TBH from I've observed on there, there's probably some systemic/institutional sexism and/or demi-phobia and double-standards going on. The amount of flatulence and defecation references and jokes there is rather weird too, that and the amount endless political "debates" and re-hashed ace-question topics is getting old. I'm not really one to complain about intracommunal affairs/beliefs but there's something not quite right about AVEN, despite the fact I have had some fun there. I do recall someone elsewhere saying things like one had to constantly "walk on eggshells" to survive without a clique. Whatever the case is, I am feeling increasingly ostracised by them as well as bored and tired. So I may leave them for here completely soon.