alto Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 Does anyone else here think that the concept of "the one" is pure bullshit? I mean, I have never assumed that there is one person out there that is a perfect match for me. Instead, I think that there are a lot of people out there that could be compatible for me if I was willing to do some relationship stretches, and if they were willing to do some as well. I think this is a far more hopeful way of looking at things than the narrative pushed by our culture. I remember I was once talking with my friend Eli about the concept of a soul mate. He said that he defines soul mate as the person that you are destined to be with. I personally define soul mate as someone who is so much like you that it is a bit scary. I don't know if we look at things differently because I am aro (or at least gray-aro), but I thought that was interesting. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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