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I grew up in a family which used pet names a lot and that rubbed off on me so I'm pretty much fine with it! I'm fine with anyone apart from like complete strangers using pet names for me, it feels kinda natural to me.

Personally it's more the other way round for me. The aromanticism made me genderqueer. I think it personally has something to do with me viewing society treating gender roles as something that don't matter a lot of the time but absolutely matter when discussing romance and relationships so not doing romance led to me letting go of gender more easily than I would have if I had to participate in all that. If that makes sense, I guess.

1. Voidpunk aro (fuck yhhhhh i love voidpunk aros <2) 2. Appearance Headcanon Fodder 3. Swords (i dont have an activism account but id have an aro sideblog, does thta count?) 4. Aromantic (!!!!)

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its absolutely real, though its a bit of an older symbol! i have one myself, a friend got it for me though, so i wouldnt know where to get one myself

honestly from what ive seen of the crushes and relationships my friends have, it sounds like so much work and fluff and nonsense and im super happy that i do not have to deal with that kind of stuff. ive got more time to spend on things i actually care about!

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damn if you liked it that much ill definitely play it! thanks for the rec!

no i dont! but ive heard a lot of really good things about it! it sounds right up my alley, so i might play it after im done with the current batch of games! do you like it? whats it about?

brzmi ciekawie! napewno poszukam to nastepnym razem kiedy pozwole sobie kupic ksiazkii lmao, dzieki za polecenie!

ive recently downloaded a ton of rpg maker horror games from itch.io so im probably gonna be playing exclusively those for the next couple months

oh gods i went through so many name and pronoun changes over the years that my friends STILL joke about it but theyre all still amazing about using my proper one! i went by my initials for a while, then i tried out some other names, but i eventually settled on andy-short-for-andromeda. i liked that i could have a more masc nickname with a more fem full name, the andromeda galaxy is very pretty to me, and im a huge mythology fan and i liked having a name from mythology. i still occasionally question if i like my name, but im pretty happy with it. i guess my advice would be to just... steal one from something you like? media, myths, celebrities, just steal their names. (this just makes me sound like the fae lmao) i think that if you already have a positive association with a name, it might make it easier to use? ig?

im technically a middle child? im the third of four, an older brother, sister, and a younger brother. none of my siblings have come out or told me about being lgbt so im saying im the only one for now.

when i came out to my brother and sister they both tried to make sure that i wasnt being hasty or trying to box myself into a label but were otherwise supportive, though my sister did tell me that after her first relationship (with one of my brothers friends) she thought she was aro because of how bad it was. so that was pretty funny

oh absolutely. i have really supportive friends that accepted me being aro super easily. (though that might be cause i went through more labels than there is letters in the alphabet but oh well) i never really minded it, i never had crushes or cared much for marriage or kids so i adjusted pretty easily. i occasionally have moments where i get upset about it but im happy as i am

ooo ja slyszalem troche o Tomie, jest bardzo ciekawa kolekcja historii! ja mam Shiver i Dissolving Classroom ale tylko przeczytalam Shiver, dopiero dostalem Dissolving Classroom na swieta. Bardzo mi sie podobalo Shiver zato, Painter jest moja ulubione historia chyba i ona jest o Tomie! Nigdy nie sylszalem o Slepa Ulicka, jakie sa twoje ulubione historie z tej ksiazki?

hey! welcome to the forum! i hope you find someone you can talk to. i know nix already mentioned it but head over to the teen corner, im sure youll find some friends there :)

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hi! good to meet you too! my fave books have probably gotta be either the magnus chase ones or the kane chronicles! obviously percy jackson is a classic but theres something special about those ones, kane chronicles in particular. the premise for them is just so interesting! im not really sure what character would be my favourite? sadies cool, so is magnus himself but im not totally sure. what about you? yup, looks like you got there a little too late! za to, zawsze milo spotkac innych polakow, wiec sie nie martw! ulubiona opowiesc junji ito?

hi, nice to have you here! <2

i actually assumed i was pan for ages cause yknow i felt the same about everyone but uh yh. turns out that i just felt nothing all around, whoops. one day a couple years back, i made this one friend at school and i managed to convince myself that i had a crush on her (i actually had to put on romantic music and had to think about loving her really hard, such an aro moment), i asked her out and we dated for a solid 3 days before i realised that everytime that i thought of her since we had started dating, i felt sick to my stomach. like i would think about going to school and seeing her and i would feel like throwing up. didnt help that a bunch of her classmates shipped us, which was what actually pressured me into thinking i liked her. i broke up with her over text (yikes) and looked into the arospec community. i thought i was lithro for a while, and asked her to be my qpp, though we eventually broke it off for unrelated reasons. i tried out tons of different labels for a while, i lost count of how many but i figured myslef out eventually. i was and still am really lucky that nearly everyone i care about does not give a single shit if im aro or not, and im even luckier that my best friends didnt get sick of my perpetual identity crisis. though the two of them do still like to tease me occasionally about my 3 day long one and only relationship lmao