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  1. Do you still want grandchildren from me, mom? Gimme enough $ for a 1-bedroom and we're talking (I'll obv just rent it out but it's none of her business). No $ -> no extra grandchildren
  2. You're so good at tracking your habits TW: demotivator: Spoiler I hate seeing myself fail, which is a big issue - I don't document my progress for this reason. I've given up on myself at this point. I'm just trying to have as much fun as I have left in life, without much order.
  3. People neglecting real or functional analysis are my pet peeve, you'd better do that homework
  4. Ironically, my experience is similar to this: I've started suspecting that I can be regarded as a 'libidoist aro ace' in the AVEN context and an 'aro straight' in the context of this thread, i.e. that the classification depends on the community.
  5. To use sexuality as an example, I could coin a term like 'acoitality' for my unwillingness to have intercourse (whereas my attitude to other types of sex is unknown as I've never found myself in a situation where I'd really have to give it a thought), but I'm sure hardly anyone would adopt such a term. The same goes for romance - a good example of a QPP request form is very detailed and, for many possible combinations of affectionate activities listed there, there are likely people who wish to do that but not anything else. And it's quite similar to other habits and hobbies - while people are getting to know each other, they learn what they can do together and what the partner doesn't like them doing. The incompatibilities that are total deal-breakers for some (like kissing, gifts or dancing) pop up quite fast anyway, plus you can warn a potential partner about them if you're expecting such things from them as per your local culture. If they become insulted by your unwillingness to do 'standard' things, then they're not worth your time anyway as they wouldn't tolerate your finer peculiarities later on. And you should be able to assert in a convo that, in the free modern society, you're a person in your own right and don't owe any of those things to anyone. Aka, 'the relationship is free and provided 'as is' with no warranty or liability for damages'.
  6. No matter how to formulate a definition, it will be too general anyway... isn't it easier to handle requests for romance on a case-by-case basis as they appear, e.g. if someone wants to kiss (cuddle / cohabit / whatever you don't wish), explain to them that you don't do this particular stuff with anyone and the fact that you don't wish to do this with them doesn't mean you don't value them. The stuff that you're willing to do may be changing over time, too. It looks like my identity has made a 180-degree turn over the last 2 years, haha. Or maybe this approach works well only for asocial people like me who hardly ever get such requests and hardly ever have this topic raised in convos anyway To my relatives, I just tell without fancy terms that I'm not going to cohabit with anyone, and this already gives them all the necessary info. The exact definition of aromanticism will be an open question for long because different people and cultures have different views on what is romantic.
  7. That's a curious observation. I'm actually a pervert but I can't afford to let anyone know what my fantasies are, so from the outside, I'm indistinguishable from an aro.
  8. I hold the unpopular opinion that my aromanticism has been caused by whatever undiagnosed mental issues I have (which might be schizoid, avoidant, borderline or autistic spectrum), but I don't mind my personality the way it is - the aromanticism is making my life so much easier to plan.
  9. Do you really think that eating 3 packs of Japanese seaweed papos has given me too many calories? Shouldn't I trust the nutritional info on the packs that says they give only a few dozen kcal?
  10. So were papos the real reason for my summer weight gain that I'm having trouble reverting?
  11. What's more harmful to the health, papos or spuds?
  12. I remember having a dream where the object of my aesthetic attraction at that time hinted to me to propose marriage to her, which I refused to do and woke up in horror instead
  13. Which software do you mean? Is IrfanView OK or is GIMP pretty necessary?
  14. How difficult is it to draw a custom papo?
  15. Having both Arocalypse and AVEN tabs open and getting notifications from both so that I don't miss any action at either #feelsgoodman

