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  1. A spectrum of genders isn't some modern liberal idea - historically, many cultures across the world have three or more genders. Here's a map showing some of these cultures (there are even more that aren't on the map). I don't know if that'll convince him though 🤷‍♂️
  2. Don't mind me, just over here hiding from the definition drama on Aven. 

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    2. Sam Spade

      Sam Spade

      @Lovebird I would if I understood it myself 😅 but basically Aven (the asexuality forum) is changing their definition of asexual to "having little or no attraction"  (so it'll include demisexual and gray-ace, I guess??) and now people are arguing over definitions again, and even talking about making a new forum. 

    3. Lovebird


      Ohh dear, not surprised people would be angry. People exact greys and demis to pick a side all the time. 

    4. 2 Spirit Cherokee Princess

      2 Spirit Cherokee Princess

      Including grays & demis isn't a bad idea.  But it sure is silly for them to say "the word asexual will now mean something different on this website than what it means to the rest of the world."

  3. Sam Spade

    The Future

    My goals for the future are to progress in my career, make enough money to move out... I have a few pets/livestock and would like more if I have enough time to care for them. I also volunteer with a local youth group and don't plan on stopping anytime soon. I don't want a partner or kids. I have enough of a community that I don't feel lonely.
  4. I've felt alterous (like friendship I guess) attraction a few times, that's it.
  5. @eatingcroutons Thanks! I saw it on Aven too and was stumped.
  6. Welcome! I couldn't upload any photos (files were too large) so here's some virtual cake!!! 🥞🍰
  7. I've seen this on some profiles and was just wondering what it meant.
  8. It doesn't really affect my career... I get asked if I have a SO occasionally but I just say "I'm focusing on my career". Don't know if it'll work when I'm older but no one bothers me now. On the plus side, there's no one in my life to feel neglected when I'm working all day. Except my pets, who have a good pet-sitter.
  9. Hello, person who I probably don't know
    how's existance?


    are u the real sam spade from aven tho, or are you an impostor?

    1. Sam Spade

      Sam Spade

      Yep I'm the Sam Spade from Aven! I'm not popular enough to have a crowd of copycats lol

      Existence is good, thanks for asking! How about you?


  10. Yes, I only had a few friends, and they moved away. I'm always the one who reaches out which makes me wonder if anyone actually likes hanging out with me...
  11. That's my impression of romance, and I'm just uncomfortable with that drive being aimed at me, because I know I can't reciprocate.
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