96Neko Posted September 18, 2022 Share Posted September 18, 2022 The Moment i found about found about the aromanticism made me really happy cause my third own forced relationship just felt wrong and didn't make me happy so i broke up and first i had the feeling something is wrong with me but than i found all about the aromanticism and i could identify with it 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Collie Posted September 18, 2022 Share Posted September 18, 2022 I love being aro and wouldn't want to be any other way :) 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acecream Posted November 22, 2022 Author Share Posted November 22, 2022 I just love how being aro affects the way I see society and how I want to be and to live around people. I love how much I learned by questioning all the social norms the alloromantic society made up 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roboticanary Posted January 10, 2023 Share Posted January 10, 2023 Finding the words to express how I thought about romance probably saved me from doing a lot of really dumb shit. I didn't go charging into relationships I wouldn't have been comfortable with. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonmerci Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 I was watching a reportage about feminism and when a woman described her abusive relationship worh her boyfriend, I just realized how lucky I was cause that will never happen to me. Of course I'm not immune to sexism, and I know that all men are not like this, but I just realized that not dating men means that there is a part of sexism tthatI am not at risk to experience. Of course there is intersectionality between sexism and amatonormativity, but I won't start to date a man, realize then that he is toxic, or violent, and being seen as responsible if I dare go to the police. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EGGHEAD Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 (edited) i feel like it's easier to just like focus on things i enjoy rather than get caught up in romance and stuff it just seems so consuming sometimes Edited January 12, 2023 by EGGHEAD 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flowingleaves Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 honestly from what ive seen of the crushes and relationships my friends have, it sounds like so much work and fluff and nonsense and im super happy that i do not have to deal with that kind of stuff. ive got more time to spend on things i actually care about! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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