    1. Spud

      Spud

      #relatable :P

    2. Jayce

      Jayce

      I agree! It's fun to be able to keep up with both sites :D

  16. * raises hand * The LGBT+ discourse takes too much time to learn. I'm lazy.
  17. As I treat 'papo' as a spinoff of the Spanish word 'papi', I tend to pronounce it by the Spanish rules, 'pah-paw. Me too.
  18. Hmm, the thing is that I need to create a Discord account for a somewhat commercial purpose, and I might start asking experienced Discord users about the intricacies of its usage soon
  19. [Not as funny] Travie McCoy ft Bruno Mars - 'Billionaire' as written by Ari Levine, Bruno Mars, Philip Lawrence and Travis Mccoy. Spoiler I wanna be a billionaire so freakin' bad Buy all of the things I never had Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen Oh every time I close my eyes I see my name in shining lights Yeah, a different city every night oh right I swear the world better prepare For when I'm a billionaire Yeah I would have a show like Oprah I would be the host of, everyday Christmas Give Travie a wish list I'd probably pull an Angelina and Brad Pitt And adopt a bunch of babies that ain't never had s*** Give away a few Mercedes like here lady have this And last but not least grant somebody their last wish It's been a couple months that I've been single so You can call me Travie Claus minus the Ho Ho Get it, hehe, I'd probably visit where Katrina hit And damn sure do a lot more than FEMA did Yeah can't forget about me stupid Everywhere I go Imma have my own theme music Oh every time I close my eyes I see my name in shining lights A different city every night oh right I swear the world better prepare For when I'm a billionaire Oh ooh oh ooh for when I'm a billionaire Oh ooh oh ooh for when I'm a billionaire I'll be playing basketball with the President Dunking on his delegates Then I'll compliment him on his political etiquette Toss a couple milli in the air just for the heck of it But keep the five, twenties tens and bens completely separate And yeah I'll be in a whole new tax bracket We in recession but let me take a crack at it I'll probably take whatever's left and just split it up So everybody that I love can have a couple bucks And not a single tummy around me would know what hungry was Eating good sleeping soundly I know we all have a similar dream Go in your pocket pull out your wallet And put it in the air and sing I wanna be a billionaire so ****in' bad Buy all of the things I never had Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen Oh every time I close my eyes I see my name in shining lights A different city every night all right I swear the world better prepare for when I'm a billionaire Oh ooh oh ooh for when I'm a billionaire Oh ooh oh ooh for when I'm a billionaire I wanna be a billionaire so ****in' bad! Run through Thai, Spanish, Simplified Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Lao, Italian, Hindi, Finnish, Afrikaans, Zulu, Latin, Pashto, Sudanese, Malagasy, Tamil, German, Kazakh. Spoiler Sex billionaire. I do everything. Forbes. Opuragua Lady smile. Who was this I saw the lights. In fact, in some countries, changes that night. I promise to be better prepared. abayiziqumama -Oprah Winfrey: Again, I want to show. Christ is for us every day. club Angelina and Brad Pitt Street. Dog mess ": I can not eat. Mercedes has two daughters. Finally, on the basis of. And second, though. You can call me Travie number. We have the power and authority. a lot of control. I'm not foolish to forget. Stop. Who was this I saw the lights. Lunch group O. I promise to be better prepared. abayiziqumama Ah, ah, ah, I thought. Ah, ah, ah, I thought. President of basketball Enter your business Information and political weekly. A flight ". For five years Abens 1020th When you learn a new way. I pull out of the crisis. There is nothing you can do. If the dollar. " I am hungry, I do not know. Eat Sleep. We know the meaning of dreams. Bag. You also will be music in the air. Sex billionaire. I do everything. Forbes. Opuragua Lady smile. Oh, and your eyes light up every time you see the name. After another way, yes. as well as the promise of a millionaire. Ah, ah, ah, I thought. Ah, ah, ah, I thought. those who do not have a billionaire!
  20. 'Black Widow' performed by Iggy Azalea ft Rita Ora (trigger warning: romance) as written by Katy Perry, Amethyst Amelia Kelly, Sarah Hudson, Tor Erik Hermansen, Mikkel Storleer Eriksen and Benjamin Levin. Spoiler (Chorus) I'm gonna love you Until you hate me And I'm gonna show you What's really crazy You should've known better Then to mess with me harder I'm gonna love you, I'm gonna love you Gonna love you, gonna love you Like a black widow, baby (Verse 1) This twisted cat and mouse game always starts the same First we're both down to play then somehow you go astray We went from nothing to something liking to loving It was us against the world now we just ****ing It's like I loved you so much and now I just hate you Feeling stupid for all the time that I gave you I wanted all or nothing for us ain't no place in between By me believing what you say that you never mean Like It'll last for ever but now forever ain't as long If it wasn't for you I wouldn't be stuck singing this song You was different from my last but now you got a mirror But as it all plays out I see it couldn't be clearer Now sing (Pre-chorus) You used to be thirsty for me But now you wanna be set free This is the web, the web that you weave So baby now rest in peace (It's all over with now) (Chorus) I'm gonna love you Until you hate me And I'm gonna show you What's really crazy You should've known better Then to mess with me, harder I'm gonna love you, I'm gonna love you Gonna love you, gonna love you Like a black widow, baby (Verse 2) I'm gonna love you until it hurts Just to get you I'm doing whatever works You'd have never met nobody That will do you how I do ya That will bring you to your knees Praise Jesus hallelujah Imma make you beg for it, plead for it Till you feel like you breath for it Till you do any and everything for it I want you to fiend for it Wake up and dream for it Till it's got you gasping for air And you leave for it Til then you have a cat scan and you can check your mind And there's nothing but me on it Now it's me time believe that If it's yours when you want it I wouldn't promise I need that Till I'm everywhere that you be at I can't fall back go quick 'Cause this here is fatal attraction so I take it all or I don't want s*** (Pre-chorus) You