InvertedRainbow Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Hey, we're a plural system consisting of 2 members (not did), and we're both pretty sure that we're some form of aro/gray-ace. We were aro for the first 20 years of our life, so it feels pretty familiar. It's just confusing because before we realized that we might be aro, we were hyperromantic (since plurality is a form of neurodivergence, and being hyperromantic is linked to being neurodiverse). For now identifying as aro makes sense to us, it just feels right. So yeah, that's our story. ^ ^ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erederyn Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Welcome! Figuring out identity can for sure be confusing, but I'm glad that you've found some clarity for now. I hope you both feel welcome and find what you need here 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apathetic Echidna Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 May I just say that this 13 hours ago, InvertedRainbow said: For now identifying as aro makes sense to us, it just feels right. is the best way I have seen anyone frame their orientation. I have started to worry about people using definite statements to acknowledge their orientation, when orientation can be a fluid thing. So, welcome and thank you! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karst Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 You don't have to answer this question if you think it's too personal, but how do orientations... work?... for people who are plural? Do they have to be a matching set, so to speak? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nessa Posted May 19, 2021 Share Posted May 19, 2021 Welcome ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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