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lovecook

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  1. if ure referring to my post then she simply told me i worry abt transitioning more than my academics & career which isnt a good thing yada yada and adds that she dont want to talk abt gender related stuff anymore but starts ranting abt how i dont give a shit abt my learning; which is the truth
  2. unfortunately there isnt a way to stop ppl from being attracted to u and u should start ignoring future confessions. as for ur friends u def need to make it absolutely clear that ure not interested and uncomfy; as ur friends they should quit that shit. if they dont tho u should start distancing urself from them as much as possible while not cutting ties since u still enjoy their company; but removing urself from the source of the stress is still at utmost priority
  3. i forgot my mom dont like to talk abt gender stuff and accidentally told her too much abt my thoughts on medically transitioning lmfao
  4. i learned im aspec before i knew jaiden even existed. tho jaidens animation did cheer me up a lot knowing there r folks just like me and r living their lives like how any human being would. thats when i started seeking for aspec communities so i can meet others like me; that vid basically gave me closure and comfort
  5. never knew ppl were so hyped up abt dickcock getting banned since its already banned in my region
  6. i wasnt affected by negative shit tho. i found out abt asexuality 1st then thought it meant the same thing as aromanticism before a friend corrected me and i now use the aroace label. to me internet helped me for the majority; i havent seen aromanticism being talked abt negatively at all bc idek it existed til my friend told me so ofc its not the only explanation. idk where in my comment it implied that but oh well
  7. not surprised that there r more aroaces than aroallos tbf
  8. early access to the internet really tells u a lot lol. as some1 who figured out vos on the aroacespec when vo is abt 13 to 14 or younger; i dont recall the exact age i found out tho
  9. i prefer a lil cottage in the middle of nowhere so that technically makes me a minimalist ig. plus the whole minimalist experience is kind of relatable as well
  10. i have no idea if ive completed the survey before or not bc i think the questions r extremely familiar but apparently todays the 1st time i opened this link so done
  11. well me being anattractional distanced myself from dealing w trivial matters w relationships in gen since no attraction will bother me; only emotional attachment. im glad that i get to prioritize my friends and family more since having a romantic partner causes 1 to neglect their other connections which causes unwanted loneliness which can be mentally and physically damaging overtime not like i dont deal w loneliness but the thought of it decreased. or rather i never worried too much since when im a kid. ive always been aspec then and ill be aspec now
  12. id rather become chronically ill on forum sites than get married
  13. im anattractional so technically i am aroace as well
  14. becoming increasingly irritated and tired of being nice to strangers during exam season [i got anatgonized in 2 separate online convos today which worsened that]
  15. saiki is a famous example but senku from dr stone is also heavily aroace coded yet nobody talks abt him [dr stone is not my show of choice personally but the aroace coded protag keeps me watching]
  16. i agree w ur pfp sm bc my hc for panty is aroallo [her being aro should be canon methinks]
  17. lovecook

    Thrown for a loop

    there r only 3 possible attraction i think that u might be experiencing and none of them r romantic and sexual > platonic attraction/squish > alterous attraction/mesh [alterous crush] > qplatonic attraction
  18. id rather just say no to that than get into a romantic/sexual relationship
  19. some cool shit i found part 1 || part 2
  20. his content never leaves his target audience for him to be cancelable sadly; the bigots r also the majority and were barely winning sometimes so
  21. yeah i hang around in ts & aven more lol damn same but i have to study for upcoming exams tho; im procrastinating rn
  22. warning any1 who wants to watch call of the night; dont go in w too high of an expectation potential spoilers; brief summary & my criticism w this show
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