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Like in films where people stop to make out/have sex/whatever while the world's ending or there's a battle or disaster or something. I'm so confused like "...aren't you worried about what's going on? Nope? Just me then.."

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That's hilarious Both of these resonate so much with me :') 20, I just got tired of trying to feel something that everyone says I should feel

My sister just told me this one- Mother: You'll want kids one day My sister (age 9): I don't! I never want kids *Roughly 4 year old* me: maybe I'll have kids to do my chores for me.. but I don't want a boyfriend! He can help me get babies then LEAVE. My sister told me this while we were discussing my (lack of) sexuality/Romantic inclination

This makes allot of sense. I generally define it by 'the things that people do in a rom-com' or whether I feel like the people are monogomous to each other in the things they do- but then this gets complicated by Poly relationships! Some of the things I personally would define as inherantly romantic- - Kissing on the mouth (unless in a culture where this is a standard greeting) - Kissing with tongue/etc - Sharing the same bedroom/bed (not just sharing for a night or so) - Being 'faithful' to one another (unless in an open/poly relationship) - Giving gifts/letters/sentiment that implys romantic love (valentines cards that aren't stated as platonic) - Calling them your partner/lover/bf/gf - Getting married/Civil partnership/Other ceremonial promise to stay together I suppose I see romantic attraction as the desire to do these things with someone, and to have them love you more than anyone else

I love hugs and cuddling (platonically) Kissing, I never have enjoyed it, but I think I could be okay with closed mouth kisses. I sais sometimes because I like kisses on other parts of body, arms, torso, etc, to show affection But then I treat people I like how I treat my cat.. cuddles and head kisses

I always related to Dean, so this makes sense to me I vote this one

The answers to section V are terrifying D:::::: Being generous, and including all my past squishes/puberty/etc, I got 6 These applied when I was a teenager and didn't know it was possible to not feel romantic attraction/didn't know what it was: 5, 39, 49, 75 Quite honestly, three of those sound very much like someone who doesn't experience love but wants to. (for me, past tense) These were with Squishes- 15, 160 I guess I'm not particularly romantic

Yeah this is me too I don't think I've ever felt romantic attraction, but it's hard to be sure what that exactly is, especially as the times that could have been, I was a teenager so made up many of my 'crushes' to fit in. Whether any had real feelings behind them I can't be certain, but I am 95% sure the ones with any truth were just aestetic attraction and admiration. I also say grey-romo because I wouldn't necessarily say no to a romantic relationship, despite prefering a platonic one. I feel like if I called myself Aro, any person with whom I might be okay with a romantic relationship (as this may be their preference/meet their needs) would assume I am a no-go and not give me a chance.

All of the above D: Being on this site really makes me realise how Aro I am.. I had previously assumed it was just part of being Ace. YMBAI you can never tell if someone is hitting on you.. unless they're so obvious that it's basically just a proposition

HAPPY SUNSHINE YELLOW Light grey, colour. Coming from the land of tea and crumpets Besides yellow these are my favourites too, earthy tones, plus blues

ENF P/J I got a huge on the E My P and J switch each time because I'm pretty much bang in the middle Most definately what I do I feel bad for word-vomiting everywhere but I generally prefer group opinion and get so exited it all just comes out before I think

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My ring fingers are much longer. I'm Ace/Aro and Agender (AFAB)

I'm offended that you just said arctic potatoes.. What about tropical potatoes?

I totally get this! Whenever people would say "ohh I'm just not happy with him/her/them seeing x person because y". My answer (pre realising I'm Aro) has always been "... Why are you with this person if you don't trust them?" or "Why would they bother dating you if they want someone else?" Yes, It's creepy and abusive and reminds me of *shudder* Twilight..

I NEVER understoood the Disney princess films. I mean, who wants to be a princess? Like all you got was to be locked up by someone evil (and badass) to wait around forever until you got rescued by a prince (who you had met once before in a field somewhere..). Why would anyone want to be that person??? I also loved the animal ones Lion King is my fave too, the story of Hamlet is genius all round

Tried them during highschool. They were boring and I never got the point

I kind of feel.. other.. like I am the oddity, standing outside of all the weird and confusing gender/sexuality/romantic entanglements of the rest of the planet

Newton Faulkner - People should smile more

I just have.. friends? I'm only have squishes on very kind people Usually it's their kindness that draws me

Literally all of my experimentation was this.. YMBAI when reading a book, a romantic/romo-tense situation comes up and you laugh at the characters involved, thinking it ridiculous or juvenile ..they did? But why o_0 Ahh.. You've just made me realise how Aro I am..