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Hi! so uh i need help or any advice is fine, i will be so grateful if anyone even read this! <3.. idk why but i develop crush and have romantic attraction But.... when i enter one... i feel mad i feel crazy i feel i wanna shout and i feel im pretending and not myself im okay with romantic norms etc like calling someone babe.. { kinda okay } honey etc or kiss, cuddle etc .... ig its sometimes just looks like its not right... i seek romantic relation ship { even with my crush i some times desire as well } so much but always it last stand for 1 hour ;n; any idea whats wrong with me? { also when i see people crushing on me i enjoy and i may develop crush but when the relation ship start serious..... } { also when i see someone call me babe etc i may get uncomfortable for moment but then i again develop crush and again whe it happend i again feel mad uncomfy etc }

Hi! i personally wanted share my experience, i have been aromantic asexual till last year but now idk what i am but may be on gray or spectrum im not sure but after while it changed, but i can tell u this it was not about right person for me, my orientation changed but i still cant stay in romantic relationship i feel uncomfy lol. so uhhh i guess it depend on person, people are different and how they gonna change or no is different, some fluid some no some people more fluid some less = ] hope it dont get u or anyone else sad heh =,>

ye exactly TnT when it becomes reality i just get , feel really like no not my thing or idk replused , anyway thx for help = > i just dont know , im searching for my labels

hi! i did not know where to talk about it soo.... i think i gonna ask it here srry if this made anyone sad, etc, i deeply apologize, so here we go:.. i noticed i develop crush/ but when i see my friends have crush they are TOOOO jealous or get TOOO heart broken or etc, compare to them mine are, crush but lol okay i dont get really heart broken even if i gte jealous its mild. beside i noticed usually most of my crush online are who they confessed me first and i beside that desire relationship but when i try to enter it even with my crush its get mild, i feel neutral, or some times rarely disgusted, or into stress feel like someone chasing me and the maximum girl/boy i had { im bi and i usually choose girls } it stand for maximum half of day cause i felt kinda uncomfy or idk, never really ebtered relationship beside i really really enjoy people crushing on me i may get crush on them too but relationship { romantic one } not really really my thing i guess but after we stay friend i get again mild crush but sometimes idk if its crush or no cause i have OCD beside that, i can have romantic fantasies about anyone and everyone and my fictional crush are more strong, i like fantasies but when it comes to real, sometimes it is just, um okay aha like this , so the other thing i really okay and love queer platonic idea, and Bff and squish but the things i really blush omg even rn im blushing im blush person indeed and ehem, i like do romantic stuff with anyone i like kissing holding hand etc but mostly as friend etc not really as romantic pratner, and ik this gonna sound horrible and creepy about me but i can fantasies about old women and kissing them and enjoy it { i prefer dont go to more than kiss lol } also i may even feel like i like touch someone leap even if i hate that person, i dont really feel like i need romantic partner but i can enjoy romantic norms with my squish and yes i easily get obsessive over anything so im just... confused just other thing i have been aromantic asexual till last year i was 16.5 now im 17.. and idk if im fully what but ik im not asexual more but about my romantic orientation, i just.... i need really help cause everyday im crying and struggling and suffer ;-; anyway srry for bothering u ;>????

holy moly @Nyusik i 80 percent feel like urs! i have to say thx u so much for sharing your experience it has helped me to know a much more about my feelings and that im not alone too i just scared to ask it here the only difference i have from u is that i feel neutral and i enjoy people crushing on me but then this click in my mind { so we can be besties! and do romantic stuff as friends } this is how most time happened to me , i mean i had some question, can someone be Both Bellues Romantic and Lithoromantic? im super confused about my labels ngl i have been aro ace spectrum till last year i was 16 but after i turned 16.5 i changed till now im 17 anyway srry for my bad comment ;>

hiii! i most time feel like ur experience ngl! and but the thing is i sometimes okay sometimes not heh anyway srry i wanted just say i sometimes feel like u! <3

thx u so much!... i feel better thx u all and thx u for being kind..

mhm srry for bad question

Hi! thats right im alloromantic but i had some question about my squish, or idk crush im not sure, i wanted is it normal u blush and feel like ur face/head burning when talking to them, thinking about them or its mean its crush? cause i heard there is some people who has crush on her and i surprised but did not felt sad jealous etc it was more like indifferent, okay with anway srry for my weird question!

