SamwiseLovesLife

YOU'VE DISCOVERED MY SECRET FETISH **runs away into the sea to live out my life seducing ameobas** Be eaten. I'm a vegan, I ain't got time fo' that sh*t WYR be a siamese twin joined at the hip (trouble walking) or joined at the head (trouble looking where you want)?

Apple becaused bruised banana tastes like toffee that's gone slimey.. Would you rather magically change into a seahorse and live out the rest of your life as a seahorse breading stallion (male pregnancy lols) or be transported back to the Cretacious period (still human).. good luck with the dinosauruses

Yes, this is definately what I mean. I find it to be very intimate, and if void of all feeling, I get no enjoyment from it. It's nice that the lead-up and afterwards are happy for you, I would be sad to think that it was just something you do for other people and hate all of it <3 Yes I agree! lucky a-holes (lol.. A..) who can simply 'get their end away' without conflicting feelings about it I really relate to this Exactly! If there's an orientation or what for what you're describing, then it's my word too! But despite the pain-in-the-ass that these feelings are for me, I can't help but be happy that my relationships (platonic ones) are so warm and mutually benefiting, because of this empathy and closeness I feel for others ^ That is so cute

Hi all you beauties, In the topic- A few of the commenters and I discussed briefly the concept of having/enjoying sex where there are feelings involved as opposed to 'physical acts for simple tactile pleasure' when you are on the Aro-spectrum. My thoughts were that I haven't enjoyed sex that is 'meaningless' but as I don't experience romantic attraction, I was unsure what to call this when for example you choose to have sex with someone you are platonically close to, and the strong bond you have strengthens the plasure experienced. So I'm curious; I've noticed a fair amount of Arocalypse discussions around sex seem to consist of the notion that sex is a transaction, physical and nothing more (in the absense of romantic feeling), so I want to know if any more of you have thoughts on the kind of feeling that can improve the experience of sex, beyond a simple lust-based experience. Thoughts?

I love you. #noromo Potatoes. I can live with out them (despite my name.. Ironic much) but NO ONE CAN HOLD BACK MY FRUITY CRAVINGS **breast-strokes in a swimming pool of fruit salad**

I'm usually designated driver, so more often than not, sober. I've been drinking since very young though (maybe 6?) so experienced the whole range of affects when different levels of drunk. I don't care either way *shrug*

Putin as I'm fairly certain you can catch idiocy. -I am so sorry for whoever has to answer this, I don't pull any punches- Would you rather sleep next to a corpse for the rest of your life or have multiple sexual encounters with sea-creatures (think tentacles)?

That's cool, I'll be visiting the US within the next few years. My last continent is in a month so after that I'll be re-visiting places FUTURE US ARO MEET

@Momo @Eklinaar UK meet anyone? I can travel out of country but that could take a while

Proof prejudice goes all ways *sigh* It's a frustrating world Ah that's a shame, maybe you need more Ace/Aro friends? I've met many at Aven meets

God tell me about it. Luckily I have a few good friends (in long-term relationships) with whom I can cuddle and flirt; their partners don't mind as they see I am equally affectionate with all my friends (while respecting bounderies) and being the partner's friend too certainly helps. Plus, as I'm trans they know I'm not going to have sexual urges towards the person as that's not currently something I can enjoy partaking in. With strangers it's okay because by the time i'm being physically affectionate (around the time I figure they're okay with it) they will know either that i'm trans or aro (perks of being way to open and over-sharing). Plus being quite small and also friendly to EVERYONE seems to get across that I'm not threatening, just an equal-oppertunity cuddler YES FOR ARO MEETUPS. London anyone?

I'm planning to shout this from the rooftops Ahhhhh I totally relate to this (more than I'd like to). I have always strayed the line of over-intimacy with friends because that's just how I feeeeeel </3 (not because I ever have romance on my mind). Maybe we need some Arocalypse meet-ups so we can find like minded intimacy friends..

Little Aro child Sam (me) always said exactly the same thing.. Everyone would laugh and say I'd understand when I was older (oh so patronising). 21 now, still don't understand it ^ Every relationship I've ever been in

^ This. So much. (teens desperately clinging to ANYTHING that might be romantic feeling as never have understood it)

I always kinda felt like Aven was (by majority, not 100%) a whole lot of young-ish people who aren't sexually inclined but want somewhere to obsess over relationships/love/general-teen-angst in a non-sexual setting. Which is fine of course, but not really what I'm looking for in a social forum. All the romo crap bores the hell out of me Also+ I like how synical Arocalypse is

Same! I totally agree with @Skittles87 about being gender non-conforming and totally ace/aro vibes. It was so wierd that she 'suddenly' had feelings for the Club president despite never having them previously. Damn heteronormativity.. Though shoutout to the Mangaka for a drag queen father I adore this Anime :3

I'm flying through so many Manga right now it's hard to keep track. I love most Yaoi though only if it makes sense to the plot, also anything rape-y is a no for me. I kind of like romance if it's good, but i hate it with women in manga/anime because they have super high voices and it all seems ridiculous to me (hence the Yaoi). I like fantasy and supernatural Art style is important too, I hate it when characters are so simplified you can't tell them appart. One of my favourites of all time (though short) is Dia Game. Supernatural, Yaoi (and hot) with awesome characters and a stuuuuuuning art style Be still my little Ace/Aro heart </3

Petition to make this a film

Jurrassic park (origional) isn't too romantic.. at least the one romance is already pre-established and doesn't take screentime

I almost asked this but doubted anyone would answer I'd rather take a shower outdoors (have done) tgm

OKAY GUYSIES (and girlsies.. non-binary-sies) I want to know everything you'd rather do than get Married.. 1.. 2.. 3.. POST To begin- I'd rather give my cat a bath TGM

DON'T GET ME STARTED D:<

Totally, Like she doesn't want to get married ever, she says so

I second this

Light Yurigama from Deathnote (Just started watching it so I don't know about later on) Totally agreed!