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Newbie question: What's the best and safest way to find a FWB? And how long do you wait before deciding to have sex?

A little weekend vacation sure sounds nice....

@MulticulturalFarmer just noticed this.  i'm not sure there's a best way, and as for the other question, whatever works for the people involved.  i've only had one fwb, from tinder, classic.  we had sex on the first "date" or whatever you want to call it--we didn't know then whether we'd continue to see each other (and i've had hookups where we didn't) but obviously in this case we did.  when we're comfortable with each other and want it, i figure why wait, but everyone's different.  mutual attraction with an existing friend could also lead to adding a sexual component to the relationship, but i can see where that might be more high-stakes.  i mean, the same ways you meet people to date--pretty much anywhere--just be clear about what you're looking for.