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Jade

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About Jade

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  • Birthday 04/03/2001

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  • Name
    Jade
  • Orientation
    aromantic
  • Gender
    girl (cis)
  • Pronouns
    she/her

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  1. Hey, it's okay! I'm a 16 year old girl too, and I'm sexually attracted to other girls, but I've never had a crush or been in love. You're not alone and we're all here for you if you ever want to talk.
  2. Hey! There's an official arocalypse discord which is very popular which could give you a starting point, or you can PM me and I'll help you set up the server--I'm pretty experienced on discord and admin/mod several discord servers. I don't have time to really be active in it right now, but if you need help starting or advertising this would be a space I'd love to have.
  3. Musician here but not an instrumentalist! I sing. Mostly choral stuff but also some solos and musical/show choir stuff.
  4. Name Anxiety Score Avoidance Score your mother or mother-like figure 1.67 5.83 your father or father-like figure 1.00 5.83 your romantic partner 4.00 4.50 your best friend 6.00 1.50 So, dismissive (non-anxious but avoidant) with the parents, a little avoidant but mostly right in the middle for the idea of a romantic partner, and preoccupied (very anxious but also very non-
  5. Aro lesbian from a mostly-liberal area of the US reporting in! Having role models of your gender and sexual orientation [edit: and romantic orientation Nope. Learning about romance and relationships from fiction, movies, and television Nope. Living with your partner and doing so openly to all. While people may not take it seriously (or assume things about it), "I live with my best friend" is not that uncommon of a roommate situation, and once I'm old enough to do that sort of thing I'm not going to want to hide it. Talking about
  6. I actually had to laugh a bit at this; I'm....very much not the stereotypical aromantic in this regard. 5.38 on attachment-related anxiety, and only 3.39 on avoidance, putting me solidly in the "preoccupied" area. I have definitely had bad friendships, but I need friendship and companionship so desperately, and often get told that I'm clingy. I fear rejection and loneliness more than anything in the world; the reason I stayed in abusive friendships as long as I did was that I would, by far, rather have an abusive friend than have no friend. I have no issue getting emotionally or physically clo
  7. One comment right now, I might go more in-depth later: I really wish I was able to choose more than one option. Making choices is hard.
  8. Ok I'm officially sold on dark gray bi Roxy. Forgot about Equius's flush crush, too. Dang. It was a bit of a plot point, too, I think? I haven't read act 5 in forever. I'm still holding onto my Terezi headcanon though. Also, those are A++ headcanons and I fully approve of all the arospec trolls. I haven't! I'll make a point of getting it, though; it definitely sounds good.
  9. Hey, is your signature a reference to "Welcome to Nightvale?"

    1. Jade
    2. shotinthehand

      shotinthehand

      Cool! I'm in in the middle of the podcast right now. Cecil is such a dear when he talks about Carlos and it's fun to listen to as a fan, but my skin crawls when I think of someone describing me like that haha

  10. I found it through tumblr! Here's a poll about how everyone found it.
  11. Hmm. It's confusing for me. On the one hand, I don't really mind being seen naked. On the other hand, if I've been self-harming regularly, I don't exactly want to shove a lovely mosaic of large wounds in people's faces. Even my scars tend to be.....personal for me. It's not the skin--it's the reveal of wounds. A couple months ago I got a cut on my neck and I ended up surprised at how uncomfortable I suddenly was at my neck showing; now that it's healed, I have no issue with it. I don't see anything sexual with nudity, especially as an artist who's friends with artists.
  12. http://tab.gladly.io/?r=7440 is my tab for a cause referral link! I will also donate to a charity of your choice. Thank you everyone who's willing to do this! One correction to the original post: it is Giving Tuesday, not Giving Thursday; the .25 offer lasts until 2PM Wednesday PST, due to time zones. Also, in the spirit of Giving Tuesday, I highly recommend people with spare money to check out charities to donate to; many have special offers going on now that won't last much longer! For example, yesterday I donated to Mercy For Animals while t
  13. Hi. I've been in an abusive friendship before, too. You're not alone, okay? You're not crazy. She's hurting, gaslighting, and abusing you. Please, get away from her while you can. Don't let her back, no matter how much you want to. It's going to be hard, especially going to school with her. PM me if you want to talk more, this is a personal topic for me so I don't want to spend too much time talking about myself here, but I want you to know that you're not alone because I've been there. I'm here for you.
  14. Oh gosh, yes, this! I'm already dehumanized enough for being crazy, being aro is such a double-whammy... And there's the fact that I have a lot of Scary Neurodivergencies™ and I'm an alloaro (both stereotyped to be monstrous, predatory). I'm the sweetest person but nobody would believe it because of how my brain is. yup. I'm not autistic, but I don't know if I've ever found a place that accepted all of me; I feel like I'm too aro for lesbians, too lesbian for the aros, too crazy for the overall lgbt community, too queer for the disability community. My identity gets chopped up i
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