There are ALWAYS several factors that make a person who they are. Having said that, it’s damn impossible to change who you are. All humans are complicated. Learn to live with who you are.
No. It’s not just allos. Asexuals are MORE obsessed with this kind of stuff, being in relationships and doing things they feel is romantic, like cuddling and sharing beds.
When I see the ATT commercial and Mark Wahlberg says "watch unlimited romance ... if you're into that" and I'm thankful he's hinting not everyone is into that.