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ahhh so , idk really i think im totally fine to be around couples but the thing is i have only been around my friends partner in online game ! :D soo , idk how i would react in real life but in online im okay and i may even enjoy seeing them doing lovey dovey stuff, i personally even enjoy participating in romantic stuff { i have soft romo partner } but if they start to ignoring me i will feel like third wheel and i totally hate it , i hate to be ignored , it gives me feel like im no one and i dont exist wich i have felt it enough when i was in schoo and with my other friends .

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i would love to hear i am fan if scary/horror stories i would like to read! im sure they are amazing and i wonder why ur teacher said rude stuff ;n;

hey everyone hope yall do well , i had some random question { just lemme give some information till i was 16.5 i was aro ace then i turned on A spectrum then rn idk what i am but i feel close to soft romo orientation } so there is this girl, one day, i crushing crazy over her, one day its mild, one day i feel like unfriending her, one day i feel squish , but i always feel jealous when she is with her friends , like the way she is with me she with her friend to make me jealous , and i have to say i may get jealous a bit if she get girl/boy friend but the odd thing i have this feeling for Allll of my friend , soo, anyone know what label am i possible or im just another alloromantic? ... i will be grateful any answer { note: i just soemtimes desire romantic relationship with her/ no soft romo relationship indeed in other time im just open about it sometimes repulsed AHHH }

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in my opinion { idk if im alloromantic or im lith flux aro flux } but being in love is WORST , at least in my experience and my opinion . its just really...idk how to say it :V but being alloromantic is hard cause experience crush is really unhealthy

i would say its come with stress/ feeling nervous , usually huge desire to talk with them and spend time with them , in friends and people when u see them u more focus on them , u may fantasies about future with them, depend on your sexuality you may have sexual fantasies , sometimes butterflies ig? more like stress , getting super obsessive with them and thinking about them in obsessive way, and you may get heart broken if they be with someone else, jelly feelings and all of those stuff, also owning feelings , ik ik its not healthy but its really out of control and are side effects of crush . oh i forgot to say it may come with huge strong sensual desires and desiring to kiss them though this different for each person cause for me i would kiss everyone even my friend to show that i like them {ik weird way to show platonic love } note : Idk if i am Alloromantic or im aro flux/lith flux but i have experience crush many times like most day { okay i have to say developing crush is worst thing that i experienced in my totally life } anyway hope u all do well have lovely day yall! <3

hmm yes as someone who usually experience crush its usually strong but its really depend , and no i personally dont put other the second , maybe sometimes i just spend a bit more time with mu crush compare to my other friends, though i get really obsessive wich i hate it and its out of my control , but its one of the side effection of the Crush wich is trouble some , crushing usually some with feeling owning/owner { like them is mine } feeling wich im not sure whats case .but its really unhealthy and im 100 percent agree . and i personally used to have many partner but i never left any of my friends alone always tried to spend as far i can spend equal time with both my partner and my friends/besties so i think its really depend on the friend you have, if they are not really good friend Or really scared to lose their partner , ignore them maybe but if they are good friend and will be able to fix and set the nice schedule to spend equal time then thats great so its more we cant just say everyone who crush and have partner leave their friend alone though im still not sure im personally have never been in Romantic strict relationship i have been always someone soft romo / qpr partner though im aro flux/lithflux or idk maybe just alloromantic but still crushing is big deal and most of the side effects are out of the control hope it helped, i tried my best ^^ have lovely day! if you had more question just ask me ^v^ { note about myself : i usually feel owning about most of my friend idk why its ngl probably cause the way i grew up or the way i like to own everyone and everything ik weird Xo }

{NSFW WARNING!} hey everyone hope yall do well! so i think im probably allosexual, but most time its mild but i have strong sexual fetish but i dont deny it im Fictosexual , wich mean , for me at least i desire sexual , i fantasies about doing ew stuff with them , and all from first person but Censored ! yes i dont like Genitals , at least not my thing { sorry that im talking about these stuff so openly } T=T but when it comes to reality its get mild and im really repulsed to do it in real, prefer fantasies over anything else or just touching / playing not actual sex, make me feel disgusted . so the thing that really turn me on -tight clothes that shows well body curves , bras or swim suit -butts , yes totally anything that look nice butt :V -BDSM-the sadism/masochism stuff { Im sadism } -cute or innocent faces *or idk just random faces idk comes to my head :V random women or some fictional characters. -belly, yes soft clean bottom i only desire to lick / dont freak out i desire to lick many none human things, yes like buttom of light, etc anything that is clear and looks soft -hands,legs for biting okay, Hands up* sorry im really freak TwT anyway i again deeply apologize . hope yall have lovely day! take care! <3