as a alloromantic and allosexual person, im okay to handle some child around, BUT NOT IN MY HOUSE TnT i mean im okay with my current life but if one day my parents die by any reason or i get alone, i think i would adopt some kid, i think its fun to see some kid and watch how its grows up .... but my own child? i dont think, im indifferent about it also i dont think its much my thing, also i dont think i gonna have partner for raising child, the reason i chose im not sure is cause i can handle a it or being indifferent about it and im 40 percent dislike, 20 percent 40 percent like it, looks fun indifferent and how ever i prefer those old baby doll they wont grow up they not alive so im more comfortable. also i guess i prefer animals, how ever, srry for my bad comments just wanted share my thoughts like other.....

Hi! i wanted do the quiz but it did not came upp eeekk QnQ btw i hope this wont bother anyone, so falling in love or crush in other hands unfortunately out of hands the main reason people get crush, etc googles explains : { Bukky Kolawole told INSIDER. Crushes are rooted in fantasy and tend to happen when you don't know much about a person but idealize what they are like, Kolawole said. ... If you get closer to your crush and develop real-life experiences and a sense of reciprocity, the crush can develop into something more } in my opinion there are all faults of brain for example i have crush or im still not sure if its squish but i really hate when i get crush on someone its really annoy me and i get mad at person sometimes cause i hate myself having crush ;-; the fact thats i have anger issues and i have been aro ace spectrum till last year { im not aro spectrum anymore i can say this clearly, or idk probably } albeit it has been were i was to obsessive with my crush like i could see her everywhere and thats kinda were scare me Q-Q

hi! im not aro or/and ace but if u dont mind i would try to explain my experience from my romantic attraction if u dont mind! beside its all mostly my attraction and i felt like so heh anyway srry if i made ayone sad hope this wont bother anyone ;-; so romantic attraction, is usually painful for me but i had one squish wich was painful too TnT so i usually really blush to much, i feel like my heart is gonna explode and its really feel sick idk why TnT i like to be around them, my sensual attraction increase also i may or may not get sexual attraction , i usually day dreams when it comes to crush { i daydream for everyone even my oc, or flower etc i can daydream about anyone and kinda enjoy it or no } and u get happy to see them, but the most important thing that can makes u or anyone else, { depend on urself in not sure TnT i mean, nvm } or the way i usually understand its i usually leads to jealous like { ohh she is dating that person how about meee -n- } this is how i feel like and or its leads to im open to have relationship with them { im not really much into it but im open to it and i like dating people in online games like going to restaurant and talk about our selves, i automatic blushes idk why } so uhhhh srry this one was one of my most messed up comments >w< i deeply apologize just ignore this Q-Q

heh ngl im nto sure but i thing it really effect me when i get squishes, probably cause i usually avoid to be friend with boys etc and i feel usually closer to girls btw srry if i send this reply i just really like to write comments, srry if i made anyone sad Q-Q

Hi! ngl im nto aromantic or and/asexual but i hope it does not bother anyone if it made anyone sad, etc i deeply apologizee! ?????? i personally very very sensula person toward everyone TnT albeit i dont like Hug people dierectly, or in other hand its depend on person , beside i love to hold my mom hands in street, hig my mom like teddy bear or my mom hug me like teddy bear when we sleep, i like my mom pat my hands, pat and touchs my leg { like patting pls dont take it wrong QnQ } also when i was watching some video form reddit that there was someone scratching and patting their cockatiel for moments i feel like they are scratching my head and i really liked it XD my mom always call me kitten XD cause im to sensitive toward touch and pat and etc XD also i used my old cockatiel messing with my hair and neck and when her feather were touching my neck i felt soo good like omg so soft! { pls dont take this wrong too eek ;-; srryy QnQ } also once there was something happened and i was to scared and my father was scratching and patting my head gentle and i really liked it, and once i saw my Best friend`s lips in some view and i felt like { oof i wanna touch that lip i wanna kiss { not sexual one} } so idk why but im basically super sensual XD a;beit i fel like i need to say it that i really dislike when people when meet me try to hug me i avoid it or try to kiss my cheeks i really dislike it not matter who is gonna do that i even dislike when my mom try to kiss my cheek , hand, head etc i dont much like it the sound of it make me kinda angry TnT so anyway i deeply apologize i talked so much and i said bad stuff ;-; i deeply apologize hope this dont make anyone sad/much sad etc i deeply apologizee eeekkk X0

