The Aro Mando Echo

I'm sorry you have to handle this, and like hemogoblin said it is not selfish to care for your friends. It's understandable that you feel like you could lose them, and I don't think it's self-centered. It's weird for us when allos or alloros prioritize romance over friendship, but just know that it's okay to set boundaries and feel how you feel.

Personally, I like both, though I love the combined flag bc I feel like both flag colors are so aesthetic! ✨

Just a general discussion on flags, but to start things off, to all my fellow aroaces out there, do you like the "sunset" aroace flag, or the flag that is a combo of the ace flag and aro flag?

Hello everyone, I'm Echo. I'm Aroace, and I just use she/her 'nouns. Nice to meet all of you!

Man that's always so awkward, ugh.. especially when teachers or whoever make comments about how "You'll all feel urges someday.."

Hey I'm Echo! I love fantasy books! What kind of books have you read?

Yes! I have had "I Am Not A Robot" by Marina and The Diamonds stuck in my head for days! Also "Love song" by Sara Bareilles

I don't usually like to talk about this too much, but I have been working really hard recently, and I'm getting very discouraged with everything. I have tried to branch out in all of my hobbies, school, and home, but it feels like my limbs were cut off. I am disappointed in myself, and it feels like everyone is disappointed in me as well. Even when I'm really tired I try so hard to care for everyone around me and bear my problems in silence, but everyone just seems irritated that I can't give more. On top of that, I came out to my friends, (most are bi and queer) and I think they think I am just aroace to "fit in" or "be special too" I honestly am tired of hearing about their crushes all the time. It's very late, and this probably sounds worse than it is, but I am just really, really, tired. Also my fish died

I love The Clone Wars, definitely one of my favorite shows! Season seven tore out my heartstrings though... My all-time favorite SW show is The Mandalorian, though (as you might be able to tell from my profile), for a lot of reasons.

Watching Cringe TikTok compilations 😭 sometimes it's just nice to watch when I feel bad about myself, even though I know its bad to judge other people... You guys should see some of the stuff on there though, a lot of it is just bad thirst traps. Edit: I also like to eat waffles frozen, right out of the freezer

Heyy! Thank you! :)

THIS. I actually had to do research and discover that apparently love is a feeling and not just someone being compatible or choosing someone else based on different factors. Like when people "can't help falling in love"?? I get so confused sometimes..

Hmm, that's tough. I like all of them, but Revenge of the Sith has a special place in my heart! (Though it can be controversial 😅) How about you?

Hey, I'm Echo! I also love the sims, it's just so addictive for some reason. Welcome!

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You are completely invisible to people who can only see three dimensions, and anytime you touch anything it affects another dimension. I can summon any person, fictional or real, when I clap three times.

I wonder how far these pages will go...

I just wish that there was more clarification on the fact that both alloaces and aroaces exist. I get the alloaces wanting to express that they still want a relationship, but I wish that the way it was done was a bit less of .. exclusivity (for lack of a better word), and more just defining how the alloace in question identifies personally. Both are perfectly valid of course and both face similar hardships, so I think it's important to support one another, where ever you are on the aromantic or asexual spectrum.

Hello, I just found this! I am an aro/ace teen who loves.. a lot of nerdy things... (Star Wars, Harry Potter, LOTR..etc..) I have told my sister and friends about my orientation (Or lack of, I guess), but I'm still waiting on telling my parents. 😅 I actually have been questioning whether I was ace for a while (before I knew aromantics were a thing) and I finally came to terms with the fact at the beginning of HS. I am interested to see what experiences my fellow aros and aro-specs have had, in a world where seemingly everything is romantic or sexual... sigh...