Deltalorian
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I'm not entirely sure, to be honest. I got close to being in a romantic relationship, even when I was exploring the label for myself. I sometimes want a romantic relationship, but I also feel like what I really want is a QPR. At the moment, I don't know. I think I mostly just want someone to love me romantically, even if I couldn't love them in that way. It's weird and maybe I'll grow out of it, maybe I won't. Maybe I'll be in a QPR later in life, I certainly don't know if I will be or not. -
I had made it pretty clear that I wasn't interested to him. I think in a weird way, he was projecting. He was (and to an extent still is) a hopeless romantic, so he could have been trying to live through me. Either way, he was accepting when I came out as aroace, and this may have played a part in him understanding that it is just a part of who I am.
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How do you explain being aro to new cis-het-allo friends?
Deltalorian replied to boba's topic in Aromantic Discussion
I usually say something along the lines of "romance just isn't for me/what I'm looking for." -
Will the grass really be greener on the other side, or has it always been an udder exaggeration.
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Hello! Whenever I got up early in the early morning, it was not watch the birds, but instead to play mario kart lol. Hope you like it here!
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Genetically engineered child soldiers are forced into horrific military combat by a zealous religious organisation to fight a slave army with worrying levels of sentience. Oh yeah, this show is mainly for kids/young teens.
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Anymore cow puns and I'm going to have beef with you
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Has there ever been a person where you've wanted to be in those relationships with? Like, if you watched a show with a romance element and went "oh yeah, I'd love to do that with [insert person]" then you are probably alloromantic. If not, or there's a caveat to it (such as you only wanted to do this with someone you've already formed a strong emotional connection with), then you may be any flavour of aromantic.
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Can you be aplatonic? If you can, I may be that as well hah.
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Hi, my friend keeps shipping me with another friend, how do I tell her to stop?
Deltalorian replied to a question in Anonymous Q&A
Tell her how uncomfortable it's making you feel. If she keeps it up, stop talking to her. Boundaries are important in any kind of relationship, and if friends aren't willing to adhere to the ones that we set, then we are in no way obliged to keep talking to them. -
If you're comfortable telling him about aromanticism, then do it. If not, you can just tell him that you're happier with your relationship with the way it is now. If he is your friend, then he will appreciate your feelings, and would try to continue your current platonic relationship. ...I think someone needs to be a little bit more hands off. Seriously though, why would you tell someone that? Has someone not heard of tmi? Surely you'd at least make sure that whoever you're talking to is comfortable with hearing this information?
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I'm in. Only if I get to be a Knight or something else cool. Or a researcher.
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When a friend is trying to get you to ask someone out because that person may be interested in you, and you're just like "yeah but I don't care. That's just not something that I want to do". I never got it. It seemed like too much commitment just to have what amounts to having a sparkling friend at that age.
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Okay so. I think it'd be pretty cool to get a medieval knight armour cosplay and wear it with a pride flag as a cape. For me, I'd have an ace flag cape and an aro flag belt-cape (in the style of star wars ARC troopers kamas) to go along with my armour. Does anyone else think that this sort of thing would be an awesome thing to wear?
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It can be very blurry yeah. If you think that the way you love about your friend is unique to her (ie under no circumstance could you feel the same way about your other friends) then it's probably romantic. If you could feel that way about other friends if the relationship was allowed to reach that stage of affection, then it's probably platonic. In the end, only you can decide your boundary between platonic and romantic, because these are your relationships. If you really struggle to find the line between platonic and romantic, you probably form queer-platonic bonds with friends.
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Fastest computer. If it runs as smoothly as it does quickly (which I imagine it would), I could fairly easily monetise it in streaming or gameplay videos, or just videos showing it off and what set up it exactly is. Money or you never have to pay rent on anything again.
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I know it's incredible. Also I just noticed this, but our profile icons are looking in pretty much the same direction. Anyway, your ear ear piercing doesn't hurt anymore because it healed, and needs to be re-pierced. I wish to no longer feel any joint pain.
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It's impossible currently to visit this place, but I'd love to be able to stand the shores of Kraken Maare - Titan's largest of 3 methane seas. It'd be around -180 centigrade, but if you offered me a trip there while wearing proper protective gear, I'd absolutely take that offer.
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Pretty good. Sounds like the kind of thing that would work as background music when trying to focus on a different task, if you like that sort of thing. Here's mine to rate (or you could rate the one in my signature if you'd prefer): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8PPOyt1OW8
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Hello there! I think it's fair to say that a good few people only know of this site through AVEN. People want to talk about youtube pipelines to the alt-right, but no one talks about the AVEN to Arocalypse pipeline.
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You can throw fireballs out of your hands. Sadly, your hands are still flammable and it is ridiculously easily to give yourself third degree burns. I wish I will never get a cold again.
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The "AVEN to Arocalypse" pipeline is real and it claimed me.
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The stickers on your water bottle stay as good as new for a few days. After that, the bottle cracks, and is no longer capable of carrying any liquid without it leaking. I wish that I had a wearable set of clone arc trooper armour that is accurate to the clone wars series.
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Mine is a fan-made recreation of an arc trooper in the artstyle of the 2003 Genndy Tartakovsky clone wars micro series. I found one in green and white, and since green is my favourite colour and I love the aesthetic of green and white, I had to go with it. Plus, when I later found out I was aromantic and joined this site, given it pretty much matched up with the aromantic pride flag, I just couldn't resist.
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I know I'm ace and my romantic orientation is an enigma, but I've only once felt romantic attraction (and it lasted a few days lol) so I use the term aroace to describe myself. I don't see why if you're both acespec and arospec you couldn't use the term aroace. If both your romantic and sexual orientation align, you could put the prefix in front of it (ie demi-aroace, grey-aroace) or if they don't align, put it next to the relevant item (ie demiaro-recipace). Plus, I like your pfp (Hooty is the best character you can't convince me otherwise)
