them. But I'd say I'm definitely quoiromantic However I feel like cupioromantic bambi lesbian gets the job done and if I add any more words to that it's gonna get tedious
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  19. I identify as xenogender but since I don't think that the general public is subject to understand or accept xenogender so I usually just identify as non binary.
  20. I started being vegan at the beginning of this year and was transitioning in the months before that.
  21. Last night I watched Birds of Paradise. It was pretty good I'd say. I liked it. It was weird and kinda confusing at points and I'm unsure of what the point of the movie is but it's really pretty and I like the emotions.
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