Rinpochard
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I'm offended by that dry "lol"
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True TPBM collects cool rocks
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So I just wanted to share a little bit of how I discovered I was aro. Not a vent or rant. When I was 13-14 I suddenly somehow caught feelings for a random stranger. During that time I was straight ace. It kinda confused me because I had never felt like that before and I realized that when walking to school behind said person, lol. That started my questioning. I wasn't entirely sure about my romantic orientation because I hadn't given it much thought. I went through a ton of labels, including biromantic, grey biromantic, lithromantic, greyaromantic, heteromantic, aegoromantic, and others. I think during the autumn of 8th grade (I was 14) I told my friend about the thing and she of course assumed it was a crush, but I said I don't want anything romantic with the person. She kept teasing me about it and I kinda felt like I was supposed to date them, but I never did and I kinda pushed the thing aside until the winter of 9th grade, when I was 15. During that time I did a lot of questioning again and I found the label "aromantic". I just thought "yes, that's me" because all feelings I've ever had for a real or fictional "crush" were less than romantic. I came out to my friend as aroace, which I talked about here. (All times I mention "friend" it's the same person). Now in high school and after turning 16 I've considered myself aegoromantic again. I'm not as repulsed by romantic media as I was before, but I still don't feel any attraction. I barely ever see the person I "liked" anymore and I can go weeks without thinking of them. My friend has dated some people and we've actually discussed alloromanticism and aromanticism, because she's very romantic and I am very not romantic. Yeah, that's how I figured out I'm not allo
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False TPBM likes noodles
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I can't write romance, so I will write the best aro protagonist ever. Heheheheh
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I got a full score on my English finals last spring
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Dear Dictator by Saint Motel. Absolutely amazing
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"You have it easy, you don't fall in love" sure, sure
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Rain world. I'm also playing Hollow knight (even though I have max completion percentage already) because I love the bug game
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It's almost me birthday :D
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Eating pineapple at 2 am and listening to Queen. Nothing out of ordinary
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I'd say to cut your hair short if you want. I also have plans to look more androgyne, so I'm cutting my hair short and mostly wearing unisex clothes. I don't use makeup so I don't know about that. For binding you could use sports bras? Two of them on top of each other is good, if they let you move normally and aren't too tight -
Non-binary falls under the trans umbrella, because usually enby individuals identify as something else than cis. With absgender I personally feel that my gender consists of some parts of my AGAB but some other major factors that don't make me demigender. It's hard to explain how I feel but I'm just somewhere inbetween cis and trans
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I found the term I think fits me the most: Absgender. Definition: a gender modality that refers to when one is between, beyond or removed from cisgender/transgender dichotomy, and alternatively meaning a gender that is neither cisgender nor transgender. I don't see myself with a gender, but not as genderless either, so I thought this fits really well for me. I'm not cis, and I'm not trans. This was a great discovery, but at the same time I'm questioning my asexuality
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Yep, still here and questioning again
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One more week and I'm ✨free✨
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I feel kinda blank right now. Idk how to explain it. My friend broke up with their partner and idk how to comfort them. I'm excited for summer and I'm going to enjoy it so damn much but it feels distant. My future studies with chemistry and biology are also causing me pressure. What if I fail my courses? What if my issues come back worse than before? I've also started doubting my aroness. I have been planning how to come out to my parents on my birthday but idk if it's worth it. I don't know if they care. I know they'd use it against me, like they use my issues against me to call me lazy and "just a moody teenager". I really want aro and ace pins for my backpack when I start high school (note: we start it later than in the USA, I'm not 14) as way of expressing myself more because I don't really do that due to past experiences, but can't get them. I don't really know what to do right now. I might just delete this later
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Someone in my class told another guy that he is "the reason why shampoo has instructions"
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How is it that someone having a pride flag in their pfp is somehow more "pushy" than straight couple literally making out in their photos? Hmmm
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Only a month until pride month and 2 ½ to my birthday! 🥳
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