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  • Birthday 05/14/1995

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  1. That's sad... I think really bad self-esteem could perhaps be part of the issue for many people as well..... I guess you would start thinking "Am I not good enough?" if your gf/bf confessed they had a crush on someone. Yeah I agree that's probably the case. I had a crush that lasted for a very long time for example, but I wasn't in love with anyone (as in having a partner) so I could !!!!unwillingly!!! devote my whole focus on that person. I crushed that person hard
  2. I agree. I've seen many people become super sad and confused when they start having feelings for another person while still loving their partner. As long as you don't act on those feelings without your partners ok, it's not cheating right? Usually crushes go away after a while anyway if you don't "pursue" them ( I think) or maybe it works differently if you're polyamory.... This might not have been what you meant?
  3. They didn't know I was aro at the time. We ended the discussion with them respecting my opinion and I theirs, even though they differed. So it was fine. Yes, come to think of it, many of these characters might have been polyamaorous if it was real life.
  4. When the question "What is your type?" really confuses you and you just answer with what you think would make a good friend.
  5. pengu

    would you rather

    No escaping the poo-question!
  6. pengu

    would you rather

    House party! I don't like loud places with alcohol that much. WYR have your dream-job but not get paid much, or have a boring job that pays well.
  7. This was a really good example. (Since I love chocolate too, so there's something I can relate to >.>) This all made me really re-think my ideas of love..... I will probably create a new thread on this if anyone care to share their own thoughts.
  8. Yeah, it baffles me too. It's a big cultural thing that is very harmful I think. In books and tv shows where there's a girl that has to choose between two boys, she always choose the new guy she has an intense crush on, instead of the nice guy who has always been there for her and that she also loves? But for what I have read being "in love" is like being on drugs (for what is going on in your brain) so I get why you might not act all that clear-headed.
  9. pengu

    would you rather

    choc~o~late! (Always) Live in a fantasy-world with magic and stuff, or live in a sci-fy world with aliens and spaceships.
  10. pengu

    would you rather

    oops, wasn't fast enough. okay.. I'll answer both: Jump from any height. Might prove useful someday. Spud has an army right???? So Spud.... *sorry* Never eat anything with chocolate ever again, or never eat anything else that's sweet (desserts, candy etc)
  11. pengu

    would you rather

    breathe under water OuO i would look for sea-treasures~ Wine or Soda.
  12. pengu

    would you rather

    WARM Which is cuter? Human babies or animal babies?
  13. Yeah.. Most of mine are some kind of queer too. It's great that our parents are open-minded I guess?
  14. I know how it feels like not being able to tell your parents My father asked me why I wasn't looking at boys and asked me if I was gay. I had to lie and tell him I'm bi. Easier for him to understand than me being aromantic. But now he's convinced that i'm in love with my best friend *rolls eyes* Whatever keeps him from worry about me is a good thing I guess X D
  15. I would, so I could be close to my friend. I would love to raise a child together with someone too! But I will probably never find the right candidate for that >.>
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