used to be thirsty for me But now you wanna be set free This is the web, the web that you weave So baby now rest in peace (It's all over with now) (Chorus) I'm gonna love you Until you hate me And I'm gonna show you What's really crazy You should've known better Then to mess with me harder I'm gonna love you, I'm gonna love you Gonna love you, gonna love you Like a black widow, baby Run through Malayalam, Georgian, Portuguese, Hawaiian, Shona, Swahili, Traditional Chinese, Maori, Yoruba, Korean, Xhosa, Belarusian Spoiler (Chorus) And paint. No hatred end? I see the time, The reason for this is that if I only know Bora If ka'ino? Very, I love you! product requirements are gonna'll Jane Black Milk (Verse 1) Hi Park cash commission Australia beats his sister, cargo KK spending items This wildly Chennai The brothers who hate you, I hate them All brands of inspired Creator Kat And I'm one of the most competitive, and says he wants to Jewelry, personal August last loss, he said, but Nia, I will cause a drop in milk bags Keira me, but we can not relax, not enough glass But they can throw you, I തെളിച്ചമുള്ളതാകും Mezaji camp (Pre-chorus) the Bar, Monkees The development of the Internet in India Although Naaman remaining child (from Lee High Camp outside Ethiopia) (Chorus) And paint. No hatred end? I see the time, The reason for this is that if I only know Bora So, dinner Very, I love you! product requirements are gonna'll Jane Black Milk (Verse 2) He's got a gun to Anne Frank House Standing Renhe Li Milk before and people knee And General Amin. Mary Works And I think, I feel your breath Furthermore, business Saad If his sleep and heart universal Zulu I have to go to your heart, that the sexual origin 0 won NineManga.com In addition, the product will oh Eibar Sugar in the morning, Until last year, And I Mali, Aili food Salt Rudy honor freedom "I Sihhi Lily and I, all that I have heard industry we'ole player (Pre-chorus) the Bar, Monkees The development of the Internet in India Although Naaman remaining child (from Lee High Camp outside Ethiopia) (Chorus) And paint. No hatred end? I see the time, The reason for this is that if I only know Bora If ka'ino? Very, I love you! product requirements are gonna'll Jane Black Milk
  21. Disclaimer: the attempt in my below post has turned out much funnier. The original 'Hard Rock Hallelujah' by Lordi as written by Tomi Petteri Putaansuu, Sampsa Petteri Astala, Niko Arto Hurme, Jussi Antero Sydanmaa and Leena Maria Peisa. Spoiler Hard Rock Hallelujah! The saints are crippled On this sinners' night Lost are the lambs with no guiding light The walls come down like thunder The rocks about to roll It's The Arockalypse Now bare your soul All we need is lightning With power and might Striking down the prophets of false As the moon is rising Give us the sign Now let us rise up in awe Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah Demons and angels all in one have arrived Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah In God's creation supernatural high The true believers Thou shall be saved Brothers and sisters keep strong in the faith On the day of Rockoning It's who dares, wins You will see the jokers soon'll be the new kings All we need is lightning With power and might Striking down the prophets of false As the moon is rising Give us the sign Now let us rise up in awe Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah Demons and angels all in one have arrived Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah In God's creation supernatural high Wings on my back I got horns on my head My fangs are sharp And my eyes are red Not quite an angel Or the one that fell Now choose to join us or go straight to Hell Hard Rock Hallelujah! Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah Demons and angels all in one have arrived Rock 'n roll angels bring thyn hard rock hallelujah In God's creation supernatural high Run through Ukrainian, Simplified Chinese, Hungarian, Japanese, Esperanto, Khmer, Czech, Vietnamese, Russian, Spanish: Spoiler Hard Rock Hallelujah! hermit insufficiency guilty night Not sent Ramusuno Loss thunder wall Rolling Stone Top Arockalypse Now that he has created his soul Thunder is needed Strength and power Down in the prophets As a result of growth this month we wait We are in fear Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne Devils and angels Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne For the supernatural creatures of God Catholic Must be stored Brothers and sisters in the faith is still strong today Rockoning Who dares triumphs You, as the new king of ace soon'll Thunder is needed Strength and power Down in the prophets As a result of growth this month we wait We are in fear Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne Devils and angels Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne For the supernatural creatures of God around I have a corner on the top of my head My teeth are sharp Then his eyes were red. This is not an angel or fall Now that you have decided to participate directly or hell Hard Rock Hallelujah! Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne Devils and angels Hard Rock Hallelujah Angels Bring Tyne For the supernatural creatures of God Google Translate is so advanced that it has saved almost all the meaning (well, it's partly because religious terms are unambiguous in most languages).
  22. ICYMI: AVEN is finally migrating its servers to IP Board 4 on Nov 18-20 http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/147793-server-transfer-nov-18-20-2016/

    1. paporomantic

      paporomantic

      I.e. to the same forum software that Arocalypse has been using since its inception :aropridepapo:

    2. aihpen

      aihpen

      Oh thanks, I didn't know that. I haven't been on AVEN in quite a while. But this sounds great ^_^

    3. aussiekirkland

      aussiekirkland

      Arocalypse uses such a better server I might actually be able to give AVEN a chance now :)

  23. I'm not a linguist so I don't dare select a synonym for the Q-word that has the best mixture of shades of meanings. I see that the term 'unconventional gender identity' is often used in papers in psychology (as an umbrella term for all genders that are neither totally male nor totally female), and to me, it sounds neutral enough - neither too condescending nor too polarizing. A vibe of nonconformism is felt in it, but it's rather peaceful independence than rebellion.
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