Hi! im not aro but is it okay if i answer this question? ;-; so i deeply apologize if i had not premission to answer Q-Q Classic,Dark, casual, jeans, Light soft pink , weird , pirate looks, Epic, etc =D

thx u so much! <3

{ waring : Need some advice , Please dont be mad i deeply apologize for this topic , not much about aromantic but still deeply apologize ;-; }hi! so uhhhhhh im new in this place and my first time that i made account in this site and i wanted say i deeply apologize if i wasted your time or etc i deeply deeply apologize soo srry ;-; sooo i had some weird question and i did not know where to ask since im not aromantic asexual anymore and has changed into heteroflexible { Bisexual } so, here we go.... when i see people { in Online game } and for example i have some close friends or people who i think they are good people, idk and think how they are and i think hmm... wish i could be her/him girl friend, lol ;-; but when i more think i just like to call people my girl/boy etc, i like romance norms like kissing { in game } and cuddling, hugging etc but im not really into relationship, even if they want from me i would help them find some romantic partner the other thing is im too jealous about everything so i cant really say im just jealous about my crush.. uhhh my question so messed up, and in other hand im kinda satisfied with my current life, but hm when i imagine about future like marriage etc im more indifferent, okay but not my wish i prefer just fantasies wich i dont really like to even think about it clearly, but once i was with my mom in some hotel and nearby there was wedding, and i thought i wanted say { ohhh okay lets imagine now me and you { my mom } is wedding XD } this is what past my mind but of course i dont like to marry its use less for me in my opinion .. so ye im totally confused anyway i deeply apologize if it was so rude/openly and etc im so srry but i did not know where to ask Q-Q and ngl this is one of the rare time i ever been honest with myself, and the other thing if my friend or crush or what ever im not sure get boy/girl/ etc friend i get a bit jelly and jealous and think like this : how about me -n- { something like the siblings that one of them get one candy but other one no} or in other time i saw this guy in game he was sad cause he broke with his girl and i hate to say this but the things that past in my mind { wanna i be ur girl XD ? } i did not say but i thought it was something like chances how ever thats time i did not know how does romantic relationship even work but i also enjoy people crushing me { in game if it happened in real life i may be a bit freak out idk why just the thing it happened in moment i feel like that when i fantasies } and i guess i like that popular, wanted feeling maybe cause i feel like its the most level of liking { wich i dont think it is right... } and when they crush on me i think { OHHH YES WE CAN BE GOOD FRIEND YESH YESH YESH } this is what past my mind, sooo yes. im completely confused ;] anyway i million time deeply apologize for long and my waste of time comment/topic QnQ

th..thx u so much it really helped me heh but i deeply apologize again but thx u very much <3 ?

Hi! uhhh so im new in this this is my first time writing some topic in this place and im super nervous and my question is going to be super stupid so excuse me sooo much i deeply apologize and pls pls pls i beg dont be mad ;-;-;-;-; i just dont really have other social media also ..... ah nvm so i wanna start, Breath Deep* i have been Aro ace spectrum till last year and for some reasons i cant explain for some weird reasons { wich i deeply apologize } and changed into alloromantic and allosexual and soo, it was , and still the worst thing happened in my entire life anyway, in some online game i like kissing { its not real picture its game and also chat app } or i like to kiss the pretty photo of pretty people, the problem is that when i think it nearby like in really rn, i little creep out, sometimes no sometimes yes, and i enjoy when people crushing on me or act like that that gives me nice feelings but when people confess to me { in online game in real its little creep me out idk why albeit no one have ever confessed to me in real but when i imagine close people like my friends or etc, creeps me out } and when people confess me i thanks them and get all exited and etc, but its not like i wanna START RELATION SHIP its just um, idk maybe im open to it but i dont think i can do it out of my mind and fantasies , or in other hand its had for me, and the thing when i was still aro spectrum person, the first person in game confess to me and i said something like { aww thx u ! } but nothing totally changed , kinda . in another time some girl confessed me and i thought we can be really good friend and i know this is wrong way to think but ahem, thats how i thought { or still think not sure } but i gonna ask more topic in future i guess, anyway i deeply apologize for my stupid question ;-; srry i just thought i need to say it somewhere , i.. im srry for wasting your time.. srry ;-; i deeply apologize and im srry again QnQ