clownblegh Posted August 26, 2020 Share Posted August 26, 2020 Is it wrong of me to want to be loved romantically by someone, and want to be in a romantic relationship and do romance coded things in it, even though I know I probably won’t fully reciprocate the exact same feelings??? I know I could have love for someone deeply in other (not exactly “romantic”) ways but I know it won’t be what they’re expecting. It’s not quite one-sided, I’d still try to be there in all the ways that couples are (though I might not be able to do every little relationship detail), but I still probably won’t be matching their exact emotions. I feel kinda bad that I’d be okay with that. Of course, I’d tell them about my aro-ness and all that but still. Is it selfish to want/do that? I feel like it would be cruel to let someone love you like that when you know you can’t love them back the same 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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