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Arsenic

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  1. Of course you can. I used to identify as gender fluid since my gender changed a few times per day, but now I am a guy mostly of the time, so I prefer to consider myself as transmasc.
  2. At the moment it is El día que cielo se caiga (the day the sky falls). It made me cry a lot of times and shows platonic love in a beautiful way.
  3. The boyfriend of my sister comes to our house very often and it makes me feel very uncomfortable in spite of the fact that he is a nice person. Ug. 

  4. A few months ago I accepted I was aro, and I felt proud of it. I was talking to a friend and I told them about it, and they were like "what? No. You are not aro, you are in a relationship, you don't seem to understand the meaning of being aromantic". And after that conversation I felt empty and sad, and I started questioning again. It took me some weeks more to feel confident in my identity again. I feel like there are mainly two options: 1- People don't even know what aromanticism is. 2- If they know about the term, they have misconceptions about it. Even I had misconceptions about it, and for that reason it took me a lot of time to figure out I am aro. If people knew more about what being aromantic means, I think that our community would be way bigger.
  5. Well, it is nice to see the typic videos of cute chlren doing x thing, but I would NEVER want to be a parent. I prefer to be an uncle. Anyway, I am studying to be a teacher, I will have enough kids with that.
  6. A few time ago I read in a instagram post that aro and/or ace people used a lot of different labels before identifying as aro and/or ace. For me, I went through straight, bi, lesbian, bi again, pan, bi again, gray-asexual and demiromantic, before using aroace. What about you? Did you start labelling yourself as aro or did you start with another and completely different label?
  7. As Holmbo says, I guess that the best option would be to see a therapist. If you are a minor, you should try to tell your parents about it, if it is save for you, and maybe set an appointment with an expert. If you are not able to talk to them because of x or y reasons, does your school have an orientator (I don't know if it is called this way, in my school we call the specialist in mind this way...)? If it does, you could try to talk to them about the way you feel (or don't feel). Sexuality is fluid, and it can change during lifetime, depending on the situations. As a personal experience, my way to describe my identity has changed like twenty times. I started like a cisgender female bisexual and in six years I went through labels like lesbian, pan, bi again, pan again, bigender, intergender, genderfluid, ace, gray-ace... And more. And I felt confident in those all. With this I want to say that labels are a way to describe ourselves in a determinate moment of our life. Ones might want to label themselves, others don't. If bisexual was a label that once fit you, then everything is alright, it accomplished it's will, but if you feel that this label does't fit you anymore, there is no rush to find another that does, if you want to change it.
  8. Well, in this case I was not talking about a kink with lesbians but the beauty of a lesbian kiss, or, in general, lesbian love. I prefer to consider kink as a turn-on, not necessarily being a sexual one. I mean, I get turned-on with sadomasochism, sharp objects and even fear-play or primal, but not in a sexual way.
  9. In spanish I love kiwi, it makes me so happy to pronounce it. In english I love dinosaur, jewelry and source.
  10. I am offended that you remind me of the unstoppable pass of the time, which is leading us to an unavoidable death and an eternity of emptiness and silence.
  11. Living with your best friends would be awesome, but I would also love to live on my own, with a lot of pets and plants...
  12. I understand this. Two girls kissing is like...aesthetically pleasant, you know? It feels kinda magic and pure, but also powerful and immensely beautiful... In general, I love women. Not romantically nor sexually, but I feel this admiration for them...
  13. I'd never think about it that way... Cute is an adjective that I use for a LOT of things (animals, plants, objects, humans, actions...) but never in the way you say...
  14. Well, I guess that only the people in a relationship can determinate if their relationship is romantic or not. You know you are in a romantic relationship if both you and your partner feel romantic attraction for each other... I think that an allo could answer this question better than an aro:(
  15. I'm vegetarian and turning to vegan
  16. I can't believe this game exists, and neither believe that I am going to take part on it. 2078
  17. Try to sleep hugging something big and squishy or wear baggy clothes. It helps me with dysphoria, maybe it could help you too
  18. Arsenic

    The music thread

    Grandma polka...? Wow, I had never heard of that, it sounds funny, maybe I will check on it just for curiosity
  19. Pues ¾ de lo mismo. Allá julio me di cuenta de que soy asexual y poco después empecé a cuestionarme si era arromántico o no, así que no conozco a nadie. De cualquier modo, seguramente muchas personas sean aro y no tengan ni idea de ello
  20. Alicante, estamos un poco lejos? Pero bueno, me gustaría conocer a otros arrománticos, tú conoces a alguno cara a cara?
  21. Continue the wishes:( You have broken it:(
  22. Yooo friend! I am some weird mix between introvert and extrovert. I would define me as an extrovert who doesn't like humans :D Where are you from? Yasssss! I love our kind of personality?
  23. I am offended because everyone else seems to have something to be offended and I don't
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