hey there! in my opinion best thing is to first talk with the one who more understandable and more wise/open lgbtq and stuff, then try to say idk maybe like { mom/dad i have to talk about something important with you } then talk about it with them in private and like, mom/dad have you heard about aro/ace ? then explain it and then look how would they react , in case if they did not react well its best to get help from friends about it, anyway hope i helped and i hope your mother understand u better :< anyway have lovely day ^v^

hey everyone! hope yall do well! so. i remember since i was kid i was repulsed by marriage and children though right now i have soft romo partner but its more for fun i would never marry someone and i remember some years ago my mom was talking about that she liked that i have children etc too but i glared at her and she apologized { my parents know me well and how much i would get mad about it even jk about it } my father, he like me to stay with him so its mean he dislike i marry as well so he is on my side my mother is recently on my side too just sometimes stranger mention { when your daughter get older she will get marry/child } my parents { my mom usually } explain to them i wont getting dang marry , so yes i have experienced that and i have to say it was { still } annoying for me , though its not their fault they just did not know, but if they keep on it after i explained to them then i would get really mad anyway sorry for being rude, hope i did not made anyone sad, have lovely day yall! <3 ? though i really have to mention i like to have child in games or even in real but not My child , like adopting one or idk , something like that.

so just someone on site reddit told me i may be Adesexual and here the link : https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Adexsexual it says : Adexsexual is an ace-spec greysexual microlabel in which someone is internally allosexual but externally asexual. Adexsexuals find some individuals sexually attractive and arousing in the fantasy/idea of having sex with them oneself. It fades when actually focusing on them in real life, next to them. Focusing on the idea again or going away restores it. One is allo-ish when alone, and can fantasize/watch/read about sex in first-person and enjoy/want it. The more physically present/tangible the external partner becomes, the more ace-ish one gets. Allosexuality is naturally suppressed by the presence of individuals in real life, even those one fantasizes about. It is not suppressed by the presence of self, unlike in aegosexuality. Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of being a bit allo-ish even during sex if dissociating strongly or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself. Random short sexual attraction, sexual desire or libido spikes next to another person are possible but extremely fleeting. Indirect sexual acts like masturbation also get much harder in the presence of any person. The romantic/aesthetic/sensual/platonic equvalents are adexromantic/adexaesthetic/adexsensual/adexplatonic. So whats your opinion about this orientation? Im not gonna invalid this but i was wondering , is it really A Spectrum ? if yes can i just identify as Ace Spectrum orr...

soo sorry i question alot and idk where to ask since most sites are filter in the country im and lgbtq is illegal so im not available to other sites or people so there is this girl we are besties and i remember months ago i was crushing at first on her but after while it faded and the thing i like do romantic gesture with everyone thats kind so i cant really tell by this im sure i dont have most of the thing that called { crush signs } on her i dont get butter flies sometimes i really wanna free time yes i like to do romantic gestures with her but still i need my private and freedom no i dont really blush on less she { mwa* } me wich anyone if do that to me i blush so i cant really say no i dont daydreaming about Future with her and many other thing but when i see she is with her friends and she acts kind as she with me with them too i feel a bit upsted ig its jealousy but why no i dont get mean with her friend i always try my best to be friendly with new people or generally people is it crushing? or its some another attraction? please any help or advice is helpful <3 thinking that i can be her fav friend it make me really happy though im already friend with her and im happy im one of her fav friends ^^ i think being someone favorite friend is way more precious than being someone romantic partner { i like soft romo relationships though }

oh k thx u so much! u always help me a lot i owe u :]

