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Rinpochard

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  1. It's time for aro euphoria hours

  2. Super Whimsical Iguana Masses Munching Incredibly Neat Grass CURSIVE
  3. Being aromantic may not be easy for some people but it sure is to me. I genuinely would rather be aro than allo. The point of this post isn't to demonize alloromantic people and their relationships. It's about how I view world as aro. My friend is in relationship with guy. At one point he said to her that 'maybe our thing is pointless and stupid' and ghosted her for a long time. They are still together. I don't know how. She is planning their future together. People will be talking about problems in relationship and heartbreak but I'm cool knowing I don't experience that. I can spend my days not worrying about being cheated on because I am single. I don't worry about being single either. I am going to study until 20 and if by then my romantic orientation don't change, I'm cool with it. Being aromantic is nice, I like it. I may be pressured into relationship and told 'you will have boyfriend one day, you will have children and move together and get married' but I do my best to ignore that. I've seen what marriage can be if it not perfect. It a mess. I've observed how my friends change when in relationship. One of them changed completely and apparently is embarrassed of me when I happen to walk past him with her. She sometimes tells me not to come to certain hallway at school when they're there. Too bad my lockers there so I have to, sorry. One of my friends dated for year and they broke up. She was not doing well after that, but is now. One of my former friends is dating a player, what they are aware of. Does love really blind people to what the other person has done? I think it's scary. Anyway that was my thoughts on being aro
  4. When I found label "aromantic" I decided to snatch it to myself and see if it fits, and it did! I though I was bi for a long time because "I feel same of boys and girls" but little did I know. I literally went through at least 15 romantic orientations before even thinking of aromantic. It was very easy for me to accept being aromantic. I never wanted relationship, never had romantic crush, kissing and cuddling makes me uneasy and I can't picture myself in relationship without physically cringing. Finding out I was aromantic was definitely a relief instead of shock. I can understand how it's hard for some people to accept being aromantic, and it's okay. I agree with this. Anytime someone talks about future they say "when you have partner" instead of "if" and it can feel like a massive pressure, like you just have to do it. Life is short and if there is something you don't want to do, you should leave it out. Live how you want.
  5. Imagine hearing 'peepee poopoo' and then your leg is gone
  6. I had a dream where my mom found out I was aro because I had a flag with an aro flag and an ace heart in the middle on my wall. She looked at a picture on her laptop, then at my flag and did it a few times and was like "hmmm I see" Another dream I had was my mom asked me "in what size do you want your ace flag?" and I was like "uh what" and she said "I know you're ace"
  7. I love being aromantic (no pun intended)

  8. I like it so much I played through five times, characters and music are great and story fascinating It's about a man named the Batter who has to kill specters in different zones and then purify (kill) the guardian of said zone
  9. I have friend I'll call S. She is in a straight relationship with E. I am probably the only person she can talk to about her relationship. How can I tell her that I'm not comfortable with this because she seems really happy to tell me about it? Romance makes me uneasy but she thinks I'm allo because I had aesthetic crush she thought was romantic. I've told her that talking about her relationship is ok before but I don't want to hear about it anymore
  10. Hello there fellow beings on Earth! I am Robin, an aroace person trying to get along with very amatonormative society. I go by they/them and I think my gender got lost in the mail? I like art, writing, video games (also coding them), music and free time. My favorite video game are Hollow knight and OFF. One of my favorite music artists is Jack Stauber but I also like Gorillaz and Linkin Park. I am from north Europe so forgive my sad English skills. This is the first aro space I've joined so I may be awkward first Looking forward to connecting with fellow aros!
  11. I already played through OFF five times so at the moment it's Hollow knight. I have played it since Nov 2021 and only have 74% completed Patiently waiting for HK: Silksong to release
  12. I'm new to this site so if this is in the wrong place, sorry about that I've had a single crush, but on a stranger who I didn't even know the name of. I think it was aesthetic attraction? I have no idea. I later got to know them by name (but never spoke to them) and now I kinda just blush around them (we go to the same school), but at free time I never think about them, maybe very very briefly sometimes. I never wanted a relationship with them either. I consider myself to be aromantic because I'm not sure what it (the label) actually could be? I've never fallen in love and don't want to. I haven't dated and don't want to. I don't want to have romantic feeling. I'm happy being single even though people bother me about it. The only thing I can say I love is my cat. i think I could be omniaromantic but I also think I could be in a qpr (queer platonic relationship) if it was just a platonic thing with extra hugs included, and not with a man/masculine person, if that makes sense. That's all for now
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