WrenIsNotMyRealName!!

Did I say I was competing?

Imagine if you couldn't even do that.

I don't get why people cheat in the first place.

Sounds like what I've been doing for the past 4 years and I'm aro. Though, I DID find out(after self-reflection) that all the crushes I got I had invented so I had something to do. Don't know if you relate to that piece though.

That's what I heard too.

My "religion" is kinda the same. There is not God, just . You know? Like, the utter existence of reality but by creating a word for it, we're making it less than it was already so it can only be called . But someone who exists as nothing, that's pretty impressive. Yeah, I know they're just human. I was just really bored and wanted to ponder something that wasn't "just human", you know? And yeah, being double A I have some issues regarding it too and having another A added on would probably just make it worse.

they're not only asexual and aromantic, but an agender too? Like, that's someone devoid of like EVERYTHING. I would believe them to be a god.

How so? There's aromantic trans children.

Oooooh. It's an acronym. Wait, so does that mean fully transitioned people become cis?

So cis is just cis, there isn't an extended version of it?

Why would I when you can tell me. Sorry I prefer personal definitions rather than textbook.

I know what cis means. It's just very obvious it's short for something, in the same way that het is short for hetero.

Not particularly. And also, until recently, I didn't know allo was made by aces. Had I known that originally, I wouldn't have compared it to cishets. Side point, what is cis short for?

Please stop with the toxic victimization, I get enough of that irl. Anyways, as was in our original conversation, I wasn't being rude. Was I trying to start a fight because it was 1 in the morning and I was bored, yes. Was I emotionally committed enough to actually charge the words, no.

Nope. I wanted other opinions and I've gotten some more in depth descriptions of allo so I guess I'm sold on its use.

Personally, I feel like "allosexual" is a completely redundant umbrella term. From my understanding, allo is everything but asexuals. Which seems dumb to me. Why have a term for that. It's so freaking pointless and 8s just people who aren't ace wanting to feel included or whatever. Like cis heteros wanting their own pride parades. I was yelled at once because not using allo is discriminatory and making their experiences fake or whatever but using allo is singling aces out entirely and that is highly discriminatory.

I had revealed I had a crush on the robotics team to my mom and she kept saying all the females so I said "Its sweet you still think I'm straight."...4 hours later, took quite the nerve to say it for some reason(this was back when I thought I was homoromantic).

Feel the very same.

Sounds like you prefer the aesthetic of romance rather than actual romance, which is true for me too.

That's sounds like stuff I've gone through and I'm AceAro. Except, I've had crushes and fallen in love before(but it was recently revealed that I made myself do that because I was bored and the emotions are entertaining).

I'm AceAro and feel the same way. Could you maybe also be AceAro?

Hey, its chill. I feel the same way. You DO feel broken when you can't do the one thing everyone else does. And, yes this is very toxic, I do believe I'm broken. Cause like, how the heck can something like this happen? A person be completely devoid of the one thing that supposedly makes them alive?

Ha, this one is true for me.

I've gotten crushes. Its was only recently that I realized I make myself feel romantically as a sport though so they weren't actually real. A weird thing for me: I was never told what sex was. I never needed them too. Like, I was just born understanding what it was but ignored it since I deemed it unimportant. I cried because that one of the few movies I am emotionally affected by. I only cry though because the hopelessness of their(the passengers) situation was. I never gave 2 shits about Jack and Rose though. I like that movie because I like that actress. She always has a nice vibe.

Well, for me, cuddling just means lying next to someone and basking in their presence. Like when your whole friend group lays together to watch a phone or something. I'm like a cat in the sense that I feel more comfortable when I have a point of contact like knees or something. I'm, personally, completely adverse to kissing. More than I thought, actually. 2 of my friends kissed for the first time and I started to have a panic attack(I don't get them chronically) so apparently I REALLY hate kisses.