Sooo... anyone know the name/label when u get feelings for them but its fluid sometimes its strong sometimes its mild sometimes its platonic sometimes its alterous, etc? and what does it mean when just sometimes i desire relationship and other time no? and yes all about one person T-T srry for weird question ;D

guys! So idk if im On Aro spectrum or im just Alloromantic, but i had one question i thought this place may be good place to ask since i have not find any alloromantic community, so... there is this girl has crush on me etc and we do all love dovey stuff, we act so romantic and etc, kissing, grabbig waist, singing, etc and anything that romantic couple do, but the thing is, i just see her as my super bestie sis, i dont have sibling but if i could have i wish she could be my sis i feel like im not crushing on her,or if it is, its so mild. two day ago she asked me if its fine i date her for 2 day,, and since i really love her and i did not want break her heart i said okay but for 1 day only, the first day we could date only for 15-20 min , and it was a bit weird but fun at time the second day, mean today, we dated but for longer time and around 1-2 hour, first we played maze game and then we went play another game { we only talk and meet online } called bloxburg , and we wanted date , though we could not and we just little built for tomorrow, its like i think tomorrow is going the last day for date . i personally think dating is fun, knowing each other, doing romantic stuff, pet names, and restaurant! for me its all looks like date, but the date that meant to know each other and have fun, in other hand i see it for fun, dating for me its like playing and hanging out i feel like, i like to date her, but as besties, anyone know if there is name for it? cause i feel like Queer platonic it does not fit it, idk if soft romo relationship fit, though i feel like its not right , i mean it does not feel right to call her my {Romantic Partner/Girl Friend} its just, does nto feel right though i like word partner, but not mention to romantic one , like , Couple Besties? Bestie partner idk, my question is, what is best Name/label for this? anyone know? also i really enjoy doing date stuff even with my normal friend too, though if they be fake friend or grumpy one i would not even talk to them much. idk im so confused help pls T-T { note : Also I really enjoy People crush on me, i see it as chance to do romantic stuff with them, and i would do many thing so they dont lose crush on me, idk does it mean im crushing on them? i mean i have experienced crush { though they all expect one was mild and short }{ i mean i just think if people dont crush on me anymore, they may not enjoy doing cute stuff with me anymore or spend time with me anymore , this is my real fear }

thx for help, i feel i may be alloromantic witsh short crushes :I but most time i have alterous then ig is it possible to identify as alterous and alloromantic both? { my strong crush all lasts for hours at maximum but when its mild it lasts more and then change into alterous or squish or something else } though i feel kinda relate to lith flux/ aro flux since i feel romantic attraction { sometimes i get repulsed } or idk what is it possible im lith flux? or im just as u said romantic ? this is link : https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Lithflux

heh yes ur right and thx for that site it was helpful! indeed most time i prefer fantasies wich usually lasts for days or hours Xp sometimes that two hour is strong and suddenly fade sometimes its mild and slowly fade ,some times when it last more than week it changes into sensual/ alterous attraction , i think idk maybe im just some random alloromantic who know, but thx u it really helped :> though sometimes i even desired relationship but i never been serious about it it was more like i was open or in other hand i like people crush me { though if they keep on wanting relation ship { romantic one } with me i probably get repulsed a bit or much even if someone i have crush for example get crush on me back but no, beside that wanting relationship with me i get repulsed , my question is what i am....

okay soo uh idk how many time i have posted and asked but ik many time i have done it, this time i came with this question even that im aware i may be alloromantic but its just onfusing soo... recently { about 1-2 week } i get crush on people and it last for maximum 2 day but the weird thing is for that maximum two day or even less its kinda strong [ not very strong but still desire strong } or when i dont see them i rarely think about them etc or sometimes the crush i get i desire so much but some next moments i get a bit repulsed, or indifferent , and i get tired from them, in past the longest crush i had { though it could not really fit romantic crush it looked like mix of tons of attraction though if i see her i probably still love her but just less }{ not in romantic way ig } like it lastet for two month while some people come and says, years, like, WHAT!? yearss? i cant imagine having crush more than 2 month once i got crush on someone { it was mix of queer platonic squish and alterous and idk anything and everything } the first week crush was good but after the sec week it changed to horrible obsession and teriffered me , im probably sound like just one alloromantic but even if im just one really alloromantic i cant relate much with other alloromantic tips : { i desire {open } romantic relationships but the most thing i like is cuddle nick and pet names and the thins i cal them cute stuff the other thing i like i like people crushing on me i enjoy and i open to it but at the top i like to have friend to act like couple thats one of the reasons im so confused everything about life is super confusing ;n; } any advice/opinion ?

okay sooooo i noticed i really develop mild crush on people and sometimes alterous/queer platonic /squish or idk { even if im alloromantic its still so dang confusing } so i think there is my friend of mine suddnly out of sudden { there has been time i crushed on her but for 1 month and then its changed into alterous then squish then again alterous anddd something super confusing } and this new crush on her { it was mild } lasted for 2 and half of day .__. but in the most i just though { aww it would be cute ti kiss her and imagine it { also i love teasing her =n= } }but the thing i really cant find out bu desiring to kissing someone cause i kinda desire kiss all :I and the thing im totally jealous person { kinda about all of my friend } and like, for those 2.5 day i was okay to be called couple { girl friend girlfried } and i find it cute but now after those two day if i fantasies same to be called her girl friend i may fel a bit repulsed, any idea what i am ? ;n; srry for talking to much btw and i deeply deeply deeply super deeply apologize if i made anyone sad T-T bow* srry ;> i think till end of my life i stay questioning ToT ?

hi there! im questioning and not sure if im lithflux or just some random alloromantic, the thing i noticed most time i get mild crush and the strong crush i got one of them really looked like strong romantic crush but was more queer platonic i had sexual fantasies etc and i loved her so much BUT i did not felt any jealous feelings or did not care if she wanna be my girl or no i wanted something else i cant say for now and i was fantasies about living with her though it was more like queer platonic with benefits now i take look at it , and also for example i was thinking if she would get marry and get child and etc i would take care of her child so well or if she could give me gift i would care it so well does these description i said necessary romantic? and another one was with strong sensual desires also i really liked her but more think i had in my head was { wanna be her best best friend } and if i had jealous feelings it was like from 1-10 in my fantasies were 2 ar maximum, and other crush i have got were quite mild though when i get mild crush im okay to do romantic stuff but as bestie wich i call it { couple friend} but if they want me to be their girl i had to reject them :< any one know what label i migh be im so confused T-T

@Jedi , @nonmerci thanks you both so much i feel better and thanks you guys million time idk how to thanks well so i just tried my best and also sorry i apologized cause i think i mean i thought i make people sad and mad wich i do also i apologized in case and i wanna deeply thanks again for being super super kind to me and letting me stay here :>and yes i visit psychologist and uhh though i still have not talked about this subject.... and yes i can definitely say im spending most of my day to find the most label that fits me or if im even on aro spectrum or faking it cause i really fear from people judges and reaction but anyway heh idk what to say but thx you guys i feel way better and i think i can more relax search for labels and i deeply deeply apologize im so srry if i said something wrong rude or etc but thx u guys so much :> for everything ?

Hi so i came again for short time the label lithflux fitted me but now its just , idk im probably just some random alloromantic thats try to fit in aro spectrum, aint am? so uh srry if i made anyone sad by any thing...im just so tired from all struggles and sadness and confusion and everything i cant handle anymore ... so there has been girl i think it was really similar to romantic relation ship, like sexual fantasies and desires, holding hand kiss and all the things But i had no jealous feeling , like not at all jealous , and i liked to have queer platonic fantasies or idk the other odd thing is there is my ff i love her so much and its kinda looks like mixed of romantic and platonic cause i like romantic stuff but more as friend and i like being her bff as well other thing i was trying to get girl friend and when we start all lovey dovey stuff i could only see her as FRIEND or Bestie i could not imagine Well as her girl i feel more comfortable to being her bestie, her girl? sounds just one word to me but bestie and friend mean more for me and also i like kissing all though some people more and for the person i said idk its crush or squish or its mixed i dont have or did not have sexual fantasies but i have jealous but its mild and i have never got real heart broken im so confused idk what to do i think im only alloromantic or idk pls help i wanna cry srry for all these none sense srry im srry im so srry ;n; also sometimes i get repulsed if someone get feelings back when i have romantic attraction to them { its usually mild though } sometimes i dont have or if i have its mild and i get neutral maybe just a little happy i would be try relationship but i prefer being someone friend but just romantic talks and stuff as friend idk what i am anymore idk idk pls i beg im srry im so srry i just really need help i wanna cry i cant handle anymore for times i was thinking im lithromantic then lithflux then aroflux then now im so confused or as i said maybe im just some random alloromantic trying fit myself in aro spectrum again since i have been aromantic in past, please share ur opinions im srry if i made anyone sad im srry im srry..... though sometimes i feel pressure in romantic relationship i tried enter sometimes i enjoy sometimes i neutral some sotimes mixed but rn im crying so hard i feel pressure being someone girl idk idk help

Lithflux : https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Lithflux