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SamwiseLovesLife

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  1. Yes, which sounds like a nice thing, but sort of stifling? I've never met a person that I would want to become one with for my whole life rather than free beings
  2. Silent hill **shudder** Any Disney princess movies.
  3. I'm pretty sure most of us have tried at some point.. seeing as there are quite allot of us I'd say it doesn't work
  4. I made friends with people that despite relationships want friend-time/girl-time. Also one of my closest friends is Poly so she doesn't feel the need to be with her SO instead of other people I just think of this like, 'ah well, I'm the most important person in MY life'
  5. I find this hilarious.. like being smart/geeky = poor vision..?
  6. I just read the valentines one.. It's pretty amazing I love how non gender conforming it is. Depicting a normal relationship = Lesbians. Woman (wearing skirt and bow) = is bald. No explination. Just awesome.
  7. This is such an awesome picture Do you have a link for her stuff?
  8. Have you ever watched Glee? You could do a Sue and have a wedding with yourself to shut your dad up
  9. @Philbo Wiseroot I'm Agender too, and came to this conclusion a little while ago. Do you mind me asking (feel free to PM if private), do you feel that your body reflects your gender or does it oppose it for you? I am trans, as I am taking steps to 'neutralise' certain gendered aspects of my body, and I am curious If you feel the same or differently? I'm AFAB so I would be curious to know as an (I'm assuming) AMAB Agendered person, what your thoughts on your body are?
  10. Saaaame I totally think you should do what makes you happy, but I hate the double standard. This is such a shame I like that they went as beards though. In the UK no one gives af. If anyone's homophobic, they're the odd ones out and are frowned on by everyone else
  11. This post from Aven http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/36108-how-dou-you-say-asexual-in-different-languages/ has the Asexual words, so if you know the word for romantic, I assume you can use the same prefix (if other than A)
  12. 1. We need waaaaaaaaaaaay more.. that aren't children 2. Clariel by Garth Nix. I adore it Also, in some ways you could consider Skeeter from The Help (one of my alltime favourite books/movies) a greyromantic asexual This looks awesome, I wish it was a book
  13. I say 'I love you' to my closest friends (who say the same). I wouldn't to anyone if I thought they might have non-platonic feelings for me as I wouldn't want to give them the wrong idea (luckily that doesn't happen allot)
  14. I love yellow. YELLOW I GOT YOUR BACK **dances in a field of sunflowers**
  15. Aaaghhh I hate this, why on earth would you choose to think of yourself incomplete? That's so sad! Even before realising I am Aro I always said I am a whole person, and if I ever found someone I wanted to date, they would be another whole person who would simply compliment each other and be wholes choosing to stick together. Also when people talk like this it suggests they think there is someone they are destined to be with because they are two halves of one person. By the amount of relationships romantic people seem to go through i very seriously doubt they honestly think like that. I physically cringe when people say "My other half.."
  16. I recently had two good friends get engaged on their first (annual) anniversary. Don't get me wrong, I adore my friends and they make a great couple but this freaks me out. Alternatively, my sister and her partner have their 10th anniversary this year and everyone seems to be anticipating (and frankly, pressuring) for them to get engaged on this date. Why does it need to be a special date? Why can't they just wait until they are ready, which may be never? (Also, why is it anyone else's business..)
  17. I actually really like this video by Lauren Harkins https://youtu.be/xO3ZNw_Eqo4 **She's Asexual Aro** I feel like it makes things very clear in a humerous way
  18. Hi lovely people (and non-people) I would love to hear which real people (not characters) in the media, celebrities, youtubers, etc you know or think to be Aromantic. Do you think they give good reprisentation and why? Two youtubers I've come across are simply kenna and Lauren Harkins, I haven't watched much from either of them but both are cis girls (Lauren prefers to be seen as a girl than woman) and have channels dedicated to vlogging/beauty.
  19. I think this on a T-shirt, like @shotinthehand's profile picture.. The Umbrella could even be in the Aromantic flag colours
  20. I love your grumpy cat photo.. I feel like that could be the next Aro pride T-shirt :D

    1. shotinthehand

      shotinthehand

      Thanks! I would love to wear that on a shirt, especially on Valentine's Day.

    2. SamwiseLovesLife

      SamwiseLovesLife

      Let's do it. We could start a trend

  21. I had already come out once, thinking I must be gay. My dad (who had been uncomfortable with the idea of me being gay) was relieved and not surprised. Being 21 and having no interest in dating he'd guessed it 'isn't really my thing'. My ma (expects everyone to want kids but doesn't care what your sexuality is) was both sad (she thought I'd be happier being gay) and maybe not surprised? She's more sad that I'm trans and won't have children (I don't ever want them). They took it fine really I'm not out to my wider family but then turning up to all family events as THE ONLY SINGLE PERSON, I think they just think I'm odd by now and it's best not to ask
  22. I'm with you I love how this plays